Cancer and Virgo

Okay, so I have known my cancer since 2015. We were close but the universe put me back east and him out west. So in 2016 he stops talking to me and I accept it but still loved him anyways. He goes and has a relationship with a woman with a black heart n mind. He contacts me now in 2017 saying sorry it took him this long to appreciate me. I accept and we start talking again but he blows hot n cold again......go days or a week without saying anything. So, being the Virgo I am. I respectfully tell him I am going to respect and honor him by stepping away. I hear from him the next day and he says, "you know I love you." says, "if he can't take care of himself then how is he going to take care of me?" I reassure him that money is not everything and I love him quirks and all. I tell him that I just want to grow old with him and die with my best friend/love..him. He says, I wish your head was on my chest so I could explain. Now, it has been 30 hrs since I have heard from him. I am extremely patient and understanding. We both have similarities but enough differences. Virgos need alone time bc we are thinkers. Is he playing with me? What is going on? I know he does love me but his days of silence confuses me. Please give me constructive answers

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Okay, so I have known my cancer since 2015. We were close but the universe put me back east and him out west. So in 2016 he stops talking to me and I accept it but still loved him anyways. He goes and has a relationship with a woman with a black heart n mind. He contacts me now in 2017 saying sorry it took him this long to appreciate me. I accept and we start talking again but he blows hot n cold again......go days or a week without saying anything. So, being the Virgo I am. I respectfully tell him I am going to respect and honor him by stepping away. I hear from him the next day and he says, "you know I love you." says, "if he can't take care of himself then how is he going to take care of me?" I reassure him that money is not everything and I love him quirks and all. I tell him that I just want to grow old with him and die with my best friend/love..him. He says, I wish your head was on my chest so I could explain. Now, it has been 30 hrs since I have heard from him. I am extremely patient and understanding. We both have similarities but enough differences. Virgos need alone time bc we are thinkers. Is he playing with me? What is going on? I know he does love me but his days of silence confuses me. Please give me constructive answers

I often worry myself are not good enough to take care others as well. I think it's because of insecure of future.

Does he has a stable job? Did you know the reason of him breaking up his ex?

He has always said I am the one but I guess he had to find out that for sure. He broke up with his ex because he realized she was an illusion. He has a stable job but he is not happy in his job. He says he is good at his job.

I don't know his other placements. I know he did tell me he is dealing with depression right now which he shared with me. I was supportive.

Financial insecurities and uncertainty is a challenging aspect to over come.

Keep an arms distance for now don't over invest until he puts all his cards on the table and you know exactly what your getting in return.

Thank you. Weeds, explain arms distance. Just stop texting him bc last time he wondered why I did or text every 4 days.—