Cancer and Virgo hELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So i need major help..right now i love this guy... he is a virgo.. we have known each other a year come august. he helped me out when i needed a place to stay and we lived together for like 4 mos... during that time i fell head over heels for him... not to say that i hadn't already!!!! however when it came time for me to move out on my own things changed drastically.... i found out that he had been fucking his ex and me at the same time.. while we were never exclusive he lied to me about this.. because i asked him several times.... after a big blow up..in which me and his ex gave him hell,.... we didn't talk for a month... i was extremely hurt and felt like my world had collapsed... he then called me out of the blue and we made plans to hang out... we have been hanging out since then.. we have the understanding that we are not boyfriends but friends yet.. we have told each other that we love each other... my dilemma is that i love him a lot.. but i'm starting to fall out of love with him... (there is another guy... a leo.. who i have been hanging out with who does return my phone calls and texts) the virgo can sometimes take days to return my phone calls and texts if he ever does... .. i am starting to get annoyed with the fuck friend relationship.. and i don't know how tell him that... if i should even tell him that.. i'm afraid if i do tell him that he will run away...

you need to run away as fast as you can. those damn virgos will drive you freakin nuts. my exvirgal did the same thing about not returning texts or phone calls. she drove me to the brink of frustration to which i finally broke up with her. anyway, i guess i wasn't much help but i just like ragging on virgos whenever i can. dang, the current girl i am dating is a virgo. maybe i should stop being bitter. sorry i know i wasn't much help 😢

This has nothing to do with starsigns here.

The fact is, he is not trustworthy, is this what you want in a relationship?

If the answer is yes, then go ahead, get back with him.

If the answer is no, just leave the cheat and be happy you are out of there.

It all depends what you want out of your relationships. I know what I would do in your case, but it's up to you.

And he is unreliable and disrespectful. Sorry, but this is a no-brainer question.

I know but i love him... and the times we are together things seem so right... its just sometimes things can be.. how do you deal with your virgo cansir ?

well i got rid of the last one and the current one has not really shown any true type of virgo characteristics. of course what makes a huge difference is where people are at in their lives. the current one seems to be a lot more stable and mature compared to the last one. i don't know why i am such a virgo magnet.

buti agree with lubenica, anyone who is disrespectful and unfaithful is not worth your time or love. those are two automatic deal breakers for me. no questions asked.

but if you want to annoy the crap out of just keep asking him to open up and show emotions. they hate showing any type of emotions so that should get him to start feeling uncomfortable which will make him go away and ponder things for however long they ponder things. from what i hear could be a long long time. so by that time mr. virgo pops back up you and mr. leo would have already hooked up and moved on. sorry don't mean to take your situation lightly but like i said i have had my share of headaches with virgos.

i saw you posted on the virgo board. i think those robots can probably help you out a little more since they seem to be the only ones who understand one another.

good advice... and they say virgo and cancer are compatible...wtf!!!!

"those robots" hahaha

Cansir, you crack me up

But honestly, there are not that many Cancer-Virgo relationships in real life. Find a Taurus, Scorpio or perhaps Leo, they would work better. Oh, sorry, you already have a leo, there you go (I know cancir's leo didn't work out, but I'd still give it a try)

and they say virgo and cancer are compatible...wtf!!!!


july i hear yeah on that one. i thought the same thing. i am 0 for 2 in the virgo dept. and with this new one time will only tell. but everyone on here says that virgo/cancer are better friends than lovers.

but seriously you need to do what is right for you and what makes you happy. i know everyone is different and from what i understand virgo women are really different from virgo men. well i think that works in life anyway since men and women are completely different. but like a true romantic cancer i say follow your heart and be true to yourself. everything will work out as it always does in the end.

ok now that i think about it i will let others help you out since my exwife is a leo..lol..

Cancir,

where have SEX GODS of the zodiac thread gone? Oh my God, I can't believe it. Someone has removed it. Oh, dear, what are we going to do now?

i don't know i thought my eyes were playing tricks on me. but yeah it is gone, someone better have a good explanation for this!!

hmph....

Yeah, me too. I tought my eyes have given up on me for a second....but unfortunately not. Someone better had a VERY GOOD explanation for this (it must be the jealous signs who removed it)

Anyway, I always taught it was just a beautiful dream. Cancir, perhaps we were just dreaming about it all?

Weird, really, it was such a good thread 😢

hmph....

Lady Scorp, it wasn't you, was it, LOL

Or hmph is some mysterious acronym...

We are heartbroken, totally devastated. Life is not fair.

No, mystery has been solved.

Just read that Aprilbaby has deleted her dxp account, presumably the topic has gone, too.

Damn, life really is not fair. All those compliments....sob...sob...

lol Lubenica...I didn't do anything....hmph

I know, I know, you are the last person who would have done it.

It got removed when AprilBaby left. What a shame.

I have 2 had an experience with a Virgo/Leo relationship. Virgo's just have distant feelings and they love the challenge. U cannot B easy for the Virgo. Telling them 2 open up and show their feelings will have 2 come on their own terms. Being positive vs their negatives will help U each and every time with a Virgo. Just remember, Virgo's just keep a big distance away from their feelings because they don't want U 2 know just how much, they truly love U. But, if they do love U, and U don't take is seriously. Then they will B off 2 the next. Oh, and U have 2 B heavy hearted. NO, lightness here. If that helps. That is what U get from a Virgo. He is not a romantic like Cancers and if U just remember 2 not EXPECT it, things will work out fine. If he is a cheater, let him go.

dang i wish aprilbaby would have let us known before she left so we could have copied all that good stuff about us down. i guess we will just have to start a new thread about us being sex gods and goddesses of the zodiac 😉

Oh, and NEVER assume NOTHING. I would not let ANYONE in my life completely that wants a relationship based off assumptions. U have 2 tell them up front. U want a relationship and don't put NO pressure on it. B honest! Or go with the flow and don't assume that he wants the same thing as U do. If U R not exclusive, and he shows NO, signs of committing then it is UP 2 U, 2 show him how 2 commit 2 U. And have time and patience 2 let go, and let him go on and do his thing, while U focus strickly on U. B less available with your time when he wants it, do things 4 U, and keep your heart tucked away. I know it is hard, but believe me, if U do alot of other things that keep your life busy. This will TRAIN U 2 put yourself FIRST! U will notice your feelings can get very distant and it feels good. LOL! Very good 2 know how 2 control your feelings. Us, Leo's R very lovable, generous, compassionate, understanding. But, we R NOT pushovers! AT ALL! So, U can try it with the Leo, but if U cross him, U R sure 2 B put on hold. And it will B real hard 4 U, 2 claim that spot back.