virgo and cancer? can they work?

My boyfriend of 11monts (virgo) broke up with me 2 months ago. (I am a cancer).
The sad thing is - we had a really good friendship - connected well, emotionally, physically, understood each other.
I cut him totally off because he somewhat betrayed my trust.
I do miss him alot and everything I read about cancers and virgos together is positive.
I know he still loves me (somewhat) and misses me.
This is really hard for me, cause my aching cancer heart is broken.
Any repsonse?

Virgo and Cancer CAN work. In your case, there seems to be communication difficulties. Did he tell you WHY he wanted to break up with you?

Virgo and cancer can work if virgo is not too critical and cancer is not too moody. 🙂 see what I mean?

the reason for break-up came when he went out of town (alone) - came back and told me he met someone there. He felt he was "honest" enough to tell me that he thought he needed to be single, but loved and missed me, and hoped we could be "friends". Ugh!! Give me a break! I totally cut him off - TOTALLY!

Hi! I am a Scorpio. The problem with Virgos is that they are so restrained that they can be sometimes secretive with people. They also aren't as emotional as us Cancers and Scorpions are. Don't go back to your boyfriend if he betrayed you. You need to find yourself a Pisces, but preferably a Scorpion who can love you the way you love--With your heart!

I am a virgo. I went out with a cancer guy for 6 years and broke up now. We both are deeply hurt. Cancers are smart,loving,fun and full of emotions. I know he loved me madly. However, I couldn't love him back the way he did to me. We were sincere and devoted to each other. But his moodies and my aloofness was the biggest problem. He left me and went out with another girl for 6 months and then came back to me. I cut off the relationship for this reason. But honestly, I was tired of emotional rollar coaster. I still love and miss him.

True love surely doesn't come easy. But you gotta find a person who you can get along naturally, who can happily offer you what you want and need. Love should make two people better, not with confusion and hurt.

I think astrological compatibilities are quite true. But it doesn't gurantee the success of relationships. It takes effort from BOTH parties to make a beautiful relationship.

Esther, that is very true about what you said--You need both parties to work together towards a loving relationship. Absolutely, that's what makes the best of them last!

thanks guys - - this has been a very tough time for me! Sometimes, I feel like a gerble in a cage running around in the wheel going nowhere with this.
I hope it passes soon - thanks for all your support! I need it!

Hey well I wish you all the best in love. You are a water sign--don't forget that!!! Find another water sign. If you are looking for the deepest love and affection possible (and will give it to your lover in return), go for the Scorpio!!! You won't regret it.

I totally agree.

You were smart to break up with your Virgo ex. It's true that Virgos can be secretive, like Scorpios can be. It's because they're shy and reserved and terrified of getting hurt or hurting others. It's unfortunate that many male Virgos - usually more often than female - have tremendous difficulty with communicating in serious relationships. It's not hard to understand why the sign Virgo has the most bachelors and bachelorettes.