I truly enjoy posting too. I can understand why you would feel a little cautiou about what would happen if you break-up. I personally feel that one good friend is better than ten past lovers. So if you feel that a friendship is safer than a wantabe romance, then promote that type of imitmacy over the other. But don't even think about telling him that you're attracted to someone esle, until he tells you that he's attracted to someone esle. Then you may have a smooth transition out of this and into something that could truly last a lifetime. Just one scorpios' opinion.