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Cancer Guy Aries Girl compatibility advices please
bexi,
1. You have to avoid male friends - they are very jealous and possessive.
2. Give him assurance that he is the only one.
3. Don't be too emotional - you already have a very emotional partner. So try to balance the situation.
4. Don't be harsh when you correct him. Keep it simple not accusable and angry. Cancer are nagger. lol
I hope it works for you.
1. You have to avoid male friends - they are very jealous and possessive.
2. Give him assurance that he is the only one.
3. Don't be too emotional - you already have a very emotional partner. So try to balance the situation.
4. Don't be harsh when you correct him. Keep it simple not accusable and angry. Cancer are nagger. lol
I hope it works for you.
Thank you M143 🙂
Yeah, nagging, sulking.. And the feeling down for no reason, what have I gotten myself into? :p
But I have had flowers and poetry sent to him when he was down and weary and he LOVED that, guess i have to view him as a ''girl'' in need of reassurance, and me the hero taking on the responsibilities of his fragile mood. But the thing is I might get more out if it than my previous relationships, and I really want something genuine, loving and caring and even the bedroom things surprised me..I am an aries, a handful in that aspect for most males :p
So I guess it's a small price to pay to put up with these ''insecurities'' as I view them to be.
Avoid male friends..hmm..Good thing that 70% of my friends are male then... lol
Yeah, nagging, sulking.. And the feeling down for no reason, what have I gotten myself into? :p
But I have had flowers and poetry sent to him when he was down and weary and he LOVED that, guess i have to view him as a ''girl'' in need of reassurance, and me the hero taking on the responsibilities of his fragile mood. But the thing is I might get more out if it than my previous relationships, and I really want something genuine, loving and caring and even the bedroom things surprised me..I am an aries, a handful in that aspect for most males :p
So I guess it's a small price to pay to put up with these ''insecurities'' as I view them to be.
Avoid male friends..hmm..Good thing that 70% of my friends are male then... lol
My advice as a fellow aries girl who has been with a moody, sensitive cancer ( very short lived) unless you want to be totally consumed by this crab RUN!!!
Yes, that is my fear.
And I hate it when we aries girls, or me at least finally gets vowed over and get attached only to find it doesn't work.
I put up a long resistance, as I love my independance, but I know I am a sucker when I fall and after that can put up with way too much. Going from a fierce ram to a lamb in no time :p
I think I'll hold my cards close to my chest and let him prove himself and see if this is worthwhile in the long run, he is very serious, and if you have dated one you know how pushy they can be.
We do meet in the middle, and it's a great learning process for both of us if nothing more, I have already learnt much about me and how I go about things, and he has too.
But then again I find something wrong in all of them, think I have dated every sign in the zodiac, except aries, and probably the only one who would get me, and vice versa...
But thank you MadMarchRam 🙂
And I hate it when we aries girls, or me at least finally gets vowed over and get attached only to find it doesn't work.
I put up a long resistance, as I love my independance, but I know I am a sucker when I fall and after that can put up with way too much. Going from a fierce ram to a lamb in no time :p
I think I'll hold my cards close to my chest and let him prove himself and see if this is worthwhile in the long run, he is very serious, and if you have dated one you know how pushy they can be.
We do meet in the middle, and it's a great learning process for both of us if nothing more, I have already learnt much about me and how I go about things, and he has too.
But then again I find something wrong in all of them, think I have dated every sign in the zodiac, except aries, and probably the only one who would get me, and vice versa...
But thank you MadMarchRam 🙂
Just keep communication open. And respect each other. Enjoy the fun!
Thank you all for nice words 🙂
Yes we had a long good talk today, he gave me a sincere and thoughtful apology and said he is overracting too much and thankful for me putting up with it, when it was really unfair on my account. He said, babe you have actually never done or said anything wrong! Wow, that I needed, for I really couldn't understand what I had said wrong in most cases.
He really has thought about it. And I told him like I wrote here earlier that this is really a learning experience for me, and him to be able to see ourselves in a new way, he agreed and found it valuable. He said he had thought abt his jealous tendencies and wanted to deal with it, I hadn't brought it up.
I told him a little bit jealousy CAN be endearing from time to time, but not if it limits the other person or the relationship itself. And I asked him to share those thoughts with me, talk me through it when he felt like that, without being harsh. He said he never wanted to bicker ever again, as he felt like he was dying when I got upset. We haven't really fought or had heated arguments, just minor stuff that makes us both sick, I hate fighting regardless who's arguing.
So far it's a good and interesting experience, the way we are able to meet in the middle and reconcile asap.
But who knew cancers was this stubborn tho 😛
I guess the hardest part is mood-prediction, I notice the day before a full moon and the day after he is emotional.
I as an aries usually only sympathize when it's justified, like if something bad has actually happened, but now I am learning to understand mood changes, I have a very steady cheerful mood so this is all new to me :p
Yes we had a long good talk today, he gave me a sincere and thoughtful apology and said he is overracting too much and thankful for me putting up with it, when it was really unfair on my account. He said, babe you have actually never done or said anything wrong! Wow, that I needed, for I really couldn't understand what I had said wrong in most cases.
He really has thought about it. And I told him like I wrote here earlier that this is really a learning experience for me, and him to be able to see ourselves in a new way, he agreed and found it valuable. He said he had thought abt his jealous tendencies and wanted to deal with it, I hadn't brought it up.
I told him a little bit jealousy CAN be endearing from time to time, but not if it limits the other person or the relationship itself. And I asked him to share those thoughts with me, talk me through it when he felt like that, without being harsh. He said he never wanted to bicker ever again, as he felt like he was dying when I got upset. We haven't really fought or had heated arguments, just minor stuff that makes us both sick, I hate fighting regardless who's arguing.
So far it's a good and interesting experience, the way we are able to meet in the middle and reconcile asap.
But who knew cancers was this stubborn tho 😛
I guess the hardest part is mood-prediction, I notice the day before a full moon and the day after he is emotional.
I as an aries usually only sympathize when it's justified, like if something bad has actually happened, but now I am learning to understand mood changes, I have a very steady cheerful mood so this is all new to me :p
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