Me and the Cancer I have been dating got into a fight. It was pretty bad and we were both wrong and very angry. I apologized for my part he has not so I ended it. In ending it I gave him his Christmas present. I told him I did not want anything from him not even communication and the gift was his to keep. I wrote a heartfelt note to say I did care will always pray for him but would not force his love. I left him alone but he is now back communicating. The conversation was short and I asked him once again would you like for us to go our separate ways because I do not want to force things. He said no but he just cant go back to being okay instantly (Its been three weeks) but he was not mad at me anymore. I said okay and have not texted him since. At this point I feel like maybe we should end all communication. His Venus is in Cancer too. I don't even know if I want a relationship because he has dragged this out for so long. But I am trying to be kind and patient to someone I care for. I would like to gain a better understanding on where he is coming from or what he may be feeling. Why not let this go? Why keep communicating if you cant move past it? Do you really care about someone if you act this way? Is this a Cancer thing or isolated?
Cancer Man
Scorpio
Posted by CanbullriusI can be mean with my words but actually he is the one with anger issues. He is in security so he gets physical with ppl and loves it. He gets a thrill from it. And his ex gemini was abusive. He has been through a lot. I again used mean words but only when he lied to me and I apologized.Posted by LovePeaceJoy88Do you have anger issues? do you find you struggle sometimes with anger? Not saying you do i'm going off experience with my previous Scorpio female.
Scorpio
It ended up sour, she punched me in the nose and i pushed her, it ended there.
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What was the Christmas present?
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What was the Christmas present?
Posted by CanbullriusIf he gets to angry and only if he is angry I do not think he can control it. I have never seen him angry in person because we argued though the phone but he has told me stories. So the second one. He does have mood swings tho and sometimes goes to work seeking a fight.Posted by LovePeaceJoy88Does he struggle to control his emotional angry outbursts? or is it a case he can fly off the handles only when pushed so far.Posted by CanbullriusI can be mean with my words but actually he is the one with anger issues. He is in security so he gets physical with ppl and loves it. He gets a thrill from it. And his ex gemini was abusive. He has been through a lot. I again used mean words but only when he lied to me and I apologized.Posted by LovePeaceJoy88Do you have anger issues? do you find you struggle sometimes with anger? Not saying you do i'm going off experience with my previous Scorpio female.
Scorpio
It ended up sour, she punched me in the nose and i pushed her, it ended there.
The reason i ask is because the first summary is a dangerous person, the second can be worked with.
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Posted by LovePeaceJoy88What color?Posted by SecretFloor seats to a game.
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I have never met a Cancer with anger problems so this is a first for me. But he did his ex gf when she hit him ( not to make excuses). You are probably right.
Posted by SecretNot sure if I understand your questionPosted by LovePeaceJoy88What color?Posted by SecretFloor seats to a game.
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Posted by LovePeaceJoy88What color are the floor seats you bought.Posted by SecretNot sure if I understand your questionPosted by LovePeaceJoy88What color?Posted by SecretFloor seats to a game.
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Posted by CanbullriusYou are right I have told him I do not agree with you hitting her and he is a big guy. I see the good in people and just want him to be a stable place emotionally but I do have a mouth on me. Maybe it is best this way.Posted by LovePeaceJoy88Hitting someone is a huge difference from pushing someone in defence, for your own safety run the opposite way.
I have never met a Cancer with anger problems so this is a first for me. But he did his ex gf when she hit him ( not to make excuses). You are probably right.
Emotional angry people are the worst purely because a Cancers emotions are far stronger and uncontrollable when there are no barriers to prevent it.
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Posted by LovePeaceJoy88So the seats are already there?Posted by SecretFloor seats to a sports game. No color they are behind the rim seat.Posted by LovePeaceJoy88What color are the floor seats you bought.Posted by SecretNot sure if I understand your questionPosted by LovePeaceJoy88What color?Posted by SecretFloor seats to a game.
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Posted by SecretOh you're just being funny. I thought you were trying to help but lolPosted by LovePeaceJoy88So the seats are already there?Posted by SecretFloor seats to a sports game. No color they are behind the rim seat.Posted by LovePeaceJoy88What color are the floor seats you bought.Posted by SecretNot sure if I understand your questionPosted by LovePeaceJoy88What color?Posted by SecretFloor seats to a game.
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Posted by LovePeaceJoy88😉Posted by SecretOh you're just being funny. I thought you were trying to help but lolPosted by LovePeaceJoy88So the seats are already there?Posted by SecretFloor seats to a sports game. No color they are behind the rim seat.Posted by LovePeaceJoy88What color are the floor seats you bought.Posted by SecretNot sure if I understand your questionPosted by LovePeaceJoy88What color?Posted by SecretFloor seats to a game.
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Posted by LovePeaceJoy88Sorry I really have to go now, but I'm sure a lot of people will help you. Just wait another hour or so.Posted by SecretAny advice? before you go spread laughter someplace else?Posted by LovePeaceJoy88😉Posted by SecretOh you're just being funny. I thought you were trying to help but lolPosted by LovePeaceJoy88So the seats are already there?Posted by SecretFloor seats to a sports game. No color they are behind the rim seat.Posted by LovePeaceJoy88What color are the floor seats you bought.Posted by SecretNot sure if I understand your questionPosted by LovePeaceJoy88What color?Posted by SecretFloor seats to a game.
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It was nice meeting you.

What was the argument/fight about, specifically? What went down and how?

I hate to say it but Cancer/Scorpio fights can be intense? Why? because they are emotionally charged fights it usually starts out with a mis-understanding. The Scorpio woman I was with was the only woman in my life that I had emotionally charged fights with.
The root of the problem with Scorpio and Cancer is communication because we are both intuitive signs we understand each other we speak with out words. I know the people that were around me and the Scorpio would say how did you know what she wanted. When you are using communication with out words it can go side ways usually when I didn't pay attention to what she wanted. Most of the times it was fine I was the one that knew when something was troubling her the others were oblivious, I would always ask her if she was okay.
Cancer's don't usually like confrontation we will avoid it, the Scorpio I was with on the other hand she wasn't afraid of confrontation she would want answers right away if I didn't have the answers she wold get mad. A Cancer will dance around a problem until we decide what we want to do with it. Scorpios are so damn black and white there is no in-between they want to know.
Your crab man will come back he needs some space he probably does love you we as Cancers show it not say it. If things get too much we will say fvck it and walk away but it has to be pretty bad before we would do that.
The Scorpio and I have since gone out separate ways its for the better I doubt we would forget each other.
The root of the problem with Scorpio and Cancer is communication because we are both intuitive signs we understand each other we speak with out words. I know the people that were around me and the Scorpio would say how did you know what she wanted. When you are using communication with out words it can go side ways usually when I didn't pay attention to what she wanted. Most of the times it was fine I was the one that knew when something was troubling her the others were oblivious, I would always ask her if she was okay.
Cancer's don't usually like confrontation we will avoid it, the Scorpio I was with on the other hand she wasn't afraid of confrontation she would want answers right away if I didn't have the answers she wold get mad. A Cancer will dance around a problem until we decide what we want to do with it. Scorpios are so damn black and white there is no in-between they want to know.
Your crab man will come back he needs some space he probably does love you we as Cancers show it not say it. If things get too much we will say fvck it and walk away but it has to be pretty bad before we would do that.
The Scorpio and I have since gone out separate ways its for the better I doubt we would forget each other.
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