I need some advice....I went with a Cancer male for about 2 years. We had a great relationship. However, we broke up last year, which was his senior year in high school. I am now about to graduate high school. He went away to College and started going out with one of my little sisters friends which just turned 16. So he is going on 19 years old going with a 16. However, he has stayed in contact with me for the most part this whole time. Even last week he was asking my mom where I was and how everyone in my family was doing, which implies he is asking about me. Also, he asked me if I was still going with this guy. It is hard to be friends after going together for 2 years, it doesn''t seem possible. But it also seems to me that he shouldn''t care what I am doing, or if I''m still going with the same guy or not. It shouldn''t matter to him after all this time. He says he is over me and has a girlfriend. So I don''t really understand where he is coming from. Can anyone help me to understand? I''ll take any thoughts you may have.
Cancer man and me....
Julie,
I've seen you tell this story earlier on, and in my opinion it is so very time for you to move on - If he is telling you he is over you, which he is, he has another girlfriend. Are you sure you are not looking for someone to tell you he still loves you? You never mentioned your age or what sign you are?
I am a cancer myself, and if I'm not mistaken he was seeing her when he was seeing you?? He's too young to know what love is just yet (both of you are).
You should just let it go and find someone new who will not fool around on you - If it was ment to be it will happen - so forget him - Let go and Let God take care of this one OK. You sound like a little sweety - there is someone out there who will love you much better and make you feel more secure.
I've seen you tell this story earlier on, and in my opinion it is so very time for you to move on - If he is telling you he is over you, which he is, he has another girlfriend. Are you sure you are not looking for someone to tell you he still loves you? You never mentioned your age or what sign you are?
I am a cancer myself, and if I'm not mistaken he was seeing her when he was seeing you?? He's too young to know what love is just yet (both of you are).
You should just let it go and find someone new who will not fool around on you - If it was ment to be it will happen - so forget him - Let go and Let God take care of this one OK. You sound like a little sweety - there is someone out there who will love you much better and make you feel more secure.
Julie,
One thing about Cancer people...just like the crab they are, once they get their claws on something, they don't let go. They keep memories alive and find it hard to let go of anything they once had or even collected. They are very moody though and need comfort knowing someone still there cares about them. If your Cancer guy is still asking about you, most likely he always will. They care for people full-hearted and wish to make the world a happier place.Consider it a comliment he still asks, alot of signs move on without a scecond thought.Be glad you had your time with such a compassionate person.
Check out your compatibility and see what the stars hold. As I get older, life is worth the risk when it comes to love.
One thing about Cancer people...just like the crab they are, once they get their claws on something, they don't let go. They keep memories alive and find it hard to let go of anything they once had or even collected. They are very moody though and need comfort knowing someone still there cares about them. If your Cancer guy is still asking about you, most likely he always will. They care for people full-hearted and wish to make the world a happier place.Consider it a comliment he still asks, alot of signs move on without a scecond thought.Be glad you had your time with such a compassionate person.
Check out your compatibility and see what the stars hold. As I get older, life is worth the risk when it comes to love.
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