Cancer man keeping quiet

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by pixielove on Sunday, November 20, 2016 and has 1 replies.

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@pixielove
9 Years

Hey guys,

I wrote couple of weeks ago but did not get many responses. So I thought I would write again.

My cancer and I have been together for three years. He has been very good to me and he has been patient with me. But six months ago we broke up due to my own doing and he asked me to take care of myself and heal and if the time is right then I could contact him and then will see where to go from there. I contacted him couple of weeks ago but he did not answer my call and after two weeks I sent a text. He didnt reply back to that either. I am wondering now is he testing because knowing him he is very cautious and is he trying to be extra careful before he opens the door again or has he moved on and he wants me to get his answer through his silence and move on? I also know he is someone who is very blunt who would tell me to move but I really dont know right now. I am trying to remain quiet but it is not easy not knowing.Kindly give a helpful advice.

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@Shellyd238
11 Years

I think it's time to move on.

If you want to put the ball in his court, you can send him a last text letting him know that since he never responded to you, you are going to assume he doesn't want to reconnect, and you will respect that and move on. Wish him well, and be done.

Now you need to really heal.