Cancer Man, Leo Mother and Taurus Girlfriend!

Hi Guys!

Having a pretty hard time getting over my ex!

We had a four year relationship! I loved him deeply and so did he, but I had to end the relationship!Its been two years now, and I am still hurt and angry that the relationship did not work out!

Security is important for a Taurus Girl, Family is important for a Cancer Man and Power important for a Leo Mother.

Here is a brief overview of our past...

His mom (Leo) disliked me, and I disliked her. She wanted his attention and so did I! Despite my efforts to try and resolve our differences, I was never accepted by his mother. I was always excluded from his family gatherings, and he always expected me to accept it. He always used to tell me to give his mother time, and that one day all would be good. How much more time was I supposed to give for this relationship to work out?

Picture this scenario:

I am sitting in the car with my Cancer Man, when his mother phones...

Cancer Man: Hi mom!
Leo Mother: Hi! Who you with?
Cancer Man: I am with a colleague!
Taurus Girlfriend: What? What about "I am with my girlfriend?"

His mother is a powerful force in his life and he never wants to upset her, but in between all this I was always getting hurt... and he does not seem to understand that! He believes that if I loved him enough, I would not have ended the relationship.

How was I(the Taurus)supposed to have handled this situation?

I think you handled it correctly by walking away. If a man is not capable of giving this basic respect then walk away from them.

Thanks MellowDee! Its good to know that I did the right thing!

We still talk once in a blue moon (well, actually I phone him to see how he is doing), and I can sense that he is still very bitter and angry about our relationship, just as much as I am.

I wish we could still have been together...but under these circumstances I think I would have eventually lost respect for myself.

I just wish he could understand my point of view and accept some responsibility for the outcomes of this relationship.

if he's too weak to stand up to his mother you are better off....