Taurusallthewaytothebad
@Taurusallthewaytothebad
7 Years
Comments: 0 · Posts: 3 · Topics: 1
Cancer men are the only men who have treated me like I'm stupid! What is going on
First cancer I dated briefly last year I knew was not interested in being serious with me after a couple of dates - in my gut I could tell but in communication he said everything but that and it was as if he wanted to keep me on a string but then just sent more polite non flirty messages before never getting in touch again. All he avoided was not messaging me directly and telling me he didnt want to waste my time - which i would respect! Instead he made me more mad because he didnt seem to mind confusing me and making me think "all i need to do is be patient' when actually no my gut was right. This feels like disrespect because I was very direct with him and gave him the chance to walk away and still he feed me a story about how he just moves slow.
Three days ago I went on a date with another cancer who admittedly is bad with texting etc anyway... so even before we met I was unsure of his interest. However, in person, really nice and we had loads in common. Seemed like it definitely wouldn't be a once off date so the next day I let him know about this show that was on that we half discussed on date. I threw the rope and left it casual - he could reply either way but at least reply. He seen the message and didnt reply at all. He's a bad texter but not responding at all!!! Isn't that just rude? So the next day I sent him a message saying 'did i miss my cue to read between the lines'. I am annoyed why cant he just have the decency to respond that he isn't interested.I would never do this to someone who asked me on a second date ESPECIALLY if I wasnt interested I would release them from thinking about me asap. I wouldn't want to do that to someone.
These post are full of advice saying that this is just these guys and you have to be patient - really what cancer men out there can say 'im glad my girl was patient while I treated her dismissively know i can be proud of the strong woman I have in my arm'. Really do people really believe this?
No other men have treated me this immature way so it does stand out that these two guys are cancers. I also have male cancer friends who are yes men - say yes to everything and completely neglect the commitment they made to you - leaving it to the point where you are sitting alone in the restaurant waiting in them for them to cancel on you - and again my gut probably knew they were a no show but you could not have told that by their words - its ridiculous!
Three days ago I went on a date with another cancer who admittedly is bad with texting etc anyway... so even before we met I was unsure of his interest. However, in person, really nice and we had loads in common. Seemed like it definitely wouldn't be a once off date so the next day I let him know about this show that was on that we half discussed on date. I threw the rope and left it casual - he could reply either way but at least reply. He seen the message and didnt reply at all. He's a bad texter but not responding at all!!! Isn't that just rude? So the next day I sent him a message saying 'did i miss my cue to read between the lines'. I am annoyed why cant he just have the decency to respond that he isn't interested.I would never do this to someone who asked me on a second date ESPECIALLY if I wasnt interested I would release them from thinking about me asap. I wouldn't want to do that to someone.
These post are full of advice saying that this is just these guys and you have to be patient - really what cancer men out there can say 'im glad my girl was patient while I treated her dismissively know i can be proud of the strong woman I have in my arm'. Really do people really believe this?
No other men have treated me this immature way so it does stand out that these two guys are cancers. I also have male cancer friends who are yes men - say yes to everything and completely neglect the commitment they made to you - leaving it to the point where you are sitting alone in the restaurant waiting in them for them to cancel on you - and again my gut probably knew they were a no show but you could not have told that by their words - its ridiculous!
Test: I cant see this post in the topic!
I like Cancer women...but Cancer men are EVIL. They play hella games. I was dealing with one. Recently deleted him from my life. And the very same day, he called me to ask me if I was ok. I'm convinced all they want is an ego stroke. And they'll get that however they can from whomever they can. I'm never dealing with another one. Compatible where? How? Smdh
I have never been put on the shelf like this man tried to do with me. Do they expect you to put your life on pause for them? Assholes
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
LOL shouldn't ya'll be busy stealing other women's mens and trying to gold digg the lints off a virgos pants?
—
I guess you've been hurt by a Taurus. But...nah. I'm actually busy getting ready for a date w/ a non-cancer man. Lol
LULZ
I got the perfect thread for your post....
I got the perfect thread for your post....
⬆️ LOL!
Posted by TaurusFlower22This is what I was talking about in another cancer post and some cancers got butthurt. I know I knew what I was talking about. I know 3 like this so I'm not buggin.
I like Cancer women...but Cancer men are EVIL. They play hella games. I was dealing with one. Recently deleted him from my life. And the very same day, he called me to ask me if I was ok. I'm convinced all they want is an ego stroke. And they'll get that however they can from whomever they can. I'm never dealing with another one. Compatible where? How? Smdh
Posted by OneKnightSee and this is why yall end up with shitty ppl like a damn selfish ass cap cuz yall don't appreciate shit lmao look at this. This guy at work did this and I didn't get it til just now. Yall just like being treated like shit mkay got it lmaoo. I mean well I'll never be in that situation again but if I could go back....shoot lol
I'll explain, but I could be a bit brutal.
Taurus is opposite of Scorpio. Scorpio woman is the most difficult woman to seduce. So to us Cancers, naturally, Taurus seems the easiest. Maybe not true, but that's how it seems once you like us. Just look at you, you say you sit in the restaurant waiting for the Cancer to cancel. Imagine me sitting in the restaurant and you cancel on me. Your "stock" goes up. Now I'm angry, jealous, etc.
Now when it comes to intellect. This is straight from my gut: Cancers do not find Taurus people stimulating us intellectually. Taurus has a very narrow mind. That's why they are stable and finish projects. We value you for the Grounding effect. It feels amazing. No other Zodiac sign gives us so much contempt as you do. Same thing sexually. Most submissive woman in bed, but in a "here, do whatever you want" way. Again, you give in easily.
So what I'm trying to tell you is, each Zodiac woman is different. They provide us with different rewards. Someone has to be able to observe the benefits and fall in love with them, and ignore the difference. Don't stress yourself about a Cancer guy not texting. Don't text him, but be nice to him.
I met an outright beautiful Taurus chick (24) in Europe few months ago. Same thing. I put her on the shelf once I knew she could be mine. She wrote to me 2 days ago, and I did not reply either. We are authentic and we don't fall in love easily. So don't blame yourself. It's how we are. We don't understand how it all works either. That's why we are unpredictably random. It's only natural.
Posted by Cg2016Not necessarily. I see it as more then picking and choosing who they give their heart to, and it being someone they hyper value.Posted by OneKnightSee and this is why yall end up with shitty ppl like a damn selfish ass cap cuz yall don't appreciate shit lmao look at this. This guy at work did this and I didn't get it til just now. Yall just like being treated like shit mkay got it lmaoo. I mean well I'll never be in that situation again but if I could go back....shoot lol
I'll explain, but I could be a bit brutal.
Taurus is opposite of Scorpio. Scorpio woman is the most difficult woman to seduce. So to us Cancers, naturally, Taurus seems the easiest. Maybe not true, but that's how it seems once you like us. Just look at you, you say you sit in the restaurant waiting for the Cancer to cancel. Imagine me sitting in the restaurant and you cancel on me. Your "stock" goes up. Now I'm angry, jealous, etc.
Now when it comes to intellect. This is straight from my gut: Cancers do not find Taurus people stimulating us intellectually. Taurus has a very narrow mind. That's why they are stable and finish projects. We value you for the Grounding effect. It feels amazing. No other Zodiac sign gives us so much contempt as you do. Same thing sexually. Most submissive woman in bed, but in a "here, do whatever you want" way. Again, you give in easily.
So what I'm trying to tell you is, each Zodiac woman is different. They provide us with different rewards. Someone has to be able to observe the benefits and fall in love with them, and ignore the difference. Don't stress yourself about a Cancer guy not texting. Don't text him, but be nice to him.
I met an outright beautiful Taurus chick (24) in Europe few months ago. Same thing. I put her on the shelf once I knew she could be mine. She wrote to me 2 days ago, and I did not reply either. We are authentic and we don't fall in love easily. So don't blame yourself. It's how we are. We don't understand how it all works either. That's why we are unpredictably random. It's only natural.
click to expand
Doesn't mean they can't be shitty, and are probably shitty to a lot of girls on the way to finding that "home" for themselves though. lol
Posted by nikkistarPosted by Cg2016Not necessarily. I see it as more then picking and choosing who they give their heart to, and it being someone they hyper value.Posted by OneKnightSee and this is why yall end up with shitty ppl like a damn selfish ass cap cuz yall don't appreciate shit lmao look at this. This guy at work did this and I didn't get it til just now. Yall just like being treated like shit mkay got it lmaoo. I mean well I'll never be in that situation again but if I could go back....shoot lol
I'll explain, but I could be a bit brutal.
Taurus is opposite of Scorpio. Scorpio woman is the most difficult woman to seduce. So to us Cancers, naturally, Taurus seems the easiest. Maybe not true, but that's how it seems once you like us. Just look at you, you say you sit in the restaurant waiting for the Cancer to cancel. Imagine me sitting in the restaurant and you cancel on me. Your "stock" goes up. Now I'm angry, jealous, etc.
Now when it comes to intellect. This is straight from my gut: Cancers do not find Taurus people stimulating us intellectually. Taurus has a very narrow mind. That's why they are stable and finish projects. We value you for the Grounding effect. It feels amazing. No other Zodiac sign gives us so much contempt as you do. Same thing sexually. Most submissive woman in bed, but in a "here, do whatever you want" way. Again, you give in easily.
So what I'm trying to tell you is, each Zodiac woman is different. They provide us with different rewards. Someone has to be able to observe the benefits and fall in love with them, and ignore the difference. Don't stress yourself about a Cancer guy not texting. Don't text him, but be nice to him.
I met an outright beautiful Taurus chick (24) in Europe few months ago. Same thing. I put her on the shelf once I knew she could be mine. She wrote to me 2 days ago, and I did not reply either. We are authentic and we don't fall in love easily. So don't blame yourself. It's how we are. We don't understand how it all works either. That's why we are unpredictably random. It's only natural.
Doesn't mean they can't be shitty, and are probably shitty to a lot of girls on the way to finding that "home" for themselves though. lolclick to expand
Mannnn I did not have time for the mixed signals lol. Like everyone at my job could feel the romantic tension, that actually happened with me and another cancer guy before too at work everyone could feel the tension and I acknowledged it but the cancer would just be going along with his mixed signals. I always just leave it alone. I end up quitting and they always ask for me and like being shocked and blah blah after and it's like wow yet you spent your avoiding me but when I leave you're all interested lol. Weird stuff.
Posted by OneKnightHmm...so you guys think we're stupid! Lmao
I'll explain, but I could be a bit brutal.
Taurus is opposite of Scorpio. Scorpio woman is the most difficult woman to seduce. So to us Cancers, naturally, Taurus seems the easiest. Maybe not true, but that's how it seems once you like us. Just look at you, you say you sit in the restaurant waiting for the Cancer to cancel. Imagine me sitting in the restaurant and you cancel on me. Your "stock" goes up. Now I'm angry, jealous, etc.
Now when it comes to intellect. This is straight from my gut: Cancers do not find Taurus people stimulating us intellectually. Taurus has a very narrow mind. That's why they are stable and finish projects. We value you for the Grounding effect. It feels amazing. No other Zodiac sign gives us so much contempt as you do. Same thing sexually. Most submissive woman in bed, but in a "here, do whatever you want" way. Again, you give in easily.
So what I'm trying to tell you is, each Zodiac woman is different. They provide us with different rewards. Someone has to be able to observe the benefits and fall in love with them, and ignore the difference. Don't stress yourself about a Cancer guy not texting. Don't text him, but be nice to him.
I met an outright beautiful Taurus chick (24) in Europe few months ago. Same thing. I put her on the shelf once I knew she could be mine. She wrote to me 2 days ago, and I did not reply either. We are authentic and we don't fall in love easily. So don't blame yourself. It's how we are. We don't understand how it all works either. That's why we are unpredictably random. It's only natural.
My first girl in elementary school was a Taurus with a Moon in Aries. Loved her.
You know, the hard to get thing...I guess that explains why he was with the Cap woman for so long.
Looks like I've made the right decision.
Thank you! 😊
Posted by OneKnightAre you saying when they "shelf" you, it is their way of letting you know you aren't "home" for them?
@TaurusFlower22, whatever you do, do not change. Taurus has one of the nicest personalities. Taurus is not stupid at all, but their power comes from somewhere else.
Posted by nikkistar
Doesn't mean they can't be shitty, and are probably shitty to a lot of girls on the way to finding that "home" for themselves though. lol
This. Cancer will "go" from one woman to another until he "gets it right". Then it's forever.click to expand
Posted by Cg2016LOL, they do play a lot of mental games in the form of testing a person's loyalty. I will admit that. My own Cancer boyfriend did it to me, and sometimes I wanted to kill him for it. I have the patience of a saint though. lolPosted by nikkistarPosted by Cg2016Not necessarily. I see it as more then picking and choosing who they give their heart to, and it being someone they hyper value.Posted by OneKnightSee and this is why yall end up with shitty ppl like a damn selfish ass cap cuz yall don't appreciate shit lmao look at this. This guy at work did this and I didn't get it til just now. Yall just like being treated like shit mkay got it lmaoo. I mean well I'll never be in that situation again but if I could go back....shoot lol
I'll explain, but I could be a bit brutal.
Taurus is opposite of Scorpio. Scorpio woman is the most difficult woman to seduce. So to us Cancers, naturally, Taurus seems the easiest. Maybe not true, but that's how it seems once you like us. Just look at you, you say you sit in the restaurant waiting for the Cancer to cancel. Imagine me sitting in the restaurant and you cancel on me. Your "stock" goes up. Now I'm angry, jealous, etc.
Now when it comes to intellect. This is straight from my gut: Cancers do not find Taurus people stimulating us intellectually. Taurus has a very narrow mind. That's why they are stable and finish projects. We value you for the Grounding effect. It feels amazing. No other Zodiac sign gives us so much contempt as you do. Same thing sexually. Most submissive woman in bed, but in a "here, do whatever you want" way. Again, you give in easily.
So what I'm trying to tell you is, each Zodiac woman is different. They provide us with different rewards. Someone has to be able to observe the benefits and fall in love with them, and ignore the difference. Don't stress yourself about a Cancer guy not texting. Don't text him, but be nice to him.
I met an outright beautiful Taurus chick (24) in Europe few months ago. Same thing. I put her on the shelf once I knew she could be mine. She wrote to me 2 days ago, and I did not reply either. We are authentic and we don't fall in love easily. So don't blame yourself. It's how we are. We don't understand how it all works either. That's why we are unpredictably random. It's only natural.
Doesn't mean they can't be shitty, and are probably shitty to a lot of girls on the way to finding that "home" for themselves though. lol
Mannnn I did not have time for the mixed signals lol. Like everyone at my job could feel the romantic tension, that actually happened with me and another cancer guy before too at work everyone could feel the tension and I acknowledged it but the cancer would just be going along with his mixed signals. I always just leave it alone. I end up quitting and they always ask for me and like being shocked and blah blah after and it's like wow yet you spent your avoiding me but when I leave you're all interested lol. Weird stuff.
click to expand
But man, once they do open up fully and trust you explicitly with their heart, do you get the squishfest of lovingness. They are so freaking squishy and attentive once they have tested the SHIT out of you. lol
Posted by nikkistarMannn one thing I'm not is patient lmaoo. That's how I ended up with a Taurus. I need the balance lol. My mom is a cancer so I know how good hearted and nurturing they are so they get a pass usually lol.Posted by Cg2016LOL, they do play a lot of mental games in the form of testing a person's loyalty. I will admit that. My own Cancer boyfriend did it to me, and sometimes I wanted to kill him for it. I have the patience of a saint though. lolPosted by nikkistarPosted by Cg2016Not necessarily. I see it as more then picking and choosing who they give their heart to, and it being someone they hyper value.Posted by OneKnightSee and this is why yall end up with shitty ppl like a damn selfish ass cap cuz yall don't appreciate shit lmao look at this. This guy at work did this and I didn't get it til just now. Yall just like being treated like shit mkay got it lmaoo. I mean well I'll never be in that situation again but if I could go back....shoot lol
I'll explain, but I could be a bit brutal.
Taurus is opposite of Scorpio. Scorpio woman is the most difficult woman to seduce. So to us Cancers, naturally, Taurus seems the easiest. Maybe not true, but that's how it seems once you like us. Just look at you, you say you sit in the restaurant waiting for the Cancer to cancel. Imagine me sitting in the restaurant and you cancel on me. Your "stock" goes up. Now I'm angry, jealous, etc.
Now when it comes to intellect. This is straight from my gut: Cancers do not find Taurus people stimulating us intellectually. Taurus has a very narrow mind. That's why they are stable and finish projects. We value you for the Grounding effect. It feels amazing. No other Zodiac sign gives us so much contempt as you do. Same thing sexually. Most submissive woman in bed, but in a "here, do whatever you want" way. Again, you give in easily.
So what I'm trying to tell you is, each Zodiac woman is different. They provide us with different rewards. Someone has to be able to observe the benefits and fall in love with them, and ignore the difference. Don't stress yourself about a Cancer guy not texting. Don't text him, but be nice to him.
I met an outright beautiful Taurus chick (24) in Europe few months ago. Same thing. I put her on the shelf once I knew she could be mine. She wrote to me 2 days ago, and I did not reply either. We are authentic and we don't fall in love easily. So don't blame yourself. It's how we are. We don't understand how it all works either. That's why we are unpredictably random. It's only natural.
Doesn't mean they can't be shitty, and are probably shitty to a lot of girls on the way to finding that "home" for themselves though. lol
Mannnn I did not have time for the mixed signals lol. Like everyone at my job could feel the romantic tension, that actually happened with me and another cancer guy before too at work everyone could feel the tension and I acknowledged it but the cancer would just be going along with his mixed signals. I always just leave it alone. I end up quitting and they always ask for me and like being shocked and blah blah after and it's like wow yet you spent your avoiding me but when I leave you're all interested lol. Weird stuff.
But man, once they do open up fully and trust you explicitly with their heart, do you get the squishfest of lovingness. They are so freaking squishy and attentive once they have tested the SHIT out of you. lolclick to expand
Posted by Cg2016LOL!Posted by nikkistarMannn one thing I'm not is patient lmaoo. That's how I ended up with a Taurus. I need the balance lol. My mom is a cancer so I know how good hearted and nurturing they are so they get a pass usually lol.Posted by Cg2016LOL, they do play a lot of mental games in the form of testing a person's loyalty. I will admit that. My own Cancer boyfriend did it to me, and sometimes I wanted to kill him for it. I have the patience of a saint though. lolPosted by nikkistarPosted by Cg2016Not necessarily. I see it as more then picking and choosing who they give their heart to, and it being someone they hyper value.Posted by OneKnightSee and this is why yall end up with shitty ppl like a damn selfish ass cap cuz yall don't appreciate shit lmao look at this. This guy at work did this and I didn't get it til just now. Yall just like being treated like shit mkay got it lmaoo. I mean well I'll never be in that situation again but if I could go back....shoot lol
I'll explain, but I could be a bit brutal.
Taurus is opposite of Scorpio. Scorpio woman is the most difficult woman to seduce. So to us Cancers, naturally, Taurus seems the easiest. Maybe not true, but that's how it seems once you like us. Just look at you, you say you sit in the restaurant waiting for the Cancer to cancel. Imagine me sitting in the restaurant and you cancel on me. Your "stock" goes up. Now I'm angry, jealous, etc.
Now when it comes to intellect. This is straight from my gut: Cancers do not find Taurus people stimulating us intellectually. Taurus has a very narrow mind. That's why they are stable and finish projects. We value you for the Grounding effect. It feels amazing. No other Zodiac sign gives us so much contempt as you do. Same thing sexually. Most submissive woman in bed, but in a "here, do whatever you want" way. Again, you give in easily.
So what I'm trying to tell you is, each Zodiac woman is different. They provide us with different rewards. Someone has to be able to observe the benefits and fall in love with them, and ignore the difference. Don't stress yourself about a Cancer guy not texting. Don't text him, but be nice to him.
I met an outright beautiful Taurus chick (24) in Europe few months ago. Same thing. I put her on the shelf once I knew she could be mine. She wrote to me 2 days ago, and I did not reply either. We are authentic and we don't fall in love easily. So don't blame yourself. It's how we are. We don't understand how it all works either. That's why we are unpredictably random. It's only natural.
Doesn't mean they can't be shitty, and are probably shitty to a lot of girls on the way to finding that "home" for themselves though. lol
Mannnn I did not have time for the mixed signals lol. Like everyone at my job could feel the romantic tension, that actually happened with me and another cancer guy before too at work everyone could feel the tension and I acknowledged it but the cancer would just be going along with his mixed signals. I always just leave it alone. I end up quitting and they always ask for me and like being shocked and blah blah after and it's like wow yet you spent your avoiding me but when I leave you're all interested lol. Weird stuff.
But man, once they do open up fully and trust you explicitly with their heart, do you get the squishfest of lovingness. They are so freaking squishy and attentive once they have tested the SHIT out of you. lol
click to expand
I honestly blame my son, who's a Virgo Sun, Libra Moon, and Gem Rising for teaching me patience. lol
Posted by nikkistarPosted by Cg2016LOL!Posted by nikkistarMannn one thing I'm not is patient lmaoo. That's how I ended up with a Taurus. I need the balance lol. My mom is a cancer so I know how good hearted and nurturing they are so they get a pass usually lol.Posted by Cg2016LOL, they do play a lot of mental games in the form of testing a person's loyalty. I will admit that. My own Cancer boyfriend did it to me, and sometimes I wanted to kill him for it. I have the patience of a saint though. lolPosted by nikkistarPosted by Cg2016Not necessarily. I see it as more then picking and choosing who they give their heart to, and it being someone they hyper value.Posted by OneKnightSee and this is why yall end up with shitty ppl like a damn selfish ass cap cuz yall don't appreciate shit lmao look at this. This guy at work did this and I didn't get it til just now. Yall just like being treated like shit mkay got it lmaoo. I mean well I'll never be in that situation again but if I could go back....shoot lol
I'll explain, but I could be a bit brutal.
Taurus is opposite of Scorpio. Scorpio woman is the most difficult woman to seduce. So to us Cancers, naturally, Taurus seems the easiest. Maybe not true, but that's how it seems once you like us. Just look at you, you say you sit in the restaurant waiting for the Cancer to cancel. Imagine me sitting in the restaurant and you cancel on me. Your "stock" goes up. Now I'm angry, jealous, etc.
Now when it comes to intellect. This is straight from my gut: Cancers do not find Taurus people stimulating us intellectually. Taurus has a very narrow mind. That's why they are stable and finish projects. We value you for the Grounding effect. It feels amazing. No other Zodiac sign gives us so much contempt as you do. Same thing sexually. Most submissive woman in bed, but in a "here, do whatever you want" way. Again, you give in easily.
So what I'm trying to tell you is, each Zodiac woman is different. They provide us with different rewards. Someone has to be able to observe the benefits and fall in love with them, and ignore the difference. Don't stress yourself about a Cancer guy not texting. Don't text him, but be nice to him.
I met an outright beautiful Taurus chick (24) in Europe few months ago. Same thing. I put her on the shelf once I knew she could be mine. She wrote to me 2 days ago, and I did not reply either. We are authentic and we don't fall in love easily. So don't blame yourself. It's how we are. We don't understand how it all works either. That's why we are unpredictably random. It's only natural.
Doesn't mean they can't be shitty, and are probably shitty to a lot of girls on the way to finding that "home" for themselves though. lol
Mannnn I did not have time for the mixed signals lol. Like everyone at my job could feel the romantic tension, that actually happened with me and another cancer guy before too at work everyone could feel the tension and I acknowledged it but the cancer would just be going along with his mixed signals. I always just leave it alone. I end up quitting and they always ask for me and like being shocked and blah blah after and it's like wow yet you spent your avoiding me but when I leave you're all interested lol. Weird stuff.
But man, once they do open up fully and trust you explicitly with their heart, do you get the squishfest of lovingness. They are so freaking squishy and attentive once they have tested the SHIT out of you. lol
I honestly blame my son, who's a Virgo Sun, Libra Moon, and Gem Rising for teaching me patience. lolclick to expand
You know what's funny? I've always said I bet it's gonna take until I have a child to finally learn patience cuz otherwise idk anything else that can lol. My bf is working on me but I still need help lol
Posted by Cg2016LOL! We have the same sun and moon. I had ZERO patience until I had my trolling son. His placements tested the ever loving shit out of my patience. lolPosted by nikkistarPosted by Cg2016LOL!Posted by nikkistarMannn one thing I'm not is patient lmaoo. That's how I ended up with a Taurus. I need the balance lol. My mom is a cancer so I know how good hearted and nurturing they are so they get a pass usually lol.Posted by Cg2016LOL, they do play a lot of mental games in the form of testing a person's loyalty. I will admit that. My own Cancer boyfriend did it to me, and sometimes I wanted to kill him for it. I have the patience of a saint though. lolPosted by nikkistarPosted by Cg2016Not necessarily. I see it as more then picking and choosing who they give their heart to, and it being someone they hyper value.Posted by OneKnightSee and this is why yall end up with shitty ppl like a damn selfish ass cap cuz yall don't appreciate shit lmao look at this. This guy at work did this and I didn't get it til just now. Yall just like being treated like shit mkay got it lmaoo. I mean well I'll never be in that situation again but if I could go back....shoot lol
I'll explain, but I could be a bit brutal.
Taurus is opposite of Scorpio. Scorpio woman is the most difficult woman to seduce. So to us Cancers, naturally, Taurus seems the easiest. Maybe not true, but that's how it seems once you like us. Just look at you, you say you sit in the restaurant waiting for the Cancer to cancel. Imagine me sitting in the restaurant and you cancel on me. Your "stock" goes up. Now I'm angry, jealous, etc.
Now when it comes to intellect. This is straight from my gut: Cancers do not find Taurus people stimulating us intellectually. Taurus has a very narrow mind. That's why they are stable and finish projects. We value you for the Grounding effect. It feels amazing. No other Zodiac sign gives us so much contempt as you do. Same thing sexually. Most submissive woman in bed, but in a "here, do whatever you want" way. Again, you give in easily.
So what I'm trying to tell you is, each Zodiac woman is different. They provide us with different rewards. Someone has to be able to observe the benefits and fall in love with them, and ignore the difference. Don't stress yourself about a Cancer guy not texting. Don't text him, but be nice to him.
I met an outright beautiful Taurus chick (24) in Europe few months ago. Same thing. I put her on the shelf once I knew she could be mine. She wrote to me 2 days ago, and I did not reply either. We are authentic and we don't fall in love easily. So don't blame yourself. It's how we are. We don't understand how it all works either. That's why we are unpredictably random. It's only natural.
Doesn't mean they can't be shitty, and are probably shitty to a lot of girls on the way to finding that "home" for themselves though. lol
Mannnn I did not have time for the mixed signals lol. Like everyone at my job could feel the romantic tension, that actually happened with me and another cancer guy before too at work everyone could feel the tension and I acknowledged it but the cancer would just be going along with his mixed signals. I always just leave it alone. I end up quitting and they always ask for me and like being shocked and blah blah after and it's like wow yet you spent your avoiding me but when I leave you're all interested lol. Weird stuff.
But man, once they do open up fully and trust you explicitly with their heart, do you get the squishfest of lovingness. They are so freaking squishy and attentive once they have tested the SHIT out of you. lol
I honestly blame my son, who's a Virgo Sun, Libra Moon, and Gem Rising for teaching me patience. lol
You know what's funny? I've always said I bet it's gonna take until I have a child to finally learn patience cuz otherwise idk anything else that can lol. My bf is working on me but I still need help lol
click to expand
Posted by nikkistarLmaoooo your trolling son. I could imagine. That's sounds super funny lmaoPosted by Cg2016LOL! We have the same sun and moon. I had ZERO patience until I had my trolling son. His placements tested the ever loving shit out of my patience. lolPosted by nikkistarPosted by Cg2016LOL!Posted by nikkistarMannn one thing I'm not is patient lmaoo. That's how I ended up with a Taurus. I need the balance lol. My mom is a cancer so I know how good hearted and nurturing they are so they get a pass usually lol.Posted by Cg2016LOL, they do play a lot of mental games in the form of testing a person's loyalty. I will admit that. My own Cancer boyfriend did it to me, and sometimes I wanted to kill him for it. I have the patience of a saint though. lolPosted by nikkistarPosted by Cg2016Not necessarily. I see it as more then picking and choosing who they give their heart to, and it being someone they hyper value.Posted by OneKnightSee and this is why yall end up with shitty ppl like a damn selfish ass cap cuz yall don't appreciate shit lmao look at this. This guy at work did this and I didn't get it til just now. Yall just like being treated like shit mkay got it lmaoo. I mean well I'll never be in that situation again but if I could go back....shoot lol
I'll explain, but I could be a bit brutal.
Taurus is opposite of Scorpio. Scorpio woman is the most difficult woman to seduce. So to us Cancers, naturally, Taurus seems the easiest. Maybe not true, but that's how it seems once you like us. Just look at you, you say you sit in the restaurant waiting for the Cancer to cancel. Imagine me sitting in the restaurant and you cancel on me. Your "stock" goes up. Now I'm angry, jealous, etc.
Now when it comes to intellect. This is straight from my gut: Cancers do not find Taurus people stimulating us intellectually. Taurus has a very narrow mind. That's why they are stable and finish projects. We value you for the Grounding effect. It feels amazing. No other Zodiac sign gives us so much contempt as you do. Same thing sexually. Most submissive woman in bed, but in a "here, do whatever you want" way. Again, you give in easily.
So what I'm trying to tell you is, each Zodiac woman is different. They provide us with different rewards. Someone has to be able to observe the benefits and fall in love with them, and ignore the difference. Don't stress yourself about a Cancer guy not texting. Don't text him, but be nice to him.
I met an outright beautiful Taurus chick (24) in Europe few months ago. Same thing. I put her on the shelf once I knew she could be mine. She wrote to me 2 days ago, and I did not reply either. We are authentic and we don't fall in love easily. So don't blame yourself. It's how we are. We don't understand how it all works either. That's why we are unpredictably random. It's only natural.
Doesn't mean they can't be shitty, and are probably shitty to a lot of girls on the way to finding that "home" for themselves though. lol
Mannnn I did not have time for the mixed signals lol. Like everyone at my job could feel the romantic tension, that actually happened with me and another cancer guy before too at work everyone could feel the tension and I acknowledged it but the cancer would just be going along with his mixed signals. I always just leave it alone. I end up quitting and they always ask for me and like being shocked and blah blah after and it's like wow yet you spent your avoiding me but when I leave you're all interested lol. Weird stuff.
But man, once they do open up fully and trust you explicitly with their heart, do you get the squishfest of lovingness. They are so freaking squishy and attentive once they have tested the SHIT out of you. lol
I honestly blame my son, who's a Virgo Sun, Libra Moon, and Gem Rising for teaching me patience. lol
You know what's funny? I've always said I bet it's gonna take until I have a child to finally learn patience cuz otherwise idk anything else that can lol. My bf is working on me but I still need help lol
click to expand
Posted by NelsonSacramentoMy dad is also a Cancer. Lol
Pretty sure one of those cancers is my dad.
Posted by vixen14Facts
Women who say to wait patiently for a man because he's a "Cancer, Aquarius, Taurus, etc..." is bullsht. That's why Astrology is asinine when dealing with relationships.
Men are People. And People show interest with actions not words. All this "it's too fast" or "i'm not good enough for you" or "you just need to be patient" is just to keep you on the sidelines for an ego stroke and sex.
As soon as someone tells you that... cut the cord and move on. A person who is interested in you will show you
C O N S I S T E N C Y.
Posted by Cg2016Drop the ball and walk away. All they are looking for is an ego boost. Unless words AND actions match, it's a no-go. Rewarding bad behavior only encourages more bad behavior.Posted by TaurusFlower22This is what I was talking about in another cancer post and some cancers got butthurt. I know I knew what I was talking about. I know 3 like this so I'm not buggin.
I like Cancer women...but Cancer men are EVIL. They play hella games. I was dealing with one. Recently deleted him from my life. And the very same day, he called me to ask me if I was ok. I'm convinced all they want is an ego stroke. And they'll get that however they can from whomever they can. I'm never dealing with another one. Compatible where? How? Smdhclick to expand
All the people that don’t know how to be single will shelf you because you allow them to make you their back-up when things don’t pan out with their main choice.
Posted by nikkistarEvery grain from every single ocean of the world 😂
LOL @Canceronthecusp
The salt in this thread, bruh.
Posted by aquarius09I agree.
All the people that don’t know how to be single will shelf you because you allow them to make you their back-up when things don’t pan out with their main choice.
Posted by TaurusFlower22lolPosted by nikkistarEvery grain from every single ocean of the world 😂
LOL @Canceronthecusp
The salt in this thread, bruh.
click to expand
Posted by out_of_darknessExactly!Posted by Cg2016Drop the ball and walk away. All they are looking for is an ego boost. Unless words AND actions match, it's a no-go. Rewarding bad behavior only encourages more bad behavior.Posted by TaurusFlower22This is what I was talking about in another cancer post and some cancers got butthurt. I know I knew what I was talking about. I know 3 like this so I'm not buggin.
I like Cancer women...but Cancer men are EVIL. They play hella games. I was dealing with one. Recently deleted him from my life. And the very same day, he called me to ask me if I was ok. I'm convinced all they want is an ego stroke. And they'll get that however they can from whomever they can. I'm never dealing with another one. Compatible where? How? Smdhclick to expand
Posted by vixen14That's exactly what I was trying to say, only you worded it more succinctly. Don't listen to the cancers and their cheerleaders because your peace of mind is invaluable. Unless someone shows you clearly and consistently that they want YOU, and only you, they aren't worth "waiting" for. We're not in a dire situation that would warrant that lol. The cancer men who behave this way obviously don't know what they want and it's not worth your sanity to either wait or figure it out. Tell them goodbye nicely, but firmly, and keep it moving. Life is far too short.
Women who say to wait patiently for a man because he's a "Cancer, Aquarius, Taurus, etc..." is bullsht. That's why Astrology is asinine when dealing with relationships.
Men are People. And People show interest with actions not words. All this "it's too fast" or "i'm not good enough for you" or "you just need to be patient" is just to keep you on the sidelines for an ego stroke and sex.
As soon as someone tells you that... cut the cord and move on. A person who is interested in you will show you
C O N S I S T E N C Y.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →Related Topics
...like for good?
Not that o want to but seems like I do it a lot. Lmao
Last night we’ve agreed when he comes back I wouldn’t do 1,2,3...
and he would communicate better.
Do they actually mild and forgiving or there is a line when it goes ‘that’s
Saw the question in another thread, I'd say cancer, too squishy and goody-goody, I know this cancer man, 3 of his girlfriends chated on him, the 4th,which he's dating now(ldr) confessed that she also cheated :D
Let me get straight to the questions, then explain. Do Cancer men show off their significant others? We haven’t exactly defined the relationship yet but we have been on about 5 dates now. On the end of the last one he said how you he would like to take me
Well...
That’s what I need right now is problem with another man!
Cancer is traveling for his business weekly. He used to make an effort to see me right before he is going to airport to fly to frigging AZ, Utah, OK...
Happens that he is getting so
Will you guys just flat out say it when you feel it or do you guys wait a while to say?
How do you guys act when you're in love?
My boyfriend is a Cancer sun Virgo moon and I'm curious as to how he'll act in love or if he might be already and just ha
I need some smart people to help me to figure out if this Cancer man can be loyal to one woman only...here is a part of his chart:
Rising Sign is in 07 Degrees Libra
Sun is in 20 Degrees Cancer
Moon is in 24 Degrees Libra
Mercury is in 16 Degrees Le
I need some smart people to help me to figure out if this Cancer man can be loyal to one woman only...here is a part of his chart:
Rising Sign is in 07 Degrees Libra
Sun is in 20 Degrees Cancer
Moon is in 24 Degrees Libra
Mercury is in 16 Degrees Le
Cancer Men, do you all try to secure the feelings and emotions of a woman without letting her know how you feel? Is that your way of making sure you are secure and lessen your chances of getting hurt? I love a cancer man but I keep the depth of my feeling
We had known each other for only 3 weeks. We both are very much an adults.
He owns this huge industrial business.
Traveling excessively. However keeps communications with me so well.
From good morning to how is your day going to having a dinnner to th
...and telling the truth and nothing but the truth and no drama and genuine and ‘what you see is what you get’?
I need help.
Met this cancer man in September for business, i was official through it all stating the reasons why i called and messaged it was strictly business. Hellos and enquiries here and there until November when things changed, he called me to ta
I've gotten super obsessed with my Cancer man and I thought he was supposed to be the more clingier one but I've definitely got him beat.. at least I think or he hides his well. Which might be because of my placements but how do you guys handle the clingi
How do you think a cancer man take his girlfriend asking for space ?
If you’re a cancer how would you take it ?
Cancer Man assistance needed.
Long story short, been friends with cancer man for 8 years. A couple of years ago a mutual friend said he liked me. I didn't think so because he would say flirty stuff but I didn't take it seriously. After our conversation h
Well Gem girls!
Anyone ever tamed a Cancer man?
Just briefly mature wealthy workaholic, handsome af with gods given body, kind and in his words ‘not too many things driving me but sex is one of them’...
Just wondering about mature Cancer men. Anything in them stands out like - don’t do this ever or else?
Alright I need a little help with my Cancer man. I think I upset him but I'm not sure. We've been going pretty strong for a while now, definitely in the "honeymoon" stage of our relationship. We're dating exclusively but not official. One of my friends wa
I met this Cancer guy (Leo cusp) at work, and he's a huge flirt. I have a crush on him, and I wonder if he has a crush on me too or if he's just flirting (I can't tell). He's always flirting with me, and telling me I'm beautiful, and he'll finish a projec
Quick background. My husband cheats on me so our marriage is over (filing for divorce soon)
Got very close to this cancer guy who belongs to the same charity organization I do and we both have executive position. We hung out a few times, got extremely cl
Welllll, Cancer man and I have been going pretty strong for some time and yesterday we finally had sex. He had been in a long term relationship of about 10 years I believe and so I'm not sure if that has something to do with it. He was done pretty early o
Three days ago I went on a date with another cancer who admittedly is bad with texting etc anyway... so even before we met I was unsure of his interest. However, in person, really nice and we had loads in common. Seemed like it definitely wouldn't be a once off date so the next day I let him know about this show that was on that we half discussed on date. I threw the rope and left it casual - he could reply either way but at least reply. He seen the message and didnt reply at all. He's a bad texter but not responding at all!!! Isn't that just rude? So the next day I sent him a message saying 'did i miss my cue to read between the lines'. I am annoyed why cant he just have the decency to respond that he isn't interested.I would never do this to someone who asked me on a second date ESPECIALLY if I wasnt interested I would release them from thinking about me asap. I wouldn't want to do that to someone.
These post are full of advice saying that this is just these guys and you have to be patient - really what cancer men out there can say 'im glad my girl was patient while I treated her dismissively know i can be proud of the strong woman I have in my arm'. Really do people really believe this?
No other men have treated me this immature way so it does stand out that these two guys are cancers. I also have male cancer friends who are yes men - say yes to everything and completely neglect the commitment they made to you - leaving it to the point where you are sitting alone in the restaurant waiting in them for them to cancel on you - and again my gut probably knew they were a no show but you could not have told that by their words - its ridiculous!