@incandescentcancer
14 Years1,000+ Posts
Cancers, how should I handle this?
^^Yes yes I understand all that...there is really only one way for you to find out if this is on the level. The only way to test an ambush is to walk straight into it...just wear your kevlar.
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The fact that this post is so much about a third wheel shows your relationship is weak and fragile. Do you really think the "where do we stand" convo makes sense? Quite frankly that convo is such lulz because it usually signals a break up...lol.