cancers misconception

Cancers what do you think are some misconceptions about your sign?

Posted by Craabmoon
-I am not really good with kids. They annoy me( maybe when I, if I have my own, I'll be more lovey dovey with kids). They are actually afraid of me as if I say seat they will, even if they don't obey anyone else.

- Old stuff goes straight to the garbage, I try not to keep things that I don't need. That excludes my movies and books and a feel things that I like to keep. 🙂

- I cook but don't loooove to cook.

I feel u.im ok with kids but im not really in a rush to have kids of my own. People that no me say iwill be good mom.im too lazy to have babies now. Also I enjoy my freedom. Now I do hold on to stuff lmao , u should see my closet, I have purses , shoes, and bags that I need to let go.I still have things from my teen years.

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Posted by ecent
Cancers what do you think are some misconceptions about your sign?

The so-called "clinginess" and "wanting to get married at 18 and have a million babies" nonsense.

1) I'm not clingy. I tend to attract people who want to spend a lot of time talking to me (and vice-versa), though, and if we're having fun, great. I'm not going to start crying if they have to go, though. I'm typically the one who has to tell friends and boyfriends I need time to be alone. The only time I feel slightly clingy is when I have PMS (stupid hormones).

2) The idea of getting married doesn't thrill me (never has), and I don't want kids. I do love kids, and I'm very good with them, but I don't want to give birth to any.

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clingy shit is stupid, be honest I always need space from people. I like to go hide and think about shit. Lol those dam hormones will get u. Im actually a loner , I like people but I love my private time too.

Totally agree with the clingy thing. I think we are clingy but not in the way it is made out to be. I am not clingy as to be calling/texting/wanting to be with my significant other all the time. I really need my space and alone time and I understand that others do as well. But I am clingy in that when I connect with someone be they a friend or a love interest, I think of them a lot and when a relationship ends, it always takes me a loooongggggggg time to get over it. I cling to it. I cling to the past. We are very nostalgic people and we feel so intensely that it takes us so much longer than others to get over things. So yes, I do cling but in my heart and mind by myself not to the other person.

I also am not a hoarder. I actually do not like clutter and am constantly getting rid of things or donating them. I do not hold on to every little thing.

I also do not want kids. Being the mother of the zodiac doesn't mean that I physically want to bear as many babies as I can. It just means that I am caring and nurturing. I tend to mother other people.

Crying.im not a person who cry a lot.I had friends that was other signs that cry more then me.also im more private with my emotions.
Whining ... I hate that term.when cancers say whats on there mind it is whining. Y we get whiny but taurus get bull temper, virgos called being critical, and scorps are said to have a temper Whining reminds me of aperson crying and trying to explan there self.

I didn't even know this thread existed lol. But I people will always think what they wanna about our sign. We are all unique in our own way. I love who am I. Yes I can be emotional, sensitive, but I can be mature & have a good geart. Some Cancers aren't emotional people. But its ok if some are. Plus online isn't always accurate in judging someone character.

I meant good heart. D*mn touch screen phones lol. All Cancers have a good heart deep down

Underrated? Rarely gets posts to her threads?
Looks like she hasn't been around in a year. What's to be pissed about?

that we are weak

That's Right Ariel. I mean I can be clingy, im not gon lie. But its not in a obsessive way. Its more in a way that shows I actually give a d*mn about that person. It's in a loving way, that's all. But I think that's where good communication & understanding goes. A lot of people aren't patient enough to really understand us. We don't open our shell to just anybody yiu know. We are strong people. You gotta be to deal with our emotions.

I hate the crybaby thing. I rarely cry in front of others. Only a very select few are close enough and safe enough for me to feel comfortable with crying in front of. I'll dig my nails into my arms and transfer my hurt to rage if it means avoiding crying in front of someone.

Posted by aquavita
now e gets postdisappearance comments. lol J9 Has put a search on her. thus.

Oh, boy. Let's get drunk already.

For some reason people take intuitive and sensitive as weak. I am not a weak person because I have a big heart people. IN fact I think I am stronger for it

One big misconception is generalizing that Cancers are weak.
Not true at all, for a good percentage of them IMHO

Not all Cancers are true to their sign. Im not needy, clingy or a cry baby. The one trait I can admit to is being mildy sensitive and I do mean mildy. My mood does swing from time to time depending on my current surrounding. I'm only a home body on Sunday evening. I love my space. Im abrupt with people who try to BS me. I care for the people closest to me.
When asked I tell people I'm a Cancer I get the same response, you are not. Im often get mistaken for a Gemini..
I'm embracing all the planets in my chart..

Clingy and needy. Most of us NEED our own space for a period of time.

But im very true to my sign & im proud the be a Cancer. Im usually surrounded by positive people, so my sensitive side doesn't show as much. I thing being able to handle all the emotions & sensitive side makes us strong people. Plus we are caring & intuitive to people we care about needs. Being a Cancer is not a bad thing. Plus I got a Scorpio Moon, I can get along with anyone as long as they aren't mean. I say love your sign Cancers. Fuq what them online people are saying if its not true

I think the biggest misconception people have about Cancers is thinking that we're prisoners to our emotions. Yes, we're ruled by the moon and we are moody but those are just little waves on the surface of a vast ocean that is far deeper than it appears. We're cardinals and cardinals don't feel comfortable sitting on the fence. We can feel all sorts of things in our hearts but our decisions tend to be more practical and detached than we're given credit for being. I guess I think we're tougher than we appear. We're sentimental in our affections but hard nosed in our practical affairs. Being a Cancer lady is admitting to be one tough bitch at the end of the day.

A Capricorn male friend of my husband told my husband that my husband is like a girl. Weak. My husband just shrug him off like whatever. I wasn't there. I know my husband is not weak. The cap guy always want a debate but my husband refuse to give it to him. This cap male is such an instigator.

That Cap guy doesn't sound like a good friend to me. Keep pushing a Cancer buttons the wrong way, & ou err Claws will come out on your azz lol. I think we have great strength to handle all the stuff we do. So yeah, your husband is doing the right thing. Cancers ain't about that drama. We won't entertain those kind of people

Posted by 2BlackIndian3
That Cap guy doesn't sound like a good friend to me. Keep pushing a Cancer buttons the wrong way, & ou err Claws will come out on your azz lol. I think we have great strength to handle all the stuff we do. So yeah, your husband is doing the right thing. Cancers ain't about that drama. We won't entertain those kind of people

You are so right about this. Cancerian is definitely not liking drama. I think it is an insult to their intelligence.

i like drama great acting skills needed, ohhhhhhhh that drama...... nope i avoid drama waste of a crab's energy which is needed for sex, money and security....and sex. as for misconceptions,people think we pushovers........mwahaha bugger dat peons.... we rule the world.

Lol @Redmann Dude you are too funny. But I definitely feel what you saying. You should definitely post more funny stuff here. You remind me of Kevin Hart. Cancers are awesome!

Posted by VirgoDragirl
A Capricorn male friend of my husband told my husband that my husband is like a girl. Weak. My husband just shrug him off like whatever. I wasn't there. I know my husband is not weak. The cap guy always want a debate but my husband refuse to give it to him. This cap male is such an instigator.

That's pretty much the Cap/Crab relationship, the Cap try's to manipulate the Crab.
When the Crab snaps on them or ignores them, they usually back off.