Casual sex with cancer man

So ive been having casual sex with a cancer man 47 for a bit and thats all i want. Its amazing sex but he texts all the time and i said not to cos he ll be on my mind too much and i dont want the emotional attachment. He listens for a few hours but then texts again ! I think hes a bit of a player although he says hes not having sex with anyone else (not interested if he is or not). We agree a time to meet for a bit of 'fun' and hes started changing the times last minute (always meet in day). Im starting to feel like hes playing mind games and thats making me think of him...and thats my emotions creeping in..argh...and i dont want that. So i said stop with the games cos your gonna get my emotions involved and he said ok we ll just be friends then ! Urgh. No.. i want sex and with him. So im thinking to knock it on the head. Advice ?

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Why are you telling him it's gonna get you emotionally involved if he plays games. That's giving him the green light. If it's working, you're showing him the map lol

If mind games work on you, you don't need to worry that your emotions will get involved. They already are lol.

When i say emotions are involved i means hes in my head all the time cos hes texting so much and i need to be able to see what else is out there ie date. If i ignore him he ll text more. I figured if i told him hed back off but he went to the extreme !

Posted by Confusedgal222
When i say emotions are involved i means hes in my head all the time cos hes texting so much and i need to be able to see what else is out there ie date. If i ignore him he ll text more. I figured if i told him hed back off but he went to the extreme !

Do you have block feature on your phone?

Use it or shut up complaining!

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Why are you telling him it's gonna get you emotionally involved if he plays games. That's giving him the green light. If it's working, you're showing him the map lol

He has got the green light, i dont want him like that, neither do i want him clinging on to me. Just text when the 'need' is there, not text stupid stuff like 'morning' or 'night' everyday.

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Posted by Confusedgal222
When i say emotions are involved i means hes in my head all the time cos hes texting so much and i need to be able to see what else is out there ie date. If i ignore him he ll text more. I figured if i told him hed back off but he went to the extreme !

Do you have block feature on your phone?

Use it or shut up complaining!

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Lol i didnt want to block him, i wondered if there was a way i could stop him messaging loads but still have my 'cake'.

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When i say emotions are involved i means hes in my head all the time cos hes texting so much and i need to be able to see what else is out there ie date. If i ignore him he ll text more. I figured if i told him hed back off but he went to the extreme !

Do you have block feature on your phone?

Use it or shut up complaining!

Lol i didnt want to block him, i wondered if there was a way i could stop him messaging loads but still have my 'cake'.

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You can block him and unblock when you ready to bake...lol

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Posted by Confusedgal222
When i say emotions are involved i means hes in my head all the time cos hes texting so much and i need to be able to see what else is out there ie date. If i ignore him he ll text more. I figured if i told him hed back off but he went to the extreme !

Do you have block feature on your phone?

Use it or shut up complaining!

Lol i didnt want to block him, i wondered if there was a way i could stop him messaging loads but still have my 'cake'.

You can block him and unblock when you ready to bake...lol

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Looks like thats gonna have to be the way 😂

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Posted by Confusedgal222
When i say emotions are involved i means hes in my head all the time cos hes texting so much and i need to be able to see what else is out there ie date. If i ignore him he ll text more. I figured if i told him hed back off but he went to the extreme !

Do you have block feature on your phone?

Use it or shut up complaining!

Lol i didnt want to block him, i wondered if there was a way i could stop him messaging loads but still have my 'cake'.

You can block him and unblock when you ready to bake...lol

Looks like thats gonna have to be the way 😂

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Riiiight...like if you gonna do it😉

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Posted by Confusedgal222
When i say emotions are involved i means hes in my head all the time cos hes texting so much and i need to be able to see what else is out there ie date. If i ignore him he ll text more. I figured if i told him hed back off but he went to the extreme !

Do you have block feature on your phone?

Use it or shut up complaining!

Lol i didnt want to block him, i wondered if there was a way i could stop him messaging loads but still have my 'cake'.

You can block him and unblock when you ready to bake...lol

Looks like thats gonna have to be the way 😂

Riiiight...like if you gonna do it😉

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😂😂 i deleted him yesterday so dont have his number. We ll see how long he stays away

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Posted by Confusedgal222
When i say emotions are involved i means hes in my head all the time cos hes texting so much and i need to be able to see what else is out there ie date. If i ignore him he ll text more. I figured if i told him hed back off but he went to the extreme !

Do you have block feature on your phone?

Use it or shut up complaining!

Lol i didnt want to block him, i wondered if there was a way i could stop him messaging loads but still have my 'cake'.

You can block him and unblock when you ready to bake...lol

Looks like thats gonna have to be the way 😂

Riiiight...like if you gonna do it😉

😂😂 i deleted him yesterday so dont have his number. We ll see how long he stays away

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Are you being silly?

You deleted his number but as soon as he sends you text - you’ll receive it!

Stop being silly! Uou don’t WANT to block him because you LOVE the attention!!!

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Posted by Confusedgal222
When i say emotions are involved i means hes in my head all the time cos hes texting so much and i need to be able to see what else is out there ie date. If i ignore him he ll text more. I figured if i told him hed back off but he went to the extreme !

Do you have block feature on your phone?

Use it or shut up complaining!

Lol i didnt want to block him, i wondered if there was a way i could stop him messaging loads but still have my 'cake'.

You can block him and unblock when you ready to bake...lol

Looks like thats gonna have to be the way 😂

Riiiight...like if you gonna do it😉

😂😂 i deleted him yesterday so dont have his number. We ll see how long he stays away

Are you being silly?

You deleted his number but as soon as he sends you text - you’ll receive it!

Stop being silly! Uou don’t WANT to block him because you LOVE the attention!!!

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😂😂 course i like the attention but i get bored of the same shit. To be fair ive talked about him so much that i just cant be arsed even if he did text.

Hmmm they changed s.h.i.t to butter

He is texting cause he wants contact with you- he wants to include you in his life, not only fuck you.

You're annoyed by that. You want your way only, his needs are not important to you.

He's got his own life which doesn't include you, so maybe that's why he was changing the time of your meeting at the last minute. Things do come up, you know.

You're annoyed by that, cause he is not available when it pleases you and under your terms only. But hey, you asked for not being a priority for him. So face it if that's what you want.

You are pushing him away, so he backs off and offers friendship.

You're annoyed by that...

Take the friendship and forget the sex or start acknowledging his feelings and treat him as a person, not as a Sybian machine.

Posted by Argentum
He is texting cause he wants contact with you- he wants to include you in his life, not only fuck you.

You're annoyed by that. You want your way only, his needs are not important to you.

He's got his own life which doesn't include you, so maybe that's why he was changing the time of your meeting at the last minute. Things do come up, you know.

You're annoyed by that, cause he is not available when it pleases you and under your terms only. But hey, you asked for not being a priority for him. So face it if that's what you want.

You are pushing him away, so he backs off and offers friendship.

You're annoyed by that...

Take the friendship and forget the sex or start acknowledging his feelings and treat him as a person, not as a Sybian machine.

Yeah i guess....that kinda rings true 🤔

Posted by Confusedgal222

Posted by Argentum
He is texting cause he wants contact with you- he wants to include you in his life, not only fuck you.

You're annoyed by that. You want your way only, his needs are not important to you.

He's got his own life which doesn't include you, so maybe that's why he was changing the time of your meeting at the last minute. Things do come up, you know.

You're annoyed by that, cause he is not available when it pleases you and under your terms only. But hey, you asked for not being a priority for him. So face it if that's what you want.

You are pushing him away, so he backs off and offers friendship.

You're annoyed by that...

Take the friendship and forget the sex or start acknowledging his feelings and treat him as a person, not as a Sybian machine.

Yeah i guess....that kinda rings true 🤔

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whats your sign and how old are you?

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He is texting cause he wants contact with you- he wants to include you in his life, not only fuck you.

You're annoyed by that. You want your way only, his needs are not important to you.

He's got his own life which doesn't include you, so maybe that's why he was changing the time of your meeting at the last minute. Things do come up, you know.

You're annoyed by that, cause he is not available when it pleases you and under your terms only. But hey, you asked for not being a priority for him. So face it if that's what you want.

You are pushing him away, so he backs off and offers friendship.

You're annoyed by that...

Take the friendship and forget the sex or start acknowledging his feelings and treat him as a person, not as a Sybian machine.

Yeah i guess....that kinda rings true 🤔

whats your sign and how old are you?

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Virgo and 39

Ascendant - libra. moon- cancer. mercury/venus - virgo. mars - cancer

I don't think Cancers can successfully do casual sex, though they may try. Not in their nature.