caught in cancer claws

Profile picture of ImaniLibra
ImaniLibra
@ImaniLibra
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 14 · Topics: 1
I am a libra female and have been dating cancer man for almost two months and I'm confused by his behavior. Through mutual friends we have been friends a couple of years. I divorced in December and this cancer revealed he has had a mad secret crush for years and asked me out. Im really starting to fall for him but his moods are strange. He's very loving, generous and he wants to be with me all the time. He says his dream has come true and wants to be together forever.(we haven't made love yet because we agreed to take things slow) however we have had kisses and hot makeout sessions and the next day or two he always goes quiet. Then he acts like him old self and says he missed me as if i was keeping him away. He only goes quiet after intimate times. Then he's back to constant gifts and calls. Im confused. Can anyone help? I like him so much but the silence is aggravating.
Profile picture of CancerOnTheCusp
GFY
@CancerOnTheCusp
12 Years5,000+ Posts

Comments: 433 · Posts: 8306 · Topics: 311
He's processing. Sounds like he has a lot of deep feelings he's grappling with, and the intimacy is the trigger.

Yeah, the silent moments can be frustrating. Just keep an even keel.
You *could* gently broach the subject by framing it as "I've noticed (what you mention about the quiet periods) and was wondering if there is something wrong". If you do this, don't badger. He'll get around to it, sooner or later.

He sounds honest with what he said.
Profile picture of Bells93
Bells93
@Bells93
11 YearsCapricorn

Comments: 0 · Posts: 195 · Topics: 22
I agree, he's processing his feelings. Don't take it personally, it has nothing to do with you, and doesn't mean that he doesn't like you or anything like that. My Cancer bf often takes time alone to process his emotions/current state. If you're thinking of dating this man long-term, get ready for the mooooooooooooods. They will drive you insane, but their sweet and affectionate nature when they come back always reals you (me, *sigh*) right back in.
Profile picture of Rowan
Rowan
@Rowan
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 103 · Topics: 4
Posted by ImaniLibra
I am a libra female and have been dating cancer man for almost two months and I'm confused by his behavior. Through mutual friends we have been friends a couple of years. I divorced in December and this cancer revealed he has had a mad secret crush for years and asked me out. Im really starting to fall for him but his moods are strange. He's very loving, generous and he wants to be with me all the time. He says his dream has come true and wants to be together forever.(we haven't made love yet because we agreed to take things slow) however we have had kisses and hot makeout sessions and the next day or two he always goes quiet. Then he acts like him old self and says he missed me as if i was keeping him away. He only goes quiet after intimate times. Then he's back to constant gifts and calls. Im confused. Can anyone help? I like him so much but the silence is aggravating.



A different possibility, is there anything you might be doing that could unintentionally lead to him feeling like YOU are being distant or acting differently after the make out sessions? Even if it is something like, for example, you perceive him to be going quiet so you give him his space, when really what he might want is extra closeness, not space?
Profile picture of ImaniLibra
ImaniLibra
@ImaniLibra
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 14 · Topics: 1
Posted by Rowan
Posted by ImaniLibra
I am a libra female and have been dating cancer man for almost two months and I'm confused by his behavior. Through mutual friends we have been friends a couple of years. I divorced in December and this cancer revealed he has had a mad secret crush for years and asked me out. Im really starting to fall for him but his moods are strange. He's very loving, generous and he wants to be with me all the time. He says his dream has come true and wants to be together forever.(we haven't made love yet because we agreed to take things slow) however we have had kisses and hot makeout sessions and the next day or two he always goes quiet. Then he acts like him old self and says he missed me as if i was keeping him away. He only goes quiet after intimate

A different possibility, is there anything you might be doing that could unintentionally lead to him feeling like YOU are being distant or acting differently after the make out sessions? Even if it is something like, for example, you perceive him to be going quiet so you give him his space, when really what he might want is extra closeness, not space?
click to expand




Rowan good question. I asked myself the same question. Our last makeout session was Monday night. So Tuesday morning I called with a sweet morning message and only got a short serious hello. Later I texted to see how his work day was going and got "great". Normally he talks nonstop. Last night he's becoming chatty again and said he has something special for me and can't wait to see me today when i come to his place. I woke this morning to see texts where he was sharing what he was watching late night on television. So the silence is off. I guess i better not kiss him tonight if I want to talk to him tomorrow lol. I've never dated a Cancer. I was married to a Sagittarius. Totally different animals. I must say his sweetness is contagious. Would a total seduction break the barriers down? 🙂
Profile picture of ImaniLibra
ImaniLibra
@ImaniLibra
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 14 · Topics: 1
Posted by Bells93
I agree, he's processing his feelings. Don't take it personally, it has nothing to do with you, and doesn't mean that he doesn't like you or anything like that. My Cancer bf often takes time alone to process his emotions/current state. If you're thinking of dating this man long-term, get ready for the mooooooooooooods. They will drive you insane, but their sweet and affectionate nature when they come back always reals you (me, *sigh*) right back in.



This is good know 🙂
Profile picture of ImaniLibra
ImaniLibra
@ImaniLibra
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 14 · Topics: 1


But then, you get too close and WHAM.... they disappear. They are a riddle wrapped in a puzzle.



Virgofem you hit the nail on the head. It's the "extreme sharing". I have a lot of fire in my charts and I'm not clingy all but when he's telling me every moment of his life, two days of silence seems like an eternity. Today he's calling and texting and turning me to jello with his sweetness lol.Tonight he's cooking me dinner and I find this adorable. I'm going to just go with the flow. Everyone's input is helping and i realize he's not an alien from out of space. I'm normally very attracted to Gems and Sags so this is a new adventure. Although his venus is gem his cancer is dominant.

His chart
S- Can
R- Lib
M- Can
V- Gem

Mine

S-Lib
M-Aries
R-Sag
V-Scorp


Profile picture of Rowan
Rowan
@Rowan
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 103 · Topics: 4
Posted by ImaniLibra
Rowan good question. I asked myself the same question. Our last makeout session was Monday night. So Tuesday morning I called with a sweet morning message and only got a short serious hello. Later I texted to see how his work day was going and got "great". Normally he talks nonstop. Last night he's becoming chatty again and said he has something special for me and can't wait to see me today when i come to his place. I woke this morning to see texts where he was sharing what he was watching late night on television. So the silence is off. I guess i better not kiss him tonight if I want to talk to him tomorrow lol. I've never dated a Cancer. I was married to a Sagittarius. Totally different animals. I must say his sweetness is contagious. Would a total seduction break the barriers down? 🙂


Posted by ImaniLibra
I wanted to add, reaching out must have helped because it's normally at least 2 days before the silence ends.
click to expand




That's an improvement at least. I have no idea if a "total seduction" would help or not! The thing about water signs is we can be on and off as far as things like texting. If we're in "off" mode you might misinterpret the reason. There can be many different reasons for being in a less texty mood. Just for one example, with Cancers, we can be aware of how we can be overly attentive to the point of being clingy or oversharing, so we might try to play it cool and go too far in the opposite direction. We might assume you don't want to talk as much and that we are taking your lead when you are actually waiting for us to take the lead. We can be insecure. Or alternately, we can also be feeling more secure/connected after seeing someone in person or doing something intimate with them and not feel a to share our every thought with them. It's also possible that you might just be thinking his less communicative periods are triggered by your makeout sessions because you notice it more then, as we can text less when busy with other stuff or trying to take a break from our texting addiction or in a less social mood. Personally I go through cycles of wanting to be in frequent communication with people and then getting overwhelmed and not even wanting to look at my phone or check my emails.
Profile picture of Rowan
Rowan
@Rowan
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 103 · Topics: 4
Ran out of space. Basically my point is that I think people can take it personally and assume negative reasons when someone is less communicative by text and that there are many possible reasons that may be nothing bad. I think generally Cancers will respond well if gently coaxed though. One thing that gets me out of my shell is something really different or funny or deep/interesting, as opposed to just banal stuff like "How are you?"

When people talk about Cancers "ignoring" them or being "silent", do you mean that they flat out don't answer questions at all? Or just that they are texting less than usual or taking a long time to reply?

I honestly think texting is a bad and unhealthy form of communication but I also find it very addictive. In my experience all the water signs seem to alternate between oversharing and disappearing (I don't have as much experience with Pisces though as with Scorpios and Cancers). We do tend to have addictive personalities. We may have trouble with balance.
Profile picture of fullwaterpisces
fullwaterpisces
@fullwaterpisces
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 3 · Posts: 1574 · Topics: 50
Im a water sign too

I think rowman has a good point, but I think when people talk about cancer ignoring, is when they simply don't reply, non-responsibe, not by text, no by email, not talking.

On txt is like ok, fine there is people who obsessively need validation and immediate responses over text, I get it! fuck that!!, like they think you have nothing else to do other than respond their text messages... thats one thing but what i think is very aggravating for the rest of of, but mostly confusing and hurtful sometimes specially in those moments where clarification is needed. WTH? no response like 2 or 3hrs ok.. busy day, no respond the day after... still catching on... no respond in 3 days?? is it to fucking hard to respond? no response in a week or two WTF!!! seriously is rude... and by response any kind acknowledge of yeah I got your email/txt/smoke signal or whatever...

no offense to all the lovely cancer here, no one is perfect, but the biggest problem with cancer is simply self absorption... "in my own time" and "if I feel like it" "take it or leave it" and thats fine... but what it really adds joke to the insult is when if you do that to them... brace yourself!!! shit is coming your way... As a water sign understand your feeling that sometimes you feel like over sharing or smothering people, but making unilateral decision of rudely disappear based on assumptions is just immature... BS... is creating unnecessary drama, by having everybody wondering if they say or did something wrong, instead of simply say: "hey dude, sorry I have so much work Ill be off the scene for a couple days im under a lot of stress" who is that so freaking difficult!!!!!!

I think this new ways of social interactions, (in general not just cancer) is just bunch turning people in to bunch of selfish, selfcenter, and dehumanize people... when things get real, people just simply give up on people and jump to the next person... that is simply so depressing as sociaty...

in another note... Happy earth day (sarcasm)
Profile picture of ImaniLibra
ImaniLibra
@ImaniLibra
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 14 · Topics: 1
Fullwaterpisces you hit some great points .I'm not a fan of the "take it or leave it" mentality. Usually i leave it. I can respect that everyone needs time alone or they process things differently but there should be respect and maturity, after all we are both in our 40s. This cancer is really a nice and thoughtful person. Only time will reveal whether we are suited for the long term. I'm going to enjoy the ride and see where it takes us.

Off subject: I'm not getting the quote to work when responding . I'm jealous lol 🙂
Profile picture of LibraGirl13
LibraGirl13
@LibraGirl13
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 11 · Topics: 1
I'm a libra too and I know we LOVE affection and attention; and cancers do too but in moderation. They FEEL like they want to be with you 24/7 but once they do they hate it and want time to themselves. That's what I saw in my ex anyway. They suck at opening up and they shut down when co fronted and hide!! It's frustrating. But they DO care! But it drives me nuts. Btw Libras and Cancers usually do NOT go well and since you haven't been intimate leave while you can! Sex makes a girl attached so just leave if you have doubts. Seriously . I wish I did /:
Profile picture of StarChild63
StarChild63
@StarChild63
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 0 · Posts: 1190 · Topics: 29
I don't kno why people rag on aquas for being strange cancers are the oddest out of the zodiac. Especially cancer women. They are aliens. My friend does the extreme closeness then distance because she is giving her all then recharging and backs off to give you space to recharge because she comes with a lot of energy and let's be real--when a cancer is in full blast energy mode you need at least a day of downtime. Even if you don't want it. It's like when kids take a nap time after they play. Like that like that. Or in cancers mind when you being a kid gets something you really wanted from your parents then they give it to you and you back off and stop bothering them for shit for a few days because they just bought you something so now you give them space to wait for them to make a offer or for you to ask again. Cancers are go with the flow people and they have patience. Really the have enough goddamn friends and associates to keep them busy and they're always out. But these little crabs love to feel wanted. Bet if you made them feel wanted they would come around sooner. But that's the best I can think of. I don't get it either. Think they like people but they also like space. They have bad spatial relationships.
Profile picture of StarChild63
StarChild63
@StarChild63
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 0 · Posts: 1190 · Topics: 29
Posted by ImaniLibra
Canceronthecusp thank you. I will try this and see how he responds. I have reached out during these times and I usually get one answer responses instead of conversation. He is really sweet otherwise. I've never had a more attentive or thoughtful man than he so I really hope it works out.



If you just get the one word hitter and quitter either the crab is pissed or your conversation sucks or you give one word answers too and the crab is mirroring you.
Profile picture of ImaniLibra
ImaniLibra
@ImaniLibra
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 14 · Topics: 1
Posted by LibraGirl13
I'm a libra too and I know we LOVE affection and attention; and cancers do too but in moderation. They FEEL like they want to be with you 24/7 but once they do they hate it and want time to themselves. That's what I saw in my ex anyway. They suck at opening up and they shut down when co fronted and hide!! It's frustrating. But they DO care! But it drives me nuts. Btw Libras and Cancers usually do NOT go well and since you haven't been intimate leave while you can! Sex makes a girl attached so just leave if you have doubts. Seriously . I wish I did /:



Thanks LibraGirl13. It seems the closer we get the more scattered he's becoming. After gushing over how wonderful I am and how much he cares about me I'm now getting the very distant feel from him for the past week. I've back away and only communicate when he initiates the contact. I'm seriously considering ending this relationship because I find the instability immature and not something I can tolerate long term.
Profile picture of ImaniLibra
ImaniLibra
@ImaniLibra
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 14 · Topics: 1
Posted by canerleo101
Posted by boxcarmirnta
^^That's what I did with my cancer/leo similar sitch and he up and left. I don't think they can handle it.they seem way more concerned with their own feelings than those of others...


Was is sun Cancer and Venus Leo?
Please let me know because I am seeing a cancer and I want to know if I can expect that type of behavior from him.
click to expand




His sun and moon is Cancer, rising Libra and venus Gemini.
Profile picture of canerleo101
canerleo101
@canerleo101
11 Years500+ Posts

Comments: 1 · Posts: 983 · Topics: 24
Posted by ImaniLibra
Posted by canerleo101
Posted by boxcarmirnta
^^That's what I did with my cancer/leo similar sitch and he up and left. I don't think they can handle it.they seem way more concerned with their own feelings than those of others...


Was is sun Cancer and Venus Leo?
Please let me know because I am seeing a cancer and I want to know if I can expect that type of behavior from him.



His sun and moon is Cancer, rising Libra and venus Gemini.
click to expand



I had one cancer exboyfriend I feel kind of bad about our situation because was emotionally abusive to him. With this new cancer guy that I am attempting to get to know I already see the same pattern forming. I already almost cussed him out do to his confusing behavior. I know I need to work on my temper but being a Cancer/Leo cusper is very challenging at times.
Profile picture of ImaniLibra
ImaniLibra
@ImaniLibra
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 14 · Topics: 1
Posted by StarChild63
I don't kno why people rag on aquas for being strange cancers are the oddest out of the zodiac. Especially cancer women. They are aliens. My friend does the extreme closeness then distance because she is giving her all then recharging and backs off to give you space to recharge because she comes with a lot of energy and let's be real--when a cancer is in full blast energy mode you need at least a day of downtime. Even if you don't want it. It's like when kids take a nap time after they play. Like that like that. Or in cancers mind when you being a kid gets something you really wanted from your parents then they give it to you and you back off and stop bothering them for shit for a few days because they just bought you something so now you give them space to wait for them to make a offer or for you to ask again. Cancers are go with the flow people and they have patience. Really the have enough goddamn friends and associates to keep them busy and they're always out. But these little crabs love to feel wanted. Bet if you made them feel wanted they would come around sooner. But that's the best I can think of. I don't get it either. Think they like people but they also like space. They have bad spatial relationships.



Great post. The problem is I always show/tell him know how much I need/want him and he's so excited by this and he responds with so much care and love. However, the next day he mumbles and seems aggravated at hearing my voice. Then he's back to thinking I am a dream come true and says he can't imagine life without me and contacting me excessively all day and night. wth. I prefer less ups and downs. If I walk away from this relationship I hope we can remain friends.
Profile picture of ImaniLibra
ImaniLibra
@ImaniLibra
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 14 · Topics: 1
Posted by canerleo101
Posted by ImaniLibra
Posted by canerleo101
Posted by boxcarmirnta
^^That's what I did with my cancer/leo similar sitch and he up and left. I don't think they can handle it.they seem way more concerned with their own feelings than those of others...


Was is sun Cancer and Venus Leo?
Please let me know because I am seeing a cancer and I want to know if I can expect that type of behavior from him.



His sun and moon is Cancer, rising Libra and venus Gemini.


I had one cancer exboyfriend I feel kind of bad about our situation because was emotionally abusive to him. With this new cancer guy that I am attempting to get to know I already see the same pattern forming. I already almost cussed him out do to his confusing behavior. I know I need to work on my temper but being a Cancer/Leo cusper is very challenging at times.
click to expand




I hope it works out for you. In my case I don't think Libra and Cancer is the best or easiest match.
Profile picture of StarChild63
StarChild63
@StarChild63
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 0 · Posts: 1190 · Topics: 29
Posted by ImaniLibra
Posted by StarChild63
I don't kno why people rag on aquas for being strange cancers are the oddest out of the zodiac. Especially cancer women. They are aliens. My friend does the extreme closeness then distance because she is giving her all then recharging and backs off to give you space to recharge because she comes with a lot of energy and let's be real--when a cancer is in full blast energy mode you need at least a day of downtime. Even if you don't want it. It's like when kids take a nap time after they play. Like that like that. Or in cancers mind when you being a kid gets something you really wanted from your parents then they give it to you and you back off and stop bothering them for shit for a few days because they just bought you something so now you give them space to wait for them to make a offer or for you to ask again. Cancers are go with the flow people and they have patience. Really the have enough goddamn friends and associates to keep them busy and they're always out. But these little crabs love to feel wanted. Bet if you made them feel wanted they would come around sooner. But that's the best I can think of. I don't get it either. Think they like people but they also like space. They have bad spatial relationships.



Great post. The problem is I always show/tell him know how much I need/want him and he's so excited by this and he responds with so much care and love. However, the next day he mumbles and seems aggravated at hearing my voice. Then he's back to thinking I am a dream come true and says he can't imagine life without me and contacting me excessively all day and night. wth. I prefer less ups and downs. If I walk away from this relationship I hope we can remain friends.
click to expand




This is odd.the answer is probably in the details. What is happening when he gets like that? Think he's doubting your love?
Profile picture of ImaniLibra
ImaniLibra
@ImaniLibra
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 14 · Topics: 1
Posted by StarChild63
Posted by ImaniLibra
Posted by StarChild63
I don't kno why people rag on aquas for being strange cancers are the oddest out of the zodiac. Especially cancer women. They are aliens. My friend does the extreme closeness then distance because she is giving her all then recharging and backs off to give you space to recharge because she comes with a lot of energy and let's be real--when a cancer is in full blast energy mode you need at least a day of downtime. Even if you don't want it. It's like when kids take a nap time after they play. Like that like that. Or in cancers mind when you being a kid gets something you really wanted from your parents then they give it to you and you back off and stop bothering them for shit for a few days because they just bought you something so now you give them space to wait for them to make a offer or for you to ask again. Cancers are go with the flow people and they have patience. Really the have enough goddamn friends and associates to keep them busy and they're always out. But these little crabs love to feel wanted. Bet if you made them feel wanted they would come around sooner. But that's the best I can think of. I don't get it either. Think they like people but they also like space. They have bad spatial relationships.



Great post. The problem is I always show/tell him know how much I need/want him and he's so excited by this and he responds with so much care and love. However, the next day he mumbles and seems aggravated at hearing my voice. Then he's back to thinking I am a dream come true and says he can't imagine life without me and contacting me excessively all day and night. wth. I prefer less ups and downs. If I walk away from this relationship I hope we can remain friends.



This is odd.the answer is probably in the details. What is happening when he gets like that? Think he's doubting your love?
click to expand




Wish I knew. He's always saying he can't believe someone like me likes someone like him. When i ask for an explanation he says after years of having a crush he can't believe he actually have me. I'm always assuring him we're both blessed to have found each other. After feeling extremely emotionally close and then being pushed
Profile picture of Trupti
Trupti
@Trupti
7 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 2 · Topics: 0
Posted by ImaniLibra
Posted by Rowan
Posted by ImaniLibra
I am a libra female and have been dating cancer man for almost two months and I'm confused by his behavior. Through mutual friends we have been friends a couple of years. I divorced in December and this cancer revealed he has had a mad secret crush for years and asked me out. Im really starting to fall for him but his moods are strange. He's very loving, generous and he wants to be with me all the time. He says his dream has come true and wants to be together forever.(we haven't made love yet because we agreed to take things slow) however we have had kisses and hot makeout sessions and the next day or two he always goes quiet. Then he acts like him old self and says he missed me as if i was keeping him away. He only goes quiet after intimate

A different possibility, is there anything you might be doing that could unintentionally lead to him feeling like YOU are being distant or acting differently after the make out sessions? Even if it is something like, for example, you perceive him to be going quiet so you give him his space, when really what he might want is extra closeness, not space?



Rowan good question. I asked myself the same question. Our last makeout session was Monday night. So Tuesday morning I called with a sweet morning message and only got a short serious hello. Later I texted to see how his work day was going and got "great". Normally he talks nonstop. Last night he's becoming chatty again and said he has something special for me and can't wait to see me today when i come to his place. I woke this morning to see texts where he was sharing what he was watching late night on television. So the silence is off. I guess i better not kiss him tonight if I want to talk to him tomorrow lol. I've never dated a Cancer. I was married to a Sagittarius. Totally different animals. I must say his sweetness is contagious. Would a total seduction break the barriers down? click to expand
click to expand


Profile picture of Trupti
Trupti
@Trupti
7 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 2 · Topics: 0
Hello ! . I got introduced to cancer man online who lives in US through our parents . And I live in India so it was long distance. Then we started chatting . But he sounded very distant since start . Then one day he was like I find everything good about you and I don’t mind coming to India and meet you personally. So I was ok with it but found this little weird as I thought he was not interested but he said all is good and want to meet you personally. Then he was here . We met for 10 days and found each other good and decided to get engaged . He back to US came back again After a year and we got married. But during the entire patch I felt that he is not opening up much . I have to take initiative when it comes to expressing feelings . Over which I get a reply but he doesn’t do it first . He again went back to US for his work . And I will fly soon . But still I feel that he doesn’t open up . He does not bring up much personal topics . He is. Nice guy overall nothing to blame . But I have to keep guessing what he is thinking or feeling as he has not confessed anything yet . Why is this happening?? Is this typical cancer mans trait ?
Profile picture of Wanderlustcancerian24
Wanderlustcancerian24
@Wanderlustcancerian24
8 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 198 · Topics: 39
Posted by ImaniLibra
I am a libra female and have been dating cancer man for almost two months and I'm confused by his behavior. Through mutual friends we have been friends a couple of years. I divorced in December and this cancer revealed he has had a mad secret crush for years and asked me out. Im really starting to fall for him but his moods are strange. He's very loving, generous and he wants to be with me all the time. He says his dream has come true and wants to be together forever.(we haven't made love yet because we agreed to take things slow) however we have had kisses and hot makeout sessions and the next day or two he always goes quiet. Then he acts like him old self and says he missed me as if i was keeping him away. He only goes quiet after intimate times. Then he's back to constant gifts and calls. Im confused. Can anyone help? I like him so much but the silence is aggravating.


--- he doesn't know where your heart really is maybe.... Like I am like that too once intimate, I back off because I don't want to get hurt, but then I think that I am hurting myself by distancing and don't want to lose that person. Until you are in a committed relationship it will continue. But maybe try reassuring him that you like him..... keep showing him and be patient. 🙂 It will work out and things will change for the better. But he needs to feel that he's not going to end up getting hurt. We are ruled by the moon, so we are full of so much emotion. We think so much and sometime we overthink..... but the reassurance will really help because we can be insecure too! Also, maybe reach out to him after you're intimate. We cancers have a hard time ignoring someone we truly care about... so you'll get a response probably that same day. Just send a little text saying last night was great or i hope you're having a great day.
Profile picture of libralotus
libralotus
@libralotus
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 6 · Posts: 1249 · Topics: 93
Posted by ImaniLibra
I am a libra female and have been dating cancer man for almost two months and I'm confused by his behavior. Through mutual friends we have been friends a couple of years. I divorced in December and this cancer revealed he has had a mad secret crush for years and asked me out. Im really starting to fall for him but his moods are strange. He's very loving, generous and he wants to be with me all the time. He says his dream has come true and wants to be together forever.(we haven't made love yet because we agreed to take things slow) however we have had kisses and hot makeout sessions and the next day or two he always goes quiet. Then he acts like him old self and says he missed me as if i was keeping him away. He only goes quiet after intimate times. Then he's back to constant gifts and calls. Im confused. Can anyone help? I like him so much but the silence is aggravating.


Baby girl say bye. Cancer men are full of it. I'm surprised this hasn't made it into the "my cancer man left me thread" ---- I was it lmao. They just can't handle us x

Find someone better who won't play games with you. A man that was 100% involved wouldn't be so flakey

xx

Love
Profile picture of Breeze
Breeze
@Breeze
8 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 306 · Topics: 16
My cancer woman has gem/crab cusp and crab moon. Everything was perfect between us until life starting getting the best of her. She asked for space and fell off the earth. She didnt want me to know all her issues going on because shes private. Gone for basically a month and she was starting to feel better and now were getting things back on track.

Think they have hard time opening up, sharing things and pride so they push people away.