Confused about this Cancer Male

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Maymay on Sunday, October 5, 2014 and has 3 replies.

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@Maymay
12 Years

Hello Everyone,

I'm hoping to get some insight about this cancer male in my life. He's been an active figure in my life for the past two years. We started as bang buddies but eventually upgraded to fwbs. I do have feelings for him but he said he doesn't want more. I have accepted that and just enjoyed his friendship. Problem right now is with the fwb title - there hasn't been any benefit for the past year. We just got into a huge argument about it - he said if I don't stop asking him for sex, he doesn't think he can be my friend.

I was upset for a while and then concluded the most rational way of doing things. I told him that keeping our friendship is fine. There are many fish in the sea for the sex department. That somehow turned into him getting more angry and going as far as deleting and blocking me from Facebook. (but thats the only platform he removed me from).

I am so confused....

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@Maymay
12 Years

Thank you for your comments. You guys are right. I am a little demanding and i'm a very by the book type of person. I get a little upset when I dont get delivered what the package promises to deliver. I've sent him an apology and let him be for now. A great friend > me wanting to play hokey pokey.

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@Maymay
12 Years

Posted by Iwill
What the hell is an upgrade from bangbuddies to FWBS———? Isn't it the exact same thing——?

Not to me. Bang buddies is just wham bam thank you ma'am/sir. Fwb - we're actually friends

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@Maymay
12 Years

Posted by aquavita2
SHE WORTH IT TO BE READ UP THERE IS SHE WORTH IT SORRY FOR THE CAPs. haha are u worth It girl a man keeps u for so long in his life yet u still tell him there s plenty of fish ?

Of course! When he tells me he just wants friendship and nothing more. I am giving him what he wants but that backlashed lol