confused cancer man

hello, it's my first post here but I saw a few really good advice so I thought I should ask for some too as I'm going through some confusing stages. I'll clarify first that I'm a scorpio female and I'm a tad bit obsessive.

This cancer guy I met a few months back who lives in my apartment building we've hung out with mutual friends a lot of times but only recently started talking to each other. I don't know if it was flirty texts or if i'm reading too much into it but he would send me his location, what he's doing and all that stuff but then he would go all cold on me the next day. He told me one day that he wants to discuss about why he's single and he says that it's because he's not ready to let go of his freedom and says that he doesn't pursue a girl first so I asked him the next day to a movie.

I've read that cancer guys likes touching a lot but the whole movie we only had our arms touching each other and nothing else happened at all.

He's so hot and cold and he himself told me that he knows that too.

Do you think I have a chance?

Go for it but I honestly don't deal with men that like to be asked out by women. I like a manly man that'll tell me how it is and grab me up and fux th... anyways I digress.. times are changing so go for it girl 👍🏿

Cancers are shy at first, like some Scorpios, they need some time to warm up to you.

Hot and cold is a usual thing for Cancers. I find Cancers and Scorpios to be similar in so many levels. Keep it light, don't really obsess over him, be friends first, get to know him slowly. With Cancers it takes time and patience a lot.