how did you “catch & keep” your cancer man?

i’d like to know the first initial stages with a cancer man :]...tell me what it was like, how you got him to notice you, how you got to the 2nd date & so on. how did you know he started liking you? etc. etc.

Posted by AwesomeGal
You dont. They chase you.

lmao oh. but i thought they have calculated moves i. the beginning because they don’t want to get hurt, etc.

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Posted by bloopbloopbloop
i’d like to know the first initial stages with a cancer man :]...tell me what it was like, how you got him to notice you, how you got to the 2nd date & so on. how did you know he started liking you? etc. etc.

You throw him in the air first in order to catch him and then to keep him you must have a big container where he can be kept comfortably.

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cool def will try!

My Cancer ex I basically just told him he was going to be my boyfriend. He did. It was chill. Easiest snag besides my Cap ex.

I didn't catch him. He caught me. At first I was unaware he was interested until he mustered the courage to approach me. All I did was be receptive of his advances and not put any sort of pressure on him. He was awkward and I found it cute. I tried to make him comfortable and let him open up at his own pace. After that, he clung until we naturally transitioned into a relationship. He didn't ask me to be his girlfriend and I didn't need to be asked. It was a mutual understanding that we were already in one.

I've kept him with as little effort as I caught him. We don't need to work in this relationship. It is naturally complementary so we're in a state of comfort and mutual understanding. This has been a breeze in the park for me tbh. 10 years and it feels like the 1st one.

Are you sure you even want him?

Cuz his Sun, Moon, and rising gotta be in complimentary and in sync like dis

If not. You can forget about it.

"I didn't catch him. He caught me."

You damn right...

Crab takies you and grabbies you like so,

Cuz fuck your permission..

and good luck kickin det donkey off

Posted by bloopbloopbloop
i’d like to know the first initial stages with a cancer man :]...tell me what it was like, how you got him to notice you, how you got to the 2nd date & so on. how did you know he started liking you? etc. etc.

Just be who you are. I've noticed that they love to appreciate a woman who is comfortable in her skin. The Cancer I got involved with chased me under the guise of friendship for a yearrrrr. I just kept livin' my life. I dated other people too. He would always ask when he saw me, "Do you still talk to _________ ?" as a way to check if I was single lol... Cancers are very shy, in my experience, and they take their time. But if they really like you, they will be consistent in their actions. I even had fights with mine where we stopped talking but he kept coming back to me...

Posted by tiziani
@NikkiStar

That bastard was just suppose to be a bit of fun for me. A snag it and dash it.

But nooooooooo, he had to go and be cute. Two years later, we live together.

Stupid cancer.

Umm 2nd date...

Why do you want to ‘catch’ this person at all. They are a stranger. Focus on getting to know them and whether or not you even want them in your life long term.