Do cancer men always pop back up

Do cancer men always pop back up after not speaking to you for a while?

Yup.

He's banging other chicks first.

Posted by Emhendo
Yup.

He's banging other chicks first.

Lol. wow thanks!!! How should I act when we speak. I'm emotionally shut down from him but I'm friendly. Maybe a little friendly at times

I'm just kidding..

I read your previous post.

What you stated about him, I'm also guilty of.

I'm gonna tell you why I did those things and this might possibly apply to him too..

I have ghosted girls because -

*I lost my job and couldn't wine and dine a woman anymore. Didn't have the courage to tell her I lost my job, even if she might of never cared.. I just was embarrassed about being broke. I did this in my late teens... That's why I ghosted.

*The woman became too needy and clingy, putting a lot of pressure on me.. We don't like being ran up a wall. You can't give a Cancer man all your power, he'll mosdef take it for granted. They'll start to feel like they don't need you.

*I wasn't physically attracted to her, felt stupid trying to hook up with her. Something turned me the fuck off.

*Another woman. My ex or my crush might have given me a chance, and I ditched the new opportunity with a new woman for this old thing.

Posted by Emhendo
I'm just kidding..

I read your previous post.

What you stated about him, I'm also guilty of.

I'm gonna tell you why I did those things and this might possibly apply to him too..

I have ghosted girls because -

*I lost my job and couldn't wine and dine a woman anymore. Didn't have the courage to tell her I lost my job, even if she might of never cared.. I just was embarrassed about being broke. I did this in my late teens... That's why I ghosted.

*The woman became too needy and clingy, putting a lot of pressure on me.. We don't like being ran up a wall. You can't give a Cancer man all your power, he'll mosdef take it for granted. They'll start to feel like they don't need you.

*I wasn't physically attracted to her, felt stupid trying to hook up with her. Something turned me the fuck off.

*Another woman. My ex or my crush might have given me a chance, and I ditched the new opportunity with a new woman for this old thing.

Thank you for your honesty. My brother is a Cancer. I always felt he did things that never made much sense but now I read about cancers, I understand now. We are close btw but I'm the more level headed one. ha. But when you ghosted you popped back up and said what? Did you act like it never happened? lol

Posted by Leogeminimoonchild

Posted by Emhendo
I'm just kidding..

I read your previous post.

What you stated about him, I'm also guilty of.

I'm gonna tell you why I did those things and this might possibly apply to him too..

I have ghosted girls because -

*I lost my job and couldn't wine and dine a woman anymore. Didn't have the courage to tell her I lost my job, even if she might of never cared.. I just was embarrassed about being broke. I did this in my late teens... That's why I ghosted.

*The woman became too needy and clingy, putting a lot of pressure on me.. We don't like being ran up a wall. You can't give a Cancer man all your power, he'll mosdef take it for granted. They'll start to feel like they don't need you.

*I wasn't physically attracted to her, felt stupid trying to hook up with her. Something turned me the fuck off.

*Another woman. My ex or my crush might have given me a chance, and I ditched the new opportunity with a new woman for this old thing.

Thank you for your honesty. My brother is a Cancer. I always felt he did things that never made much sense but now I read about cancers, I understand now. We are close btw but I'm the more level headed one. ha. But when you ghosted you popped back up and said what? Did you act like it never happened? lol

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I acted like it never happened...

And I also just feel like I'm not capable of being missed.

Like no one could ever miss me. I haven't ever experienced a deep love and I don't think I ever will, until I have my first child.

People rarely ever say they miss me. When I leave a girl, I honestly think she's not effected and everything's gonna be okay..

Like she'll forget me by next week anyway.

But I pop back up with the sweet talk, being loving and kissing. I just go "I been thinking about you".. Baby this.. Baby that..

Posted by LaMadrina
They know they'd be shot down so no popping back up nonsense for me. Life is excellent.

Yea, I wish I can convince myself to be tougher. My sister is a cancer and she says I accept too much from people. I'm working on it though. I think lol

Posted by Emhendo

Posted by Leogeminimoonchild

Posted by Emhendo
I'm just kidding..

I read your previous post.

What you stated about him, I'm also guilty of.

I'm gonna tell you why I did those things and this might possibly apply to him too..

I have ghosted girls because -

*I lost my job and couldn't wine and dine a woman anymore. Didn't have the courage to tell her I lost my job, even if she might of never cared.. I just was embarrassed about being broke. I did this in my late teens... That's why I ghosted.

*The woman became too needy and clingy, putting a lot of pressure on me.. We don't like being ran up a wall. You can't give a Cancer man all your power, he'll mosdef take it for granted. They'll start to feel like they don't need you.

*I wasn't physically attracted to her, felt stupid trying to hook up with her. Something turned me the fuck off.

*Another woman. My ex or my crush might have given me a chance, and I ditched the new opportunity with a new woman for this old thing.

Thank you for your honesty. My brother is a Cancer. I always felt he did things that never made much sense but now I read about cancers, I understand now. We are close btw but I'm the more level headed one. ha. But when you ghosted you popped back up and said what? Did you act like it never happened? lol

I acted like it never happened...

And I also just feel like I'm not capable of being missed.

Like no one could ever miss me. I haven't ever experienced a deep love and I don't think I ever will, until I have my first child.

People rarely ever say they miss me. When I leave a girl, I honestly think she's not effected and everything's gonna be okay..

Like she'll forget me by next week anyway.

But I pop back up with the sweet talk, being loving and kissing. I just go "I been thinking about you".. Baby this.. Baby that..

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Awww. I miss you and I don't even know you. I'm crying over here for real.

I love Leo girls. They so sweet, down and generous with their love.

I wish I could have kept my Leo around... But I'm living without her and I can't go back if I could.. She messed up when she left and continued to leave me hanging.

Posted by Emhendo
I love Leo girls. They so sweet, down and generous with their love.

I wish I could have kept my Leo around... But I'm living without her and I can't go back if I could.. She messed up when she left and continued to leave me hanging.

We give lots of chance. Need attention and love. We love hard. But when we are done and that little window we left open is shut, it's over. I just learned that I can't go back to dead relationships because of what it took from me and how long it took me to pick up the piece. I was married took me 2 years to get into another relationship. I was engaged and it took me 5 years to decide to date again. I'm 32 only 2 relationships. The next one is for keeps. I just know it.

Posted by Leogeminimoonchild

Posted by Emhendo
I love Leo girls. They so sweet, down and generous with their love.

I wish I could have kept my Leo around... But I'm living without her and I can't go back if I could.. She messed up when she left and continued to leave me hanging.

We give lots of chance. Need attention and love. We love hard. But when we are done and that little window we left open is shut, it's over. I just learned that I can't go back to dead relationships because of what it took from me and how long it took me to pick up the piece. I was married took me 2 years to get into another relationship. I was engaged and it took me 5 years to decide to date again. I'm 32 only 2 relationships. The next one is for keeps. I just know it.

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wow you've been through a lot.

Posted by Leogeminimoonchild

Posted by Emhendo
I love Leo girls. They so sweet, down and generous with their love.

I wish I could have kept my Leo around... But I'm living without her and I can't go back if I could.. She messed up when she left and continued to leave me hanging.

We give lots of chance. Need attention and love. We love hard. But when we are done and that little window we left open is shut, it's over. I just learned that I can't go back to dead relationships because of what it took from me and how long it took me to pick up the piece. I was married took me 2 years to get into another relationship. I was engaged and it took me 5 years to decide to date again. I'm 32 only 2 relationships. The next one is for keeps. I just know it.

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Yeah. Y'all got the kind of loyalty I never seen before.. She chose to be loyal to her ex, over me.

Which I still can't understand till this day. The only thing I understand is that women rather be in an emotionally abusive/cheating relationship, than a BORING one.

Not to say that I am boring. I actually have almost got us into trouble a few times..

Gemini Moon, whatcha gonna do... AHAHA.

I couldn't understand her and why she went back to her cheating ex only a few weeks after we split.

I felt that I was smarter, more good looking, more interesting, she told me I was better than her ex in bed. I felt that I had more style and charisma. I felt that I was better.. Shit.. As I should.

Like I still think to this day, "what that motherfucka got that I don't got?!?"

I'll never fuckin know..

But if I date another Leo, I have to make sure she's not on the rebound.. Because that was the only reason we got together in the first place.

But it was so soooo good while it lasted. One of the best women I ever had in my life. I still kind of miss her.

Posted by Leogeminimoonchild
Do cancer men always pop back up after not speaking to you for a while?

Yes. Even after they got married 😑 Even after 4+ years.. I wonder if they're unhappy? But it's none of my business.

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Posted by Leogeminimoonchild
Do cancer men always pop back up after not speaking to you for a while?

Yes. Even after they got married 😑 Even after 4+ years.. I wonder if they're unhappy? But it's none of my business.

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Maybe they just want attention.

The Cancerian men from my past did come back (repeatedly) until I closed the door on them for good. One of them I had to block. The other was more difficult, because he had meant the most to me. I didn't have the heart to block him, but I didn't need to. He had gone back to his Baby Mama (again), and I had started a new relationship. He hated that. He got his Baby Mama pregnant again, but I didn't know that until after their second child was born. When I started dating my now-fiancé, the Cancerian's Baby Mama must've been 3 or 4 months pregnant (again, at the time I didn't know), but he was messaging me daily telling me how much he loved and missed me. It got him nowhere, though, because I had a boyfriend, and when he realized we were done because I had moved on, he turned his attention back to his Baby Mama and immediately proposed to her. They had a courthouse wedding shortly after. He tried to contact me one other time, 5 months later, to wish me a happy birthday. I deleted his message without responding, and that was the final nail in the coffin. He won't try to contact me again after that.

I’d say it depends how the relationship ended and how they felt about you at the very end. Can you describe this to us?

Yes! I dated a Cancer man for 3 years but we broke up twice and recently just broke up again and it's over for good. He always came back and I know he will come back again but I don't want to be with him. Every time we broke up it was because he wasn't ready for commitment and when he saw I was moving on, he'd slip back up. I care about him but I can't keep breaking up and getting back together with him.

Yup cancer male does. It gets annoying thou

Why would u want a cancer male or female, they’re such cry babies

Posted by Leogeminimoonchild
Do cancer men always pop back up after not speaking to you for a while?

like the ghost of Christmas past

Posted by Echo
Yup cancer male does. It gets annoying thou

Interesting, I never knew that. Why is that?

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo
Yup cancer male does. It gets annoying thou

Interesting, I never knew that. Why is that? click to expand

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When they still have an interest on you. And still think they got a shot.

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo
Yup cancer male does. It gets annoying thou

Interesting, I never knew that. Why is that? click to expand

When they still have an interest on you. And still think they got a shot. click to expand

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So is it safe to say their bipolar?

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo
Yup cancer male does. It gets annoying thou

Interesting, I never knew that. Why is that? click to expand

When they still have an interest on you. And still think they got a shot. click to expand

So is it safe to say their bipolar? click to expand

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Not all. There is really chill Cancer men out there

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo
Yup cancer male does. It gets annoying thou

Interesting, I never knew that. Why is that? click to expand

When they still have an interest on you. And still think they got a shot. click to expand

So is it safe to say their bipolar? click to expand

Not all. There is really chill Cancer men out there click to expand

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Ok got you. I know alot of cancer females and a couple cancer guys. One is chill and one is a complete female omg.

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo
Yup cancer male does. It gets annoying thou

Interesting, I never knew that. Why is that? click to expand

When they still have an interest on you. And still think they got a shot. click to expand

So is it safe to say their bipolar? click to expand

Not all. There is really chill Cancer men out there click to expand

Ok got you. I know alot of cancer females and a couple cancer guys. One is chill and one is a complete female omg. click to expand

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Complete female? 😂😂😂 what do you mean LMFAO

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo
Yup cancer male does. It gets annoying thou

Interesting, I never knew that. Why is that? click to expand

When they still have an interest on you. And still think they got a shot. click to expand

So is it safe to say their bipolar? click to expand

Not all. There is really chill Cancer men out there click to expand

Ok got you. I know alot of cancer females and a couple cancer guys. One is chill and one is a complete female omg. click to expand

Complete female? 😂😂😂 what do you mean LMFAO click to expand

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Lol yes complete female. He complains and whines about everything. When he doesnt have his way, all hell freezes over. He can talk on the phone for hours. I'm like omg really dude.

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo
Yup cancer male does. It gets annoying thou

Interesting, I never knew that. Why is that? click to expand

When they still have an interest on you. And still think they got a shot. click to expand

So is it safe to say their bipolar? click to expand

Not all. There is really chill Cancer men out there click to expand

Ok got you. I know alot of cancer females and a couple cancer guys. One is chill and one is a complete female omg. click to expand

Complete female? 😂😂😂 what do you mean LMFAO click to expand

Lol yes complete female. He complains and whines about everything. When he doesnt have his way, all hell freezes over. He can talk on the phone for hours. I'm like omg really dude. click to expand

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It's either

1.) His gay

2.) Did not hit maturity

3.) His a hot mess

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo
Yup cancer male does. It gets annoying thou

Interesting, I never knew that. Why is that? click to expand

When they still have an interest on you. And still think they got a shot. click to expand

So is it safe to say their bipolar? click to expand

Not all. There is really chill Cancer men out there click to expand

Ok got you. I know alot of cancer females and a couple cancer guys. One is chill and one is a complete female omg. click to expand

Complete female? 😂😂😂 what do you mean LMFAO click to expand

Lol yes complete female. He complains and whines about everything. When he doesnt have his way, all hell freezes over. He can talk on the phone for hours. I'm like omg really dude. click to expand

It's either

1.) His gay

2.) Did not hit maturity

3.) His a hot mess

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I definitely think he is # 1. I'm usually always right about my assumptions. The other one who is cool is young but I think he is under gay.

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo
Yup cancer male does. It gets annoying thou

Interesting, I never knew that. Why is that? click to expand

When they still have an interest on you. And still think they got a shot. click to expand

So is it safe to say their bipolar? click to expand

Not all. There is really chill Cancer men out there click to expand

Ok got you. I know alot of cancer females and a couple cancer guys. One is chill and one is a complete female omg. click to expand

Complete female? 😂😂😂 what do you mean LMFAO click to expand

Lol yes complete female. He complains and whines about everything. When he doesnt have his way, all hell freezes over. He can talk on the phone for hours. I'm like omg really dude. click to expand

It's either

1.) His gay

2.) Did not hit maturity

3.) His a hot mess

click to expand

I definitely think he is # 1. I'm usually always right about my assumptions. The other one who is cool is young but I think he is under gay. click to expand

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Probably. Cause I dont hear a man say omg as much than a really girly-gay individual

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo
Yup cancer male does. It gets annoying thou

Interesting, I never knew that. Why is that? click to expand

When they still have an interest on you. And still think they got a shot. click to expand

So is it safe to say their bipolar? click to expand

Not all. There is really chill Cancer men out there click to expand

Ok got you. I know alot of cancer females and a couple cancer guys. One is chill and one is a complete female omg. click to expand

Complete female? 😂😂😂 what do you mean LMFAO click to expand

Lol yes complete female. He complains and whines about everything. When he doesnt have his way, all hell freezes over. He can talk on the phone for hours. I'm like omg really dude. click to expand

It's either

1.) His gay

2.) Did not hit maturity

3.) His a hot mess

click to expand

I definitely think he is # 1. I'm usually always right about my assumptions. The other one who is cool is young but I think he is under gay. click to expand

Probably. Cause I dont hear a man say omg as much than a really girly-gay individual click to expand

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Exactly. You should see his eyebrows. They are naturally arched and look better than your average REAL female.

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Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo
Yup cancer male does. It gets annoying thou

Interesting, I never knew that. Why is that? click to expand

When they still have an interest on you. And still think they got a shot. click to expand

So is it safe to say their bipolar? click to expand

Not all. There is really chill Cancer men out there click to expand

Ok got you. I know alot of cancer females and a couple cancer guys. One is chill and one is a complete female omg. click to expand

Complete female? 😂😂😂 what do you mean LMFAO click to expand

Lol yes complete female. He complains and whines about everything. When he doesnt have his way, all hell freezes over. He can talk on the phone for hours. I'm like omg really dude. click to expand

It's either

1.) His gay

2.) Did not hit maturity

3.) His a hot mess

click to expand

I definitely think he is # 1. I'm usually always right about my assumptions. The other one who is cool is young but I think he is under gay. click to expand

Probably. Cause I dont hear a man say omg as much than a really girly-gay individual click to expand

Exactly. You should see his eyebrows. They are naturally arched and look better than your average REAL female. click to expand

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Those kind of people makes me so jealous lmao

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Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo

Posted by Brickhouse27

Posted by Echo
Yup cancer male does. It gets annoying thou

Interesting, I never knew that. Why is that? click to expand

When they still have an interest on you. And still think they got a shot. click to expand

So is it safe to say their bipolar? click to expand

Not all. There is really chill Cancer men out there click to expand

Ok got you. I know alot of cancer females and a couple cancer guys. One is chill and one is a complete female omg. click to expand

Complete female? 😂😂😂 what do you mean LMFAO click to expand

Lol yes complete female. He complains and whines about everything. When he doesnt have his way, all hell freezes over. He can talk on the phone for hours. I'm like omg really dude. click to expand

It's either

1.) His gay

2.) Did not hit maturity

3.) His a hot mess

click to expand

I definitely think he is # 1. I'm usually always right about my assumptions. The other one who is cool is young but I think he is under gay. click to expand

Probably. Cause I dont hear a man say omg as much than a really girly-gay individual click to expand

Exactly. You should see his eyebrows. They are naturally arched and look better than your average REAL female. click to expand

Those kind of people makes me so jealous lmao click to expand

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Lol ikr I just be looking like "how is this even possible"?

Posted by Leogeminimoonchild
Do cancer men always pop back up after not speaking to you for a while?

YUP. Was in a relationship with a Cancer. I told him I wanted to break up. Still told me "Happy Valentine's Day" a couple days later. We were in a weird in between phase, but he started flaking on me so I had enough and completely cut him off, told him to stop talking to me. Not even 5 days later, he texted me told me how much he missed me. We tried things again, he broke things off. We didn't speak for a month, now that I am moving on, he messages me on Twitter.

If they had real feelings for you and you hold a special place in their heart, they will always come back, one way or another. But it's up to you to be strong and resist. I had to learn this the hard way, now he's a closed door with a lock and I don't know where the key is.