@coldwateryvirgo
9 Years500+ PostsVirgo
Cancer man mad that my ex called
Understanding Cancer Man's Reactions to Past Exes
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My question is , what do I do ? We sorta talked when we woke up , he said he was drunk n mad n tired last night . I said I was sorry again and he seems to accept it a lil. I made him breakfast . Everything still feel a little stiff. It’s LDR and he just left on his flight this afternoon
Idk if I should bring it up one more time to clarify how much he means to me and I would never put myself in a situation where that would happen again .
Or do I ride it out and don’t bring it up again because he’s talking to me now so I’m a sense he forgiven me ... at least a lil
Don't bring it up, he’ll do that each time your phone rings in next few years lol.
But for real, let it be. He’ll chill, he knows he overreacted.
I need more response , so ima annoy people by bringing my own post up in the feed with this response . Which will probably go unanswered still -.- guysssssssss I’m stressin
Don't worry it'll blow over 🙂
Maybe just be super reassuring each time you do talk and remain consistent as per usual 🤗
Cancers aren’t stupid
They dwell in emotions
Put that all together & u have ur answer
That is all
Your answer is so cancer lol I don’t get it
Posted by Arielle83
Aren't you the chick that bags on cancers??Why you dating one?
Been with him for 5 years now, I’m allowed to complain about some qualities on an Internet forum .
You just happen to take it personal
Posted by DeleterNerd
5 years and he said you both were nothing? Thats rough.
Yeaaaaaa exactly , that’s why I was hurt . Even though I knew I initially caused it .
He admitted he was mad , drunk and tired this morning and that he was just saying things .
But boy was I hurt and mad when he said that . I was like , nothing? Are you being serious right now ?
I still don’t know where this post after post hating on cancers are that you say in all my cancer post but okay bruh I’m not arguing with you miss good c.u.nt. Have a laugh , it’s nice to make someone laugh in this hole of a world we in
Just for the record , I love getting dick down by my cancer. You should have some sex , more sex less dxp
Posted by coldwateryvirgo
Just for the record , I love getting dick down by my cancer. You should have some sex , more sex less dxpYa I do.
I don't come to dxp to whine about petty shit tho.
I can tell I offended you.
Dude, if you don't remember your whiny cancer man posts then your delusion is real.
Stupid Virgo
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You’ve been riding my pus sy for so long i actually think you’re secretly in love with me . It’s okay that You might even love me .if I could dxp sex you to relieve your frustration I would . I might pass you some virus though . I’m not feel saint like at the moment tho and saving the internet at the moment tho
Please have some sex , get some cock or vagina . Idk your gender . Relieve your woes
Posted by coldwateryvirgo
Just for the record , I love getting dick down by my cancer. You should have some sex , more sex less dxpYa I do.
I don't come to dxp to whine about petty shit tho.
I can tell I offended you.
Dude, if you don't remember your whiny cancer man posts then your delusion is real.
Stupid Virgo
You’ve been riding my pus sy for so long i actually think you’re secretly in love with me . It’s okay that You might even love me .if I could dxp sex you to relieve your frustration I would . I might pass you some virus though . I’m not feel saint like at the moment tho and saving the internet at the moment tho
I posted on your thread today.
Bitch you high or what?
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Not high just eating ramen lol
Change your number. If your ex is reaching you after 5 years, you should really change your number.
I think that should be common sense.
Posted by coldwateryvirgo
Please have some sex , get some cock or vagina . Idk your gender . Relieve your woesQuit projecting.
We all know the cancer cut you off!!!
Hahaaa no one wants a salty Virgo!!
Here maybe this will get rid of your whinges.
Might take you to another world
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No one wants a salty virgo 😢 😣
Posted by Arielle83
Aren't you the chick that bags on cancers??Why you dating one?
Been with him for 5 years now, I’m allowed to complain about some qualities on an Internet forum .
You just happen to take it personal
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Wow you know how to commit girl.
Do nothing. Blame it it on mercury in retrograde.
You didn’t put him on speaker, which made you look suspicious and now he doesn’t trust you..... good luck fixing that.
If you didn’t want to talk to your ex, hang up the phone. Don’t entertain the conversation. Especially right in front of your bf.
Posted by Raakac
This happend because you didn't respond to my text, karma. LOOL i'm joking, but seriously, if after 5years he managed to say we're nothing anyways, that's someething, i can only imagine how that sounds in overthinking and analyzing Virgo head lool. You should be able to talk about everything with your partner, if it's hard write it on the paper and read it out loud i mean don't say shit like we're nothing , just write down emotions that you're feeling and while you do write them down you'll realise where are they coming from, might be from past trauma and shit, or it might just be that you're overreacting, write that shit down, and in the end write the response you would like to hear from your husband or boyfriend whatever y call him, like i'm sorry that i said that to you, i was overcome with emotion and didn't mean what i said, i appreciate what you do for me, i appreciate that you are here with me, i love you and i wouldn't want to be with anyone else but you, some shit like that, you should both write one and give each other the letter and speak it out loud, so then you'll become more open and more understanding with each other, 5years is fucking long, i can't imagine relationship where y can't talk openly about what you feel, that's just self distructive, all these unnecessary thoughts and emotions inside, you need to let them go by either talking or expressing them on letter with each other, thats how you grow stronger, you open up, support each other and grow, without that you might have 10years of relationship, but if there's no growth, you'll have weak roots and eventually you'll break.
@Raakac this happened the day I said I was gonna get back to you !! Sorry: I haven’t cuz I know my response to you was gonna be long and I need to type via laptop instead of texting via phone . I think we re okay now . It really bothered me that he said it Z deep down I know he was mad and didn’t mean it but it cuts . I didn’t bring up the phone call like everyone suggested which I agreed , we were over that. But I was still not over what he said so I told him this morning that NEVER say we’re nothinng unless you actually mean it . It cuts because deep down I know people fall out of love all the time and changes , and when I heard that I fear it might be true. I then follow with a lot of you know how much I love you butter hehehe
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So last night I kept getting collect call . But I keep missing the call and it goes to voicemail so I can’t find out who it was . I was curious so I picked up the call which was my ex . After asking why he was calling me and why he was in jail. He said he was gonna call me again . ( my ex is a dick btw , trouble maker time after time , we broke up 5 years ago, never rekindled any relationship , is aware I’m in a relationship , randomly calls once a year from random numbers just to make up lies and start arguments over the phone ) . I told him don’t bother , he shouldn’t be calling me . My cancer bf, sitting next to me the whole time keeps tapping me to put him on speaker and his voice got scarier and more demanding . Knowing what stupid shit my ex might say I decided to not put him on the speaker and will just tell my bf about it afterward . I simply hung up after telling him to just not call me because I won’t be picking up .
After I hung up, cancer gave me a “you’re dumb, idc, you’re being stupid , we’re nothing anyways , do whatever you want “
Then went to sleep and refuse to accept my apology that I know what it seems like and I was sorry . If it was his ex I knew I felt the same . I just told him it’s an ex from a long time ago, we don’t stay in contact, there’s nothing to worry about and I would never mess something good I have with him over anyone like that .
He kept saying I don’t care , do whatever
We didn’t talk for the rest of the night