Cooking for cancer man

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We both have a very hectic week in coming, but he said he MUST spend some time with me. I really appreciate it as I also want to spend more time to continually build connection.

I've been to his place twice, he made me dinner once, and the other time breakfast.

He's been very busy and I like to cook something healthy for him as he seems a bit run down when I saw him the other day. I like to make him healthy dinner and breakfast. Probably also some healthy drinks too.

I'm a good cook and enjoys cooking for people I care for, but it's the first time he sleeps over if it's dinner and breakfast will this be a bit much?

I like to reciprocate what he did, and to look after his health, but the last thing I want is make him uncomfortable.
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Everyone is different. I personally wouldn't have someone stay over and not offer to make them breakfast in the morning.
But I also wouldn't cook an evening meal for someone on a first date or until I am sure there is a warm enough, intimate bond between us and a high amount of respect and attraction that isn't only surface deep.

I guess at the stage of wanting to spend more time together I would do both, as breakfast doesn't really count, especially if it's only a small breakfast.
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We both have a very hectic week in coming, but he said he MUST spend some time with me. I really appreciate it as I also want to spend more time to continually build connection.

I've been to his place twice, he made me dinner once, and the other time breakfast.

He's been very busy and I like to cook something healthy for him as he seems a bit run down when I saw him the other day. I like to make him healthy dinner and breakfast. Probably also some healthy drinks too.

I'm a good cook and enjoys cooking for people I care for, but it's the first time he sleeps over if it's dinner and breakfast will this be a bit much?

I like to reciprocate what he did, and to look after his health, but the last thing I want is make him uncomfortable.
My cancer made me breakfast, I wrapped up the other half and left it 😢 I felt so bad bc I really wanted it and I know he probably felt some type of way that it was forgotten. I told him I left it in the spot it was in to have a reason to go back inside (as stupid as it may sound, i'll take those few extra minutes with him lol) I didn't let him know the parenthesized part bc I already feel like I spill too much of my soul to him right now anyway, I automatically wanted to make him breakfast in return bc I was so grateful and it was fathers day, I was going to make something for my dad (breakfast casserole) and share it with him too, but no response to either of my messages :/ back to square 1 I guess
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When my cacner made me breakfast I was so happy, we were cuddling and talk and laugh while eating.

Being open and vunerable is a risk we have to take if we want a deep and meaningful relationship, or else we will just be stuck and mindless chit chat with each other.

When did that happen? Did you explain to him why?

Just saying as a cook (him and I share the same view on cooking) we enjoy watching other people eating our food. I guess with you wrapping up would hurt him, but I guess it's part of relationship, we are all hunan and we will make mistake at some point. Just keep communicating with him. He will appreciate you open up to him. Mine always do.
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Everyone is different. I personally wouldn't have someone stay over and not offer to make them breakfast in the morning.
But I also wouldn't cook an evening meal for someone on a first date or until I am sure there is a warm enough, intimate bond between us and a high amount of respect and attraction that isn't only surface deep.

I guess at the stage of wanting to spend more time together I would do both, as breakfast doesn't really count, especially if it's only a small breakfast.
I know right, first date home cook meal is overkill! Also it's bad idea for safety reason.

I totally get it about the breakfast offering, to me it's just rude to not offer them anything, if you don't have time to cook at least give them some fruits or toast.

yes I think I'm comfortable to cook him both, as he already cooked me dinner and breakfast before. time to let him visit my place. As we've been dating for 3 months already.

We see how our schedule pan out this week, we both are trying to make time for each other.
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Everyone is different. I personally wouldn't have someone stay over and not offer to make them breakfast in the morning.
But I also wouldn't cook an evening meal for someone on a first date or until I am sure there is a warm enough, intimate bond between us and a high amount of respect and attraction that isn't only surface deep.

I guess at the stage of wanting to spend more time together I would do both, as breakfast doesn't really count, especially if it's only a small breakfast.
I know right, first date home cook meal is overkill! Also it's bad idea for safety reason.

I totally get it about the breakfast offering, to me it's just rude to not offer them anything, if you don't have time to cook at least give them some fruits or toast.

yes I think I'm comfortable to cook him both, as he already cooked me dinner and breakfast before. time to let him visit my place. As we've been dating for 3 months already.

We see how our schedule pan out this week, we both are trying to make time for each other.
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Fuk man are we going to get weekly updates from this chick?

And all her Virgo counterparts

Are they here to remain?

Why don't they go..... Far away
You are one of my top follower, would be wrong not to give you a weekly update.
actually im not bytch, im on the crab board, and im tired of your TIRED threads.

so fuking annoying.


are you going to ask a question every week, can't you just be SECURE in yourself.
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Why is it so hard for people to mind their own business? Do they not have a life going on?
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Why is this a question?
Don't worry about it, our schedule clashes badly this week.. it's better we leave it for next week.. I barely had any sleep this week..

To answer your question, I was comfortable to cook 2 meals as you probably remember we talked about I really love cooking.

I also remember you mentioned cooking means something else to cancer, that's why I asked.
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Posted by Arielle83
I wouldn't hold back cooking if you want to.

If you're not into cooking and doing it "to get a man", cancer will figure you out over time and deem insincere.

However, you said you like cooking, so I digress.
Yes I really love cooking and eating haha this week cooking plan is off, We will see how next week plays out as we are both VERY busy.

His birthday is coming up soon, not sure if I will be invited to do anything. 2 weeks ago I asked what is he going to do he said not sure yet, he haven't thought of it.

I was thinking of baking him a cake with a cake tin that he can use next time, as he also love cooking. Will see what happens.
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I would do both the dinner and the breakfast. He will be touched by this because one of the quickest ways into a Cancer's heart is thru his stomach. Seafood if he likes it - shirmp, scallops or some really good fish, like Grouper. Omelet for breakfast, show him your imagination.
WOW do cancer and virgo have similar taste in food? what you suggested was excatly what I was planning for!!
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Fuk man are we going to get weekly updates from this chick?

And all her Virgo counterparts

Are they here to remain?

Why don't they go..... Far away
You are one of my top follower, would be wrong not to give you a weekly update.
actually im not bytch, im on the crab board, and im tired of your TIRED threads.

so fuking annoying.


are you going to ask a question every week, can't you just be SECURE in yourself.
Why is it so hard for people to mind their own business? Do they not have a life going on?
Why don't you mind your business? You're on the crab board! Uninvited

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Since when do we need invitation to get into dxpnet? Seafood and omelette are crap? No wonder your Virgo dumped you hahaha
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Posted by SensitiveBlues
Posted by Illuminati
Posted by SensitiveBlues
Posted by Illuminati
Posted by SensitiveBlues
Posted by Poppyseeds
Posted by SensitiveBlues
Fuk man are we going to get weekly updates from this chick?

And all her Virgo counterparts

Are they here to remain?

Why don't they go..... Far away
You are one of my top follower, would be wrong not to give you a weekly update.
actually im not bytch, im on the crab board, and im tired of your TIRED threads.

so fuking annoying.


are you going to ask a question every week, can't you just be SECURE in yourself.
Why is it so hard for people to mind their own business? Do they not have a life going on?
Why don't you mind your business? You're on the crab board! Uninvited
Since when do we need invitation to get into dxpnet? Seafood and omelette are crap? No wonder your Virgo dumped you hahaha
you're annoying, why are you talking to me again? get a life, but not a CRAB. no thank you. We can definitely do way better. I learned that the hard way
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Both of you have been hogging my thread, can you guys please get a room?

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I would do both the dinner and the breakfast. He will be touched by this because one of the quickest ways into a Cancer's heart is thru his stomach. Seafood if he likes it - shirmp, scallops or some really good fish, like Grouper. Omelet for breakfast, show him your imagination.
WOW do cancer and virgo have similar taste in food? what you suggested was excatly what I was planning for!!

I had a long relationship with a classy, educated Virgo woman. Speaking from experience Poppy.
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We finally worked out sometime for dinner, he loved my cooking 🙂 I have to get up super early the next day, so breakfast another time 🙂

For his birthday I'm thinking of his favorite dessert with the tin for him to keep / use.