When a relationship seems to be losing it's steam for a cancer, they seem to shut themselves off or they start acting differently until the other person gets fed up and breaks up with them. I'm not saying this action is wrong or right or that all cancers do this, and I definitely don't mean to offend, you guys know I love me some cancers. Just curious about it. I had a cancer do this to me before, and the same has happened to some of my friends. As a matter of fact, I just finished talking to a friend that this recently happened to that inspired me to post this. In my case, I'm pretty intuitive so I know it wasn't just him hiding in his shell for a while. He straight up lost interest which is fine, it happens. It was confirmed when I decided to break up with him and his reaction was "OK!!" Like he was just waiting for me to do it lol. Is it because some cancers don't like confrontation? Or don't like to hurt others?
Curious..

I personally don't like confrontations.

I am not sure what cancers are like

I f!ck sh!t up because I know it will end it. Sometimes I hope it won't... but I know it will. I'm also convinced it needs to end. That minimizes the chance of me getting hurt.
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