cusp—

ok i'm new to astrology and was never really into it cept readin those daily horoscopes. I heard you guys mentioned quite often about that cusp thing. What is it all bout anyway? Well I went and checked my birth chart and there werent anything about cancer in my chart. But why do I act and think so like a cancer—Anyone can please explain...very confused not only by my cancer bf lol

BTW, what's a sign to tell if cancerian is really in love with you? What do they like and dont like?

CUSPS


Those of us born close to the end of one sign and approaching another, say within 2 degrees of the beginning degree of the next sign, are referred to as being born on 'The Cusp'. The cusp, of course, is the point at 0 degrees of the new sign.

There are differing opinions among Astrologers as to just what being born on a Cusp means. Some suggest that where a sign ends and another begins there is a hard line of demarcation. One type suddenly ends and another type suddenly begins. Absolutely untrue! Rather, there is a fading out of the influence of the current and a gradual increase in traits related to the following sign.

So, if I am born at 28 degrees of say Virgo; the Virgo traits will be waning and Libran traits, the following sign, will be increasing. Also, if I am born at 1 degree of Libra I will have overtones of Virgo traits still visible and working in my general character.

So the questions is, "What traits apply to me, born on the cusp of two signs?"

The answer is: People born on a cusp have traits that merge, blend and collide. There is ambivalence in a cusp sign. Rather than giving you a lesson in Astrology, the meanings for the cusp signs follow.

17 April - 21 April: Aries-Taurus
18 May - 22 May: Taurus-Gemini
19 June - 23 June: Gemini-Cancer
20 July - 24 July: Cancer-Leo
20 Aug - 24 Aug: Leo-Virgo
20 Sep - 24 Sep: Virgo-Libra 21 Oct - 25 Oct: Libra-Scorpio
20 Nov - 24 Nov: Scorpio-Sagittarius
19 Dec - 23 Dec: Sagittarius-Capricorn
17 Jan - 21 Jan: Capricorn-Aquarius
17 Feb - 20 Feb: Aquarius-Pisces
18 March - 22 March: Pisces-Aries

hmm ok very informative but I'm still confused...so qts:

1)Let's say I'm Aries-Taurus so when I look up the horoscope do I look into the aries or taurus or both? since I falls in bet like you said that "cusp" thing, beginning of one sign and ending of one.

2)So is my cancer bf so according to that chart, he's a gemini-cancer. That means he could possess both the traits of gemini-cancer just like I do with aries-taurus, correct?

3)If this is true, then which signs do I look into for our compatibility since it's in between the signs.

It's interesting that you are the same as my by, gemini-cancer. So can you please give me some insights about guys like this? It's a "good sign" for a cancer to constant reassure me that I'm his girl, and that he calls me by nicknames and says that he misses me, true? I know it sounds silly but everyone knows that how cancer could be so affectionate but distant the next min so I'm often confused by it, not that I doubt him you know but since esp we are just in the beginning stage of dating....well been talkin for a while but havent gone out for dates yet so if he's able to act like a bf should b even at this state, this is good right?!? 🙂

hmm ok very informative but I'm still confused...so qts:

1)Let's say I'm Aries-Taurus so when I look up the horoscope do I look into the aries or taurus or both? since I falls in bet like you said that "cusp" thing, beginning of one sign and ending of one.

2)So is my cancer bf so according to that chart, he's a gemini-cancer. That means he could possess both the traits of gemini-cancer just like I do with aries-taurus, correct?

3)If this is true, then which signs do I look into for our compatibility since it's in between the signs.

It's interesting that you are the same as my by, gemini-cancer. So can you please give me some insights about guys like this? It's a "good sign" for a cancer to constant reassure me that I'm his girl, and that he calls me by nicknames and says that he misses me, true? I know it sounds silly but everyone knows that how cancer could be so affectionate but distant the next min so I'm often confused by it, not that I doubt him you know but since esp we are just in the beginning stage of dating....well been talkin for a while but havent gone out for dates yet so if he's able to act like a bf should b even at this state, this is good right?!? 🙂

Because the traits of one sign sometimes predominate over the next sign, I look to the placement of Mercury to further define the cusp sign.

Mercury is never more than 28 degrees from the Sun, either ahead or behind the Sun. So, Mercury is always in your sun sign or in one of the two signs on either side of your Sun sign. Although the position of Mercury is very important in everyone's chart, it is a pivotal position when you are born on a cusp.

Say your sun sign is 29 degrees Virgo. If Mercury were behind the Sun, a lesser degree than the Sun, than it would be in Virgo too, reinforcing the Virgo traits. Remember, Mercury is never more than 28 degrees behind or ahead of the Sun. If Mercury were ahead of the Sun, then it would be in Libra, emphasizing the Libran traits. Mercury shows how you think and communicate. Mercury is prominent in making analytical judgments. Mercury makes intellectual judgments devoid of feeling.

Following this you would look to Venus. Venus is never more than 46 degrees from the position of the Sun, either ahead or behind it. Venus shows how you feel, how you value anything based on judgment. Good or bad, like or dislike, pleasant or unpleasant. Venus makes value judgments, based on feelings.

The Sun, Mercury and Venus represent the basic self. What you are predisposed to. The undeveloped self, before personality, the Moon, is formed.


This is meant to give you a basic understanding of the cusp influence. Looking at Mercury and Venus, the judgment qualities of thought and feeling, we get better insight into the influence governing the cusp type.

Aries/Taurus
April 19 to April 23

Aries is the first sign of the zodiac. It represents birth and the first realization of self. Taurus, the second sign of the Zodiac, moves beyond what is represented by Aries. Taurus begins to physically explore the world. Aries tend to display strong leadership, and their extroverted and assertive nature lets them eagerly lead the new cycle of the zodiac. Taureans tend to be richly sensual, enjoying the good things in life and the physical pleasures that come with them. Together, these two astrological signs denote an active and dynamic pioneer who responds to the world by examining the worth of each possible response. The ability to follow through and complete projects that others may have abandoned through boredom or because it was too difficult is blended with the sign of new beginnings. This promises a tremendous amount of fulfilling adventure and achievement for those born on the Aries/Taurus cusp.

The astrological symbol of Aries is the Ram. Like the popular conception of the Ram, Aries people are able to accomplish a lot by sheer energy and force of will, ramming their way to their goals. In this way, Aries exemplifies the cardinal quality assigned to it. The astrological symbol of Taurus is the Bull. The term bullheaded applies to Taureans in both its positive and negative connotations, and Taurus exemplifies the fixed quality assigned to it. The Aries/Taurus can be blunt, and they are bold and strong. They are among the strongest combination of signs when it comes to meeting goals because of their reliable persistence. Those born under the influence of both astrological signs are able to initiate and successfully complete projects and activities.

Aries is ruled by the planet Mars. In ancient Roman mythology, Mars (and his Greek equivalent, Aries) was the god of war. He was bold, aggressive, energetic and courageous. On the negative side, he was impulsive, compulsive and quick-tempered, and he could give in to anger and a will for destruction. Taurus is ruled by the planet Venus. In ancient Roman mythology, Venus (and her Greek equivalent, Aphrodite) was the goddess of love, beauty and pleasure. She represented joy, happiness and appreciation of beautiful things. On the negative side, her appreciation for sweets and luxury could result in overindulgence. Mars was active and high-spirited, full of physical energy and vitality; the Aries/Taurus-born reflect his leadership and initiative. They are strongly independent and determined and have the physical stamina to stay their course. They have a great love for culture. It's important for them to feel good. They often maintain extensive art collections and tend to be artistic themselves, sometimes through singing. They enjoy partnership and marriage, and use their charm -- as well as their focused perseverance -- to work toward harmony and personal security. An individual born on the Aries/Taurus cusp has the potential for great satisfaction in life, thanks to the balance of great action and great will.

The element associated with Aries is Fire, and the element associated with Taurus is Earth. Fire Signs are physical beings who tend to respond to the world through action. Earth Signs tend to respond to the world by examining the worth of each possible response. The combination of these two elements provides a solid foundation to pioneer uncharted territories.

The Aries/Taurus tends to want what they want, when they want it. The Aries side of their character needs to accept that this isn't always possible and stop butting their heads, ram-like, into the nearest wall. Aries/Taurus people can also be extremely patient and dependable. Their ambition ensures that they are hardworking and helpful to others. The blending of their elements, earth and fire, gives them a general focus on building things and seeing their ideas through to completion. However, the fixed opinions of the Aries/Taurus

Gemini/Cancer
June 19 to June 23

Gemini is the third sign of the zodiac. Geminis examine the world through intellect. Cancer is the fourth sign of the zodiac. Cancers are emotional and traditional. Those born on the Gemini/Cancer cusp display great imagination and tend to be very expressive. They are interested in heredity and ancestors, and this is reflected in their desire to care for relatives and propagate the family line. They love to learn, and their lives are generally centered around the home.

The astrological symbol of Gemini is the Twins. Like twins, Geminis often have a dual nature and are skilled at seeing both sides of a problem. The astrological symbol of Cancer is the Crab. Like the Crab, Cancerians go through life with a strong shell around them that is not easily broken. Gemini/Cancers are the first to express emotion in any given situation -- the first to laugh and the first to tears. Gemini/Cancers tend to have many different interests that they study in great detail. Gemini exemplifies the mutable quality assigned to it by being adaptable and able to tackle multiple tasks simultaneously. Cancer exemplifies the cardinal quality assigned to it by being strong-willed, persistent and initiating.

Gemini is ruled by the planet Mercury. In ancient Roman mythology, Mercury (and his Greek equivalent, Hermes) was the messenger god. He was associated with travel and transportation. He was a communicator, quick-witted and inventive. Cancer is ruled by the Moon. In ancient times, the Moon, which represents fertility and instinct, was perceived as the Great Mother, responsible for nurturing all life. The Moon controls the tides and all water on Earth, and it has a strong effect on human emotions. Gemini/Cancers tend to be more sensitive to the movement of the Moon, their moods changing with the Moon's passage. Their facility in adapting to new challenges may seem like opportunism, but it is really just a highly intuitive curiosity that leads them to the right people at the right time. Generally domestic and peaceful, Gemini/Cancers often have many friends and acquaintances, and they won't sit still when loved ones are threatened.

The element associated with Gemini is Air. The element associated with Cancer is Water. Gemini/Cancers are very intuitive, and their broad-minded outlook and capacity for abstract reasoning enables them to make strong contributions to projects. Emotion is a key part of their lives and is checked and balanced with logic and objectivity. Their awareness and intellectual approach to life is refreshing, and their emotional honesty is something to be admired.

Gemini/Cancers have close family ties with their brothers and sisters. They often remain youthful and lighthearted their whole lives. These people have a strong association with food and a willingness to always try something new; they often make excellent cooks. Their many interests make them entertaining and stimulating conversationalists who really love people. In their leisure time, Gemini/Cancers enjoy pairing up with a partner for recreation. They often enjoy team sports because of the family feeling a team often provides. Gemini/Cancers are more likely to be ambidextrous than other signs. Physical exercise and artistic endeavors, written or on canvas, allow them to channel their swirling emotions into productive output. Their love for conversation and food ensures that leisurely dinners with friends are highly enjoyable for them, and their inquisitive and literary orientation means they enjoy mentally challenging pursuits as well.

In love relationships, Gemini/Cancers are caring, flirtatious, playful and romantic. The great strength of the Gemini/Cancer-born is in their blending of intellectual and conversational skills. They have the ability to understand the difficulties their loved ones must work through. Their affectionate nature makes them among the most caring characters

hey...it sounds good so far...pet names are good.lol

i suck at relationships.....it should be illegal for me to give advice🙂

cj7,

I'm sure you don't suck at relationships ... if there were the case ... I consider myself poisonious 🙂 You just haven't found the right woman to settle down with ... or I should say someone you can trust, respect and be faithful to 😉 Actually, I'm curious as to what you look for in a woman ...

tks CJ for the info. Being a gemini/cancer as my bf, can you tell me why is that sometimes we were in the middle of the converstaion(online) and suddenly boom he's gone without saying bye this has happened few times and it's really getting me so annoyed. I think crabs should stop taking that "i'm moody" as for excuse or does he even aware the fact that he's just not in the mood to talk out of the blue and just couldnt even say bye? Is it really that hard? I don't get it. I mean when I'm not in the mood to talk, I would always making sure he knows....arghhhh this is about love and hate when you date a cancerian, isn't it?

well well the descriptions about me is very accurate as my being a outdoorsy type person gotta be near the EARTH lol Is gemini/cancer a outdoor type too?

yeah at 32 i still havent settled down yet. my longest relationship has been 2 yrs. thats with my libra ex...who its seems i have started to see again. its not a perfect relationship but we cant seem to stay away from each other...its like a magnetic pull or something.lol i guess we'll see if we can make it work. i can be demanding at times but thats only because i give it everything myself. a women needs to be...talkative, able to relax, like to laugh, sensitive and aware of my sensitivity, energetic, and inspirational for me. theres tons of other things..too many to list🙂

sempbabe... i love the outdoors and the earthy things...especially when they are attached to a body of water. water is very calming and enjoyable to me no matter what shape or form it comes in....theres a lake in front of my house, a fish tank in the livingroom, where i live is called lake county(named for all the lakes) and the beach is about an hour to the west or east coast of florida.

i dont think i would leave a conversation without making someone aware that i was...thats kinda rude. he might have something else going on... or someone else. im not sure why he does that...ask him.

I think this is probably the first time ever that I'm sorta fed up at him. I'm usually very patient and nice but I still have my limits. He said he thought I was done talking that's why he went to bed yeah right. I don't buy that this time and I'm pissed now.

I think I have enough of the crab thing hate being manipulated hate mind games

This is the first time I'm ignoring him I'm not talking to him unless he puts his act together. He said he was sorry but that still dont make sense why would he just left the conversation liked that. Doesn't make sense. Crab can be a good lier if they want themselves to be. That's it no more crab playing mind games with me. I've already have things going on in my life gosh why do people take you for granted when you are so nice to them, I dont get it...

people suck 😢

Semperfibabe my crab has done that to me before, he just said 'going to bed' and signed off! I was pissed off and I text him asking why he was mad and he called but I didn't answer so he just left me this 'cute' message. But the other day he just signed off without notice... but I just stayed online (cuz I was chatting with someone else as well)... a few minutes later he signed back on to tell me that he was tired and going to bed. I suspect he thought about it lol

I'm thinking that I want a Virgo next 🙂 For all the 'toughness' of the crab, they can act like women when mad... more like bitchy women lol ummmm except cj7

I bet most single men are cancer or something? Look at all the 32yr.old single cancer men? What is up with that? 🙂

Well, those cancer men wouldn't be single in their late twenties and thirties if they did the following:
1. Stop holding on to bad/ toxic relationships
2. Stop the "womanizing thing" after the ages of 23, 24, 25 (they're alittle too old to be acting like 16 year old boys)
3. Learn on to control those darn emotions.

cappysweetie....your right. all except the womanizing thing. i might finish it after its started but usually its the women doing the hunting...at least it seems that way toward me. i could be extremely happy with just one good one🙂

huh...32 yr old single cancers....what u trying to say? 🙂 (and yeah...i get alittle bitchy too)

cj7 ... well what's stopping you from finding just one good— You're seem to be a nice guy with alot to offer, really you do 🙂 There's plentiy of women out there who "good". hahaha, it so funny ... my cancer buddy told me that I was a "good girl" and one of the best ones out there, yet I feel because I am good (and I know I'm good) it really makes kinda "poisonious", you know (if that makes any sense). I refuse to let them have fun with me so I get pushed aside ... that sucks. I'm not trying to get involved in your affairs but I think you would be better off looking for someone you could be happy, confortable and stable with.

You should look for a capricorn woman 🙂 🙂, it's written in the stars (literally) that both taurus and capricorn are marriage signs for cancer. The flaw with cappy women is that we don't like changeability ... we'll make you take a postion and stick it! Damn! Look it up and see for you self http://www.pattygreenall.com/compat.html

Let me know what you think 😉

TC I think they just haven't met the right one yet but I think this time he knows he does lol

Cabbysweetie its funny so does that mean I'm stock with my cancer babe hehe Remember I'm a Taurus 🙂

Well I'm gonna try not to let this whole astrology thing govern me too much. I think it's a heart-felt thing you gotta belive in your heart when you feel this is right then it's the right one. I think I've been spenting too much time on astrology and trying to figure out my cancer and fail to focus on the good things about him...he has alots of good qualities that I love and those are the reason that draw me to him unconditionally. I don't think I want to judge him by all this astorology facts. I mean it's fun but it's kinda like not having faith and patient and trying to foretell your future. It's against how things work...hmm does it make sense hey TC do you understand what I'm tryin to say here haha anyway good luck to you girls with the boys. I think sometimes its okay to have a little kitty fights with your man. I think this was the first fight ever for us but we are good to go again of cause and felt closer of cause. I think he's doing alot better now that he tries to share with me his feelings. patint patient patient well happy easter everyone 🙂

**huh...32 yr old single cancers....what u trying to say? (and yeah...i get alittle bitchy too)**

--LOL... Well I said it because you're 32, my bf is 32 and Semperfibabes bf is also 32 and some other aquarian chic whose my age (somewhere in the aqua board) is dating a 30 something yr. old cancer also and I think that Librats bf is also in his 30's... none married. Nothing bad, just noticing 🙂 So you can get a little bitch ey? ha ha thanx for the honesty... something I've noticed in my bf but I just ignore it, although sometimes it kinda irritates me and I might just piss him off further...... maybe subconsciously on purpose lol Ummm yeah... nah he usually gets over it in a few if I just ignore it. Crabby cancers hee hee

haha yeah what's up with that 32 thing huh? Well TC he told me it's hard for him to be mad at me hmm so does that mean I can pick on him all the times lol just kidding. I used to date this other cancer boy and he was really a easy going and nice guy too but I was in a different state of mind I was younger and "bitchier" haha and took him for granted big time.

But with my marine babe it's a total different thing I dont know why. I know it's too early to say i love him but I know I care alot bout him....and want us to work out...sigh...Isn't it nice to have a nice guy to be with? 🙂(Minus the moodieness)I'm trying to not think too hard liked he said I was sometimes. Dont wanna push him away you know. I guess it's a Taurus thing that we tend to go overboard sometimes haha

"I don't think I want to judge him by all this astorology facts. I mean it's fun but it's kinda like not having faith and patient and trying to foretell your future. It's against how things work...hmm does it make sense hey TC do you understand what I'm tryin to say here haha anyway good luck to you girls with the boys. I think sometimes its okay to have a little kitty fights with your man. I think this was the first fight ever for us but we are good to go again of cause and felt closer of cause. I think he's doing alot better now that he tries to share with me his feelings."

-- You make plenty of sense Semperfibabe 😉 I actually don't rely on astrology at all, just find it very interesting. I don't pay any attention to the cancer description whatsoever... what does amaze me is the similarity of alllll our cancers in some way or another :O The common traits WE come up with ARE TRUE. If anyone wants to go into astrology and get a feel for their man, they need to go to a message board like this one and read OUR posts lol No kidding!

BTW I don't mind arguing myself... I actually enjoy it! Ah ha ha if it's not big, serious issue ya know 😛 In a way it's a form of communication, clears up any problems that either may have been hiding because that's when they come into the light. Usually things are quite different when discussed, plus it's funny.

-- Hey Cappysweetie! Down here! Read this! lol
I actually think that cappy chics and bull chics aren't all that different in what they want in a relationship. Us Taurus also don't like much change and like you said, you pick a stance and better damn stick to it! lol ... in a nice way 😛 Us chics just like talking crap... men don't read this lol

Oh I'd also like to add... be who you are, it's good that you will not accept being played with, you are no ones entertainment and if they push you aside THEY'RE losing out AND believe you this: They aren't worth it!

This is a little personal but I lost my V at 21... so ya last year to someone that I actually care for (as much crap as I talk, I know I know lol it's a bull thing 😛) And I'm glad that I didn't give in to so much pressure that we girls go through... Not all the guys I met were idiots but I knew which ones they were when they'd eventually stop calling because I wouldn't let them touch me after a few months, some less, and there was nice guys also of course (they ARE out there) but they weren't the ones either.

But it's like I always said " I don't need the attention of a lot of guys, I only need 1 to make me happy " I dated, kind of a lot I think but not for the purpose of establishing a relationship and what not, just for fun I think and usually no more than a few dates with one guy... yes I got scared if they got serious! lol I almost find dating stressful yet there I was ha ha ha I never even kissed most of them!

Damn I rambled on... what was my point? Right, just do what feels right, your prince-not-so-perfect-but-charming-enough 🙂 will surface eventually just be patient. Actually, my first kiss was after three months (casual dating) yes with this crab lol Met him a looooong time ago but I met someone else who I started dating also and stopped seeing each other, later we met up again and went out... long story short it happened three years later. I once told him that I had gotten into a fight with my sister and she had said that I was a bitch cuz I dated so much and thought that I was laying with them... I didn't care and by then kinda laughed it off, he got mad and said that she shouldn't be saying that shit because one of the reasons he liked me was because I was decent, a 'good' girl and that he didn't take easy girls seriously. Anyway... was there more than one point? La la la you just listen to me cappysweetie 🙂 JK

**Well TC he told me it's hard for him to be mad at me hmm so does that mean I can pick on him all the times lol just kidding.**

-- See semperfibabe that's funny cuz my crab has told me the same thing! Lol He said that sometimes he may get a little irritated with me but it goes away fast and he gets happy when he sees me 🙂 One time I told him something kinda mean... it was a joke, but you know us bulls can be a little insensitive if we speak without thinking, well later on I kinda did it again and he said "hey hey hey you can put me down a little but not too much" lol he wasn't mad, said it with a smile so I just started laughing and rubbed his leg affectionately 🙂

TC it was funny he actually thought it was funny when I tried to be mad at him haha I think this is the reason why I like alot bout my guy because he's so forgiven and never try to carry on a fight with me. 🙂

TC ... don't worry I'm a good listener 😉

Wow!!! This is awesome, it so nice to know that remained a V in their 20s. I just cannot bring myself to lose my V to some dude. He has to be someone I really care for (if I love him, that would be even better). You and I are alot alike, I don't need the attention from guys to feel like a woman, but I wouldn't mind being with a man who I could love, cuddle, and spoil (with affection I mean). It seemed that my cancer would be the one until his moods took him over. I know I'm not like the "pretty girls" but I really don't want to get that persona, you know. Anyway, maybe semperfibabe is right! We need to just wait out their moods and see what happens. Those darn gemini/ cancer cusp guys ... ahhhhhhhhhhh!

🙂

Hey cj7,

Did you check out that website —

im gonna check it out now...ill let u know what i think.

"....well later on I kinda did it again and he said "hey hey hey you can put me down a little but not too much" lol he wasn't mad, said it with a smile so I just started laughing and rubbed his leg affectionately"

TC that's so very funny. I totally know what you mean, that Taurus never give up thing of trying to make your man upset thing lol Yeah, I think Taurus girls are meant to be with Cancerian guys, since they are so nice and forgiven. But TC, just keep it in mind, don't go overboard lol 🙂

Cappysweetie, as for me,I don't go date because I want to date. I just go with the flow; meaning I dont go look around for it when the right one happens to be there then you can't never stop it from coming. Just keep in mind, if a girl need to change the way she is to please a guy then he's not the right one for her. A guy who really cares and loves you would take you in just as the way you are and would 100% support you no matter what. Just don't let that astrology sayings about our cancer men get in the way. I mean, it's nice that we now all know the reasons behind their sometimes-disturbance "behaviors" lol but I try not to let it rule over me. I belive in what my heart tells me to belive, that, this man is the man I want and no one can replace him, that's all. I just realized that focusing on all these "facts" make me only paying more attention on his flows which is unhealthy to a relationship.

I'm sure it's not about how you look outside but what's matter insides. And I'm sure the right guy will appreciate the qualities that you possess within. He would cherish you in a way that no one will. Good luck, girl!!! 🙂

Thank you semperfibabe, you're sweet.

Happy Easter 🙂

ok guys just dont forget that u are different from us to a degree and those behaviors that we have that are disturbing to u......i know its hard to believe but sometime yall have behaviors that are disturbing to us which inturn cause our behavior......?🙂

yall.......proof that ive been in florida too long.lol

cappy sweetie.....i can see the capricorn compatibility. an important thing for me is to have a partner that is more emotionally stable than i am...it kinda stablizes me. my pisces moon is unfortunatly a very sensitive placement, i tend to absorb the emotions of the people im around so it would be best to be around people who stay mostly happy. and if they get down i will do anything to make them happy again so i can enjoy that feeling myself.
i had a best friend growing up that was a cappy. we always did tons of stuff and got along great. he got bad into alot of different drugs and kinda became a loser...then eventually he broke into my house and stole from me, that was like five years ago...he still tries to call and would love to be friends again but i cant. i cant forgive that kind of thing. 😢

hmm no offense to other cancerians but when I said that I mean it not in a really bad way. I'm 100 % supportive of cancerirans, hey my bf is one lol

"i know its hard to believe but sometime yall have behaviors that are disturbing to us which inturn cause our behavior......?"

-- It's human for a certain person to cause a certain behavior in another and maybe a different one in someone else. But CJ7! Tell us about your own experiences! 🙂 pretty pretty please...

WHAT makes YOU act a certain way? Edumacate us bullies and cappies here 🙂 Or give us a little insight. Don't be skimpy on the details 😛

in my own experience....caring is over-rated....from now on i will not care about anyone.

😢 What makes you say that cj7?

WTF! is WRONG with the world?! I mean, why doesn't it work out that two caring people meet and end up together? Does it happen and then one of them starts taking the other for granted? People are just generally stupid... seriously (not u cj7)

Oh Nooooooo cj7, not you. You seem to be too sweet of a guy. I mean honestly, what made you say such a thing. I don't mean to pry, but I'm concerned that's all ....... they don't call me "sweetie" for nothing.

Tauruschic,

What you have typed is bascially what happens. We good people (cj7 and myself) sem to attract air-holes! However, I'm not giving up. Maybe he and I both need to take inventory of ourselves -- I've done it once already. Intra-personal awareness is strongly needed.

Tell me about it. I often wonder too why make things so complicated. Can we just be open and love one another. Period. I mean life is short so what the heck is he's taking it so slow arghhhhh He knows Im there for him and but what else is holding him back, geez I just don't get it dont get it dont get it.......

Earth to Cappysweetie and Semperfibabe... My fellow, wonderful, uncomplicated, straightforward, lovable and adorable Earth chics with the complicated, dumb-assed and retarded Water crabs 😛 jk Man do I just love to insult lol It's love I tell ya xoxoxoxo

Forgot what I was gonna say... ? *nodds head

Have an awesome day and SMILE! Remember, there is no problem without a solution (or escape lol) No wound that time can't heal and no Earth chic that can be brought down! hee hee hee

🙂 🙂 🙂

Right, we got to be strong. If we crumble ... 3/4 of "Earth" will be gone. Then all we'll have left is virgo ...... Oh yeah, we're got to keep each other together. Taurus and Capricorn women must keep ourselves together 😉

hehe love you earthy girls...here is to cappysweetie & TC 🙂 Tks for making me smile again. I'm telling you right now only females can make me happy haha since we are so tune in to each other's emotional needs...unlike those dumb-a $ $ crab haha yeah I wish I can smack him around I really do haha Hmm ok what else is earth sign besides us girls— I was telling cappy that I hate posting stuffs here cause the guys are getting me annoyed haha not gonna say who but I'll still post my comments here for TC & Cappy you go girl 🙂

sorry guys ...just feeling like the more u care the less u get back. i just dont know if i can have it that way anywore.....who's gonna care about me? i wonder.

well CJ I wish my crabby is able to open up he is just so afraid to share his thoughts like you and the rest of the crabs here sigh....must be the rain...

I mean I wish he's more able to share more with me and open like some of the crabs here