Did I lose cancer woman—

I am a Capricorn and I have known this cancer woman since April. I have only hung out with her once....we hooked up. Did not have sex. I started seeing the way she cared for me which was a lot. I wasn't ever upfront in the beginning about my intentions but I felt like I needed to pull back, so I did. I did eventually communicate with her that she is a good person but I just wasn't looking for any attachments to anyone at the moment. We kind of had a disagreement because i told her i felt that she cared more than i wanted her to..... i guess that was harsh but its how i felt. Also, this was on her bday.......... she told me that maybe its best we forget each other and that she would always care for me but at a distance. Since then she hasn't watched any of my instagram stories. I have messaged her on Wednesday in response to her story she posted and I said "aren't you glad we didn't have sex" she didn't even respond until a day later and all she sent was a biblical verse. I responded with "amen..." and she thanked me, so I sent a heart emoji. a few hours late she sends "honestly..." so I replied with "yes?" thinking she may be wanting to share something with me. she then opens the message a day later again and says " i didn't know how to respond. It's different now. I am indifferent to the situation and she sent the peace emoji" I didn't say anything back but I liked the message........



is she over me—? I get it I wasn't direct and didn't take the time to even devolop a friendship but I dont want to lose her. She is a good person and shes so beautiful. I just feel like she's really cold to me now.

any advice?

Posted by mcapricorn
I am a Capricorn and I have known this cancer woman since April. I have only hung out with her once....we hooked up. Did not have sex. I started seeing the way she cared for me which was a lot. I wasn't ever upfront in the beginning about my intentions but I felt like I needed to pull back, so I did. I did eventually communicate with her that she is a good person but I just wasn't looking for any attachments to anyone at the moment. We kind of had a disagreement because i told her i felt that she cared more than i wanted her to..... i guess that was harsh but its how i felt. Also, this was on her bday.......... she told me that maybe its best we forget each other and that she would always care for me but at a distance. Since then she hasn't watched any of my instagram stories. I have messaged her on Wednesday in response to her story she posted and I said "aren't you glad we didn't have sex" she didn't even respond until a day later and all she sent was a biblical verse. I responded with "amen..." and she thanked me, so I sent a heart emoji. a few hours late she sends "honestly..." so I replied with "yes?" thinking she may be wanting to share something with me. she then opens the message a day later again and says " i didn't know how to respond. It's different now. I am indifferent to the situation and she sent the peace emoji" I didn't say anything back but I liked the message........


is she over me—? I get it I wasn't direct and didn't take the time to even devolop a friendship but I dont want to lose her. She is a good person and shes so beautiful. I just feel like she's really cold to me now.

any advice?

any advice would help please

hi could someone please give some insight on the situation?

cancer women are easy to understand, treat her right or another man will

Posted by MoonyEYES88
cancer women are easy to understand, treat her right or another man will

but when we communicate now which is rare she doesn't respond back for an entire day. Then our last conversation she tole me she didn't know how to respond because it's different now..... she's indifferent to the situation.





what does this even mean?

Posted by mcapricorn

Posted by MoonyEYES88
cancer women are easy to understand, treat her right or another man will

but when we communicate now which is rare she doesn't respond back for an entire day. Then our last conversation she tole me she didn't know how to respond because it's different now..... she's indifferent to the situation.




what does this even mean?

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you hurt her...that may not have been your intentions but it happened,,,shes indifferent means she put up her emotional barriers from you, you hurt her so she no longer cares about the situation...it means she really did like you but will not provide you with her attention love and care. As a cancer woman thats dated several capricorns myself, i can say that when I see someone not putting in the effort to nurture our relationship, i take my efforts back and its much harder for them to get back in, most never do.

Posted by MoonyEYES88

Posted by mcapricorn

Posted by MoonyEYES88
cancer women are easy to understand, treat her right or another man will

but when we communicate now which is rare she doesn't respond back for an entire day. Then our last conversation she tole me she didn't know how to respond because it's different now..... she's indifferent to the situation.




what does this even mean?

you hurt her...that may not have been your intentions but it happened,,,shes indifferent means she put up her emotional barriers from you, you hurt her so she no longer cares about the situation...it means she really did like you but will not provide you with her attention love and care. As a cancer woman thats dated several capricorns myself, i can say that when I see someone not putting in the effort to nurture our relationship, i take my efforts back and its much harder for them to get back in, most never do.

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Yeah I didn't mean to hurt her, and I should have been upfront about my intentions. Her statement of how she's indifferent and doesn't even really talk to me anymore and when we do talk she takes a whole day to respond.. It's really getting to me

Posted by mcapricorn

Posted by MoonyEYES88

Posted by mcapricorn

Posted by MoonyEYES88
cancer women are easy to understand, treat her right or another man will

but when we communicate now which is rare she doesn't respond back for an entire day. Then our last conversation she tole me she didn't know how to respond because it's different now..... she's indifferent to the situation.




what does this even mean?

you hurt her...that may not have been your intentions but it happened,,,shes indifferent means she put up her emotional barriers from you, you hurt her so she no longer cares about the situation...it means she really did like you but will not provide you with her attention love and care. As a cancer woman thats dated several capricorns myself, i can say that when I see someone not putting in the effort to nurture our relationship, i take my efforts back and its much harder for them to get back in, most never do.

Yeah I didn't mean to hurt her, and I should have been upfront about my intentions. Her statement of how she's indifferent and doesn't even really talk to me anymore and when we do talk she takes a whole day to respond.. It's really getting to me

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why is it getting to you if you didnt care? you didnt want her to care so im assuming you never cared about her?

Posted by MoonyEYES88

Posted by mcapricorn

Posted by MoonyEYES88

Posted by mcapricorn

Posted by MoonyEYES88
cancer women are easy to understand, treat her right or another man will

but when we communicate now which is rare she doesn't respond back for an entire day. Then our last conversation she tole me she didn't know how to respond because it's different now..... she's indifferent to the situation.




what does this even mean?

you hurt her...that may not have been your intentions but it happened,,,shes indifferent means she put up her emotional barriers from you, you hurt her so she no longer cares about the situation...it means she really did like you but will not provide you with her attention love and care. As a cancer woman thats dated several capricorns myself, i can say that when I see someone not putting in the effort to nurture our relationship, i take my efforts back and its much harder for them to get back in, most never do.

Yeah I didn't mean to hurt her, and I should have been upfront about my intentions. Her statement of how she's indifferent and doesn't even really talk to me anymore and when we do talk she takes a whole day to respond.. It's really getting to me

why is it getting to you if you didnt care? you didnt want her to care so im assuming you never cared about her?

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I did care but she cared a lot more. I didn’t want to hurt her because I guess I did anyway. I do care about you.

Posted by Wanderlustcancerian24

Posted by MoonyEYES88

Posted by mcapricorn

Posted by MoonyEYES88

Posted by mcapricorn

Posted by MoonyEYES88
cancer women are easy to understand, treat her right or another man will

but when we communicate now which is rare she doesn't respond back for an entire day. Then our last conversation she tole me she didn't know how to respond because it's different now..... she's indifferent to the situation.




what does this even mean?

you hurt her...that may not have been your intentions but it happened,,,shes indifferent means she put up her emotional barriers from you, you hurt her so she no longer cares about the situation...it means she really did like you but will not provide you with her attention love and care. As a cancer woman thats dated several capricorns myself, i can say that when I see someone not putting in the effort to nurture our relationship, i take my efforts back and its much harder for them to get back in, most never do.

Yeah I didn't mean to hurt her, and I should have been upfront about my intentions. Her statement of how she's indifferent and doesn't even really talk to me anymore and when we do talk she takes a whole day to respond.. It's really getting to me

why is it getting to you if you didnt care? you didnt want her to care so im assuming you never cared about her?

I did care but she cared a lot more. I didn’t want to hurt her because I guess I did anyway. I do care about you.

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