Getting cancer woman to open up

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Breeze on Sunday, April 8, 2018 and has 14 replies.

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@Breeze
9 Years

Is it a time frame, vibe or security etc that you get from someone to finally open up to your partner?

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@Librasetting777
8 Years1,000+ Posts

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Is it a time frame, vibe or security etc that you get from someone to finally open up to your partner?

It won't happen till 20 years later especially since you're a libra. Lol

Lol. Youve dealt with cancer woman to know of this?

Lol yea one to many.

Whats your take on the cancer woman? Great catch?

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No just no....but we're all different

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@MoonyEYES88
10 Years

ive never opened up for a libra...my sister is one and usually the last to know. its all the things you mentioned above, be genuine to her and sweet, it helps

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@lady_
8 Years

I opened up to a libra very quickly (more or less) because I was the one pursuing him in the first place. Still, he was very courteous and we shared deep, intimate conversations (which is a plus for a cancer woman, avoid small talk).

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@Breeze
9 Years

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I opened up to a libra very quickly (more or less) because I was the one pursuing him in the first place. Still, he was very courteous and we shared deep, intimate conversations (which is a plus for a cancer woman, avoid small talk).

I can see this with her. Were hanging out all this weekend and shes going to share some deep things with me in person then on the phone. Told her ud open up myself too

She also said she hates when theres a pause in a convo. Doesnt like that weird silent pause

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@lady_
8 Years

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I opened up to a libra very quickly (more or less) because I was the one pursuing him in the first place. Still, he was very courteous and we shared deep, intimate conversations (which is a plus for a cancer woman, avoid small talk).

I can see this with her. Were hanging out all this weekend and shes going to share some deep things with me in person then on the phone. Told her ud open up myself too

She also said she hates when theres a pause in a convo. Doesnt like that weird silent pause

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That sounds good! Definitely share something personal as well, she will appreciate it and see it as a sign of trust and security (which cancers like to feel, our closed-off behaviour is often us feeling things out and figuring out how you feel about us before we settle on our own feelings to avoid getting hurt).

The 'pause in the convo' problem should dissolve when she's feeling more comfortable with you - I think we fear silences sometimes because we wonder what you're thinking about in these silences and depending on the maturity/security level of the cancer, we might start to feel like you're not enjoying the conversation or are drifting away - basically, cancers like to be reassured so make sure your body language is positive during the convo.

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@Breeze
9 Years

Posted by lady_
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I opened up to a libra very quickly (more or less) because I was the one pursuing him in the first place. Still, he was very courteous and we shared deep, intimate conversations (which is a plus for a cancer woman, avoid small talk).

I can see this with her. Were hanging out all this weekend and shes going to share some deep things with me in person then on the phone. Told her ud open up myself too

She also said she hates when theres a pause in a convo. Doesnt like that weird silent pause

That sounds good! Definitely share something personal as well, she will appreciate it and see it as a sign of trust and security (which cancers like to feel, our closed-off behaviour is often us feeling things out and figuring out how you feel about us before we settle on our own feelings to avoid getting hurt).

The 'pause in the convo' problem should dissolve when she's feeling more comfortable with you - I think we fear silences sometimes because we wonder what you're thinking about in these silences and depending on the maturity/security level of the cancer, we might start to feel like you're not enjoying the conversation or are drifting away - basically, cancers like to be reassured so make sure your body language is positive during the convo.

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Yup she said shell need reassurence often and will "fuse" to see if i care.

Females always find it hard to read me in beginning. With her because she i so loving and i actually want something to blossum with her i share my feelings. Only after i feel its safe tho.lol