Dilemma

I have this habit of remembering people's bdays (been into astrology since I was 13 lol) and tomorrow will be this crab's guy bday. Things have been confusing between us and I've decided it's best to not meet him anymore. Don't wanna go back on that decision but being a libra, I feel like I should be wishing him happy stuff tomorrow because that's what I do with everybody, even when / if things are much worse than the situation between me and this guy. Would that be okay or it's best to just stay silent?

Posted by Arielle83

Say it

Alrighty, will do! Thank you 😁

Will he think you are trying to get back with him, by reaching out?

Posted by MyStarsShine

Will he think you are trying to get back with him, by reaching out?

I don't actually, you guys tell me.. It is just a habit I have with everybody, wouldn't want to give any false hope or so.

Posted by Arielle83

If it’s genuine and with no intent to manipulate, then it shouldn’t matter.

No, absolutely not. It's normal for me to wish well to everyone regardless of how things went.

It is only worrying me a little bit that he was once very surprised that I remembered his birthdate, which is a really normal stuff for me, if I'd know his birth hour and minutes I'd remember that for years to come as well 😂

Just don't wanna confuse him or bring any bad feeling, that's all

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Will he think you are trying to get back with him, by reaching out?

I don't actually, you guys tell me.. It is just a habit I have with everybody, wouldn't want to give any false hope or so.

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How needy is he? Has he moved on from you?

......he may take it that you're wanting to resume contact....

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Will he think you are trying to get back with him, by reaching out?

I don't actually, you guys tell me.. It is just a habit I have with everybody, wouldn't want to give any false hope or so.

How needy is he? Has he moved on from you?

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No idea. Just recently he called me cruel for not being available to meet on the same day he asked. Also he mentioned I have a heart of stone. 🤪 This after some good weeks of silent treatments and push and pull stuff to which he had no reaction coming from my side. Those weeks were so confusing, it started to drain me of my energy and distract me from work. So I said it is best we stop everything. He insisted for a short while and then stopped, so I hope it will not look like more than it is?

I have 2 former friends I'm not speaking with anymore, yet we wish each other happy bday every year right before we go back to not speaking to each other. Things with him were not that bad, just confusing and draining 🤔

Posted by LethalFantasia

depends

if he did something bad then he may not deserve your birsdai wish 😈

but if it's just confusing or whatever then obvs you should wish him a happy birthdai if you feel it should be ~s0

lolz x

He was not that bad I guess, just confusing. Now I don't wanna be the one confusing him either 😁

But you seem sweet x

Posted by Generous_Libra

There's no harm in wishing someone a happy bday as long as things are cool between you two.

Well you know us Libras always striving for peace and harmony even when things did not work out 🙂

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Posted by LethalFantasia

depends

if he did something bad then he may not deserve your birsdai wish 😈

but if it's just confusing or whatever then obvs you should wish him a happy birthdai if you feel it should be ~s0

lolz x

He was not that bad I guess, just confusing. Now I don't wanna be the one confusing him either 😁

But you seem sweet x

thx

you can wish me a happy birsdai any year

unfortunately you just missed mine cos i'm a #gemini sooo00ooo....

😄 x

lmfao

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Oh that explains it, I always always like gemini people instantly. It's crazy!! When is your bday, I'll find you next year! 😁 x

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Will he think you are trying to get back with him, by reaching out?

I don't actually, you guys tell me.. It is just a habit I have with everybody, wouldn't want to give any false hope or so.

How needy is he? Has he moved on from you?

No idea. Just recently he called me cruel for not being available to meet on the same day he asked. Also he mentioned I have a heart of stone. 🤪 This after some good weeks of silent treatments and push and pull stuff to which he had no reaction coming from my side. Those weeks were so confusing, it started to drain me of my energy and distract me from work. So I said it is best we stop everything. He insisted for a short while and then stopped, so I hope it will not look like more than it is?

I have 2 former friends I'm not speaking with anymore, yet we wish each other happy bday every year right before we go back to not speaking to each other. Things with him were not that bad, just confusing and draining 🤔

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Based on these additional details, I think you should pass on the birthday greeting 🤷