Dont tell me what to do.

Lol is it just me or do cancers HATE being told what to do, i no i hatee it when people tell me what to do to an extent. Ive noticed that we have a little bit of a rebebellious streak disguised by our "sweetness" lool

YESSSS!! I don't like to be told at all and my mom piss me off doing that!!

Lol same here! thats why we have arguments most of the time cz she trys to tell me what to do and i cant take dt from no one im my own person. then shell come with that im your mum so you havee to do this or that or the other lol

My mom says the same stuff like "I gave birth to you and you suppose to do what i ask", jeez i can't wait to get finished with college and MOVED!! But i do like being control in relationship though...

in control or controling a relationship? and i totally hear you on cant waiting to move out!!

"Lol is it just me or do cancers HATE being told what to do"

Isn't that pretty much everyone lol. 😛

Hey Moon long time no see! Nice pic btw. 🙂

Posted by Shannonbaby
Lol is it just me or do cancers HATE being told what to do, i no i hatee it when people tell me what to do to an extent. Ive noticed that we have a little bit of a rebebellious streak disguised by our "sweetness" lool

Can't stand it in any context. I don't like to be criticized either. Yes, I am very much a rebel, and it has both paid me huge dividends and completely screwed me. Take it or leave it, that's who I am, just don't think you can control me. The thing that bothers me is I am a live and let live sort of person, so I don't understand when people try to get all controlling and so forth. I will do the exact opposite of something that I'm "told" to do, just because I can, and just because I can't stand it that much. Luckily, I work autonomously at my company, and I own a business outside of that, so I pretty much do what I want.

Posted by moon_eyes

.dont tell me what to do i got it all covered since i was 4. Bleh

lol

No its not just you. I HATE being told what to do in a bossy way. Not with authority such as a boss etc, but a friend, boyfriend, somebody just telling me to what to do for the hell of it.

Posted by The-Dream
YESSSS!! I don't like to be told at all and my mom piss me off doing that!!

SAME HERE.. I can't be Held Down for too long. It is my Life afterall.. lol.

Actually my mom (Sag) is more willing for me to do whatever I want, but she can be strict in her ways. Dad (Aqua) however can be a pain in the g'Dang Brain!! About everything.. lol.

Besides that, Yeah I don't really like being told what to do in general.. Who wants to be in a position of a slave to something? Especially when it's unnecessary. Not me. I have choices for myself. Thank you.

And like what prettyladii said it can be Anyone, it doesn't matter who. And I don't like a Bossy streak neither. Which really is what turns me off.

Snap snap—

SNAP SNAP!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes, you crabs certainly don't like to be forced on ANYTHING.

Be it ANY decision on ANY issue!

This is precisely why Pisces is the ideal lover for Cancer, because we tend to have a pretty chill attitude about most things in life, and most of us (NOTE I DID NOT SAY ALL) know that forcing a person to do something is never the right way to do things.

This is especially true of romantic relationships.

While it is a delicate walk between totalitarianism (see Leos and Capricorns) and "I don't care" attitudes (Libras and Sags), it is critical that Crabs receive a constant ebb and flow of freedom and security.

Honestly, I don't quite understand how a Cancer would get far without a Pisces lover.

We probably understand them the best, at least, generally speaking.

No, not every Pisces gets you Crabs! But some of us do!

^
It is odd, I did have a history of Pisces.

Posted by QLIbraMale
I think this happens because secretly y'all might be control freaks.

Not really, they can do whatever they want as long they're not trying to control my life.

Posted by QLIbraMale
I think this happens because secretly y'all might be control freaks.

I agree, I find Cancers to be quite controlling yet not neccessarily in control lol

Pisces are good for Cancers because they can manipulate them into doing what they want. I've watched my mum do it to my dad for aslong as I can remember haha. It's amazing how easy a Cancer will do what you want if they think its their Idea!

I agree that we Fish , as mutable and adaptable sign that we are, have no problem to adapt to any situation. And it is true I do have a chill attitude, I am normally in a good mood and normally treat everybody very well..I do have a temper though but I don't like confrontations or violence or fights.

I don't manipulate but I do say things in a way that makes the Crab WANT to do things without feeling pressed or forced to. Maybe it is manipulation after all, or it is just my way. Maybe I "lure" him with the promise of pleasure, home cooked meals, cuddles....My Crab has a lot of Earth in his chart, Taurus rising and Cappy moon. He is a realist. I am a dreamer. He NEEDS some dreaming and I NEED some realism. I make him fly more and he makes me come down to earth..(I have got NOT ONE planet in earth...) I think it is a good complement.
Plus we Pisces are not normally controlling or pushing..I trust him, Im relaxed when he is out with friends, Im not calling constantly to see what he is doing..I just go out and have fun myself. I basically treat him the way I like to be treated.


I don't like authoritarian people or controlling people myself. I can do anythign for you as long as you ask nicely. And I guess Cancer feels the same way. In the few time I have demanded something brusquely, he has not yielded..I remember the first two months when i insisted on going to his house..he never invited me. He did it when I stopped insisting..it has to be HIS WAY..I don't mind...

hmmm i might change my tactics its hard because my cancer asked for time and space and i have really given her any, i cut down alot,but i still text her daily, i scared to stop because a few times she responded and it was nothing bad.Although at this time i guess will be the best time to see what works.

She has only responded tpo 10% of my text anyways

Posted by theleoman
hmmm i might change my tactics its hard because my cancer asked for time and space and i have really given her any, i cut down alot,but i still text her daily, i scared to stop because a few times she responded and it was nothing bad.Although at this time i guess will be the best time to see what works.

She has only responded tpo 10% of my text anyways

Hold the phone, professor.

If she told you to leave her alone, then why are you still texting her daily?

I am truly amazed that you haven't figured out why she is no longer interested in being with you.

hahaha i think yup that butter is very much true not most of time but just when we dont want to take orders just cuz some1 feels to constrict us.

Posted by MelanieM123
hahaha i think yup that butter is very much true not most of time but just when we dont want to take orders just cuz some1 feels to constrict us.

I wouldn't date a Capricorn then if I were you!

"Get this, do that, bring me me this, do as I say!"

Oh hell no!!!!

LOL.

Depends, are we talking OUT of the bedroom? LOL.. Usually i dont, but if its for the safety of myself or something i dont mind. In the bedroom..Bosss me around baby!!!!! lol

No one likes being told what to do except maybe libra?

Hahahaha.

I love this board!

"Don't tell me what to do!!!!"

LOL!

Yaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!

I am a Crab, and here is my statement:

DON'T TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Snap snap, hahaha!!!!

Posted by treefrogger
WHATEVERRRRRRRRRR YOU ARE NOT A CRAB!!!!!!!

you're a crab, then i'm clawfulllll working for skeletor!

SNAP SNAP!!!!!!!!!!

I am too a Crab!

Snap snap snap!!!!

How is Snake Mountain these days!?

Posted by Geminithefox
No one likes being told what to do except maybe libra?

LMAO You made me spit my coffee... HAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!