Cancer man and Gemini woman

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by loublaze33 on Tuesday, June 30, 2009 and has 8 replies.

Understanding Cancer Man and Gemini Woman Compatibility

Cancer men value emotional connection and stability, while Gemini women seek social interaction and freedom. Their relationship can be passionate but may face challenges due to differing needs for independence and security. Open communication can help balance these differences and strengthen their bond.

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@loublaze33
17 Years

I've been dating a gemini girl for last 8 months. She could be the love of my life the intensity is so strong. But she's a social butterfly and loves her freedom and it drives me...the crab crazy. Some nights I wanna end it because I need more attention but I love her to death and believe me the sex is the best i've ever had! Any other cancer guys dated a gemini woman?

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@Smiles24
17 Years500+ Posts

Not to burst anyone's bubble but I'm sort of seeing this Gem girl. It's a complicated situation, but the chemistry is there I can see that. We get along so well it's funny lol, because reading all this jive about how cancers and gems don't mesh well is a bunch of mumbo jumbo. But than again I am a Leoncer (leo/cancer cusp), maybe that'll have a little something to do with it.

I like the intensity she brings and the freedom that comes along with it all. I like my alone time and hanging with the fellas. And she likes her girl time as well. So it works for the both of us.

Try to find some common ground with her bro. You should be good. G'luck

-SMiLES =)

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@Smiles24
17 Years500+ Posts

LoL I'm not seeing this girl anymore, good thing I found out she got around before anything serious really happened with us. Good news for smiles, now I don't need to worry about girl problems.

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@Smiles24
17 Years500+ Posts

LoL @ "looks around for cappy"

Yeah everything is fine, I honestly wasn't expecting too much out of the whole fling. Oh well Smiles is back in the sea, hopefully this time I'll get a great catch.

I honestly don't even know what to look for anymore.

-SMiLES

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@Gangstalicious1982
18 Years500+ PostsPisces

I'm not a cancer man. However, I've been dating a cancer man for 6 years. (I'm a pisces). Anywho, my cancer was married to a Gemini woman for 9 years. Let me tell you this. According to my boyfriend and his family. It was hell. They first met high school. He said he was deeply in love with her. However, they wanted different things. She wanted to be free be around her friends and party. However, he wanted a family. He said the only good that came out of the marriage was their 3 beautiful children and that's the reason why he stayed so long.

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@Smiles24
17 Years500+ Posts

I agree with you on that SB, I don't plan on getting married for a while; and that I made a promise to myself about. If it's one thing, I don't break promises ever!

G1982, I can see how your cancerian decided to stay. We cancerians, especially the guys, love kids, wether we admit to it or not. But trying to hold things together for the kids was a noble thing to do, guess that is the only plus side to his relationship with a gem.

Interesting shit!

-SMiLES

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@GeminiMind
17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Gotta keep up! Gems are fast and furious. Women are different though. They are the TRUE social butterflies of the zodiac. Don't smother, Cancererian. You know you guys do that shit. She's not your mother, and when you try to make a home with her she will bounce. Only she thinks she has the right to make that a home.

Gemini women are the "Heartbreakers" of the zodiac. Not because they cheat. Gems are loyal. They are just busy. With the Cancer suppressing his/her feelings, and playing the "Mystery" role. A Gemini girl will see through that and think it's boring. Trust me. She will leave.

If you care about her....Try this: Rub her hand and kiss it softly. Then rub her arms and whisper something clever in her ear. Try it! Thank me later. 😉

GM