Self-Inflicted Suffering

When I get depressed and moody, I usually like to put on some dark depressing music to match my mood. Of course this just propels the downward spiral, making me feel even worse. Anyone else do stupid things like that, like looking at old photos, letters, music, etc?

Also, does anyone ever feel like they need a good cry once and a while? I do, and it feels good every few months just to let out some emotions.

Posted by domanb

Also, does anyone ever feel like they need a good cry once and a while? I do, and it feels good every few months just to let out some emotions.

I do the same at times too!

Wallowing in self-pity. I'm pretty sure it's happened once or twice.

-SMiLES

"a good cry once and a while"
does cancer peeps do this out of the blue? uh this might explained why my cancer suddenly in tears while we're out last time. (inside my head) i was like, wey heyhey..

he must've held it inside for too long and just need the sudden burst.

Posted by eden 3
hey smiles dream & domanb- this is why i adore cancer men it's the strong ones who r not afraid of their emotions.

xo

I thought i was the only guy that felt that way

Posted by moon_eyes

Posted by The-Dream

Posted by domanb

Also, does anyone ever feel like they need a good cry once and a while? I do, and it feels good every few months just to let out some emotions.

I do the same at times too!

hear hear..yes huni this is very cleansing i find. A good cry is so good once in a while as you write every few months is like a woosh...the weight is lifted right off your shoulders. And im sooo with you on the music!
PS its nice to read that men are open with their emotions and actions.. and are not afraid to show that they cry. Kudons dears!

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Thanks 🙂

Posted by moon_eyes

Posted by The-Dream

Posted by domanb

Also, does anyone ever feel like they need a good cry once and a while? I do, and it feels good every few months just to let out some emotions.

I do the same at times too!

hear hear..yes huni this is very cleansing i find. A good cry is so good once in a while as you write every few months is like a woosh...the weight is lifted right off your shoulders.

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Yes a good cry is necessary to wash away all the BS!

I've done self destructing as an unevolved Crab.

Crabs do you think yhou are sensitive—
A fish can drown in emotions....literally drown in tears..after a good cry..all is good again.
When Im in a mood like this, I self-heal...I stay at home wallow in self pity, cry, shout, get drunk and the next day Im as good as new.

OP is from eight years ago LOL...I didn't even know this board was that old.

But yeah, I can relate.