sharon183
@sharon183
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Emotional girl
Where are her Moon and Venus placed?
I do not understand much just I know when reading about a Cancer woman profile, it describes her exactly! Her bday is in fact 24th June
Posted by sharon183
I do not understand much just I know when reading about a Cancer woman profile, it describes her exactly! Her bday is in fact 24th June
Which year and try get a time and birth town too and create a chart
You need to look at houses, aspects and placements to gain an understanding
I cannot get that information from a person that I am trying to not communicate with...
Anyone else have any input please?
Yes she does over think and she is mainly worried for where (country) we can start again after our break. I have been telling her that for now we should not think about the logisitics of things as it only makes it stressful....
I think even making rules stressed her out a bit thats why I accepted to have no rules kinda....I want her to trust me again.
I guess I should not be in contact at all until she contacts me again?
I think even making rules stressed her out a bit thats why I accepted to have no rules kinda....I want her to trust me again.
I guess I should not be in contact at all until she contacts me again?
Hi @marai okay I will keep it quiet until she sends back and will try to keep positive. I do try to answer her positively when she sends me, also start with apologising if she points out something that might have hurted her or made her close down. Will continue to keep this in mind...not always easy when I am hurting too..but I think she is worth the waiting. Thanks you!
I don't feel she is like that, but then again I always try to see the good in people....I do however think sometimes she is a bit selfish for example: I mentioned that I am maybe thinking of going to a short trip with a friend and she was asking who it is which is fine...but then told me like why I would want to go without her on a special trip.
I took it as a nice thing of her to say that she still wants to plan things with me, however it did make me feel disappointed as I like to travel a lot and until we can be together again (if we do), I am not saying no to travel all the time...
Travelling is something we both share the love for, but I understand that with her nature of work she cannot do it until end of September..Then again she did go on a day trip to another city where she is working! For me I cannot do that as I live on a tiny island so I need to fly to take my break!
I took it as a nice thing of her to say that she still wants to plan things with me, however it did make me feel disappointed as I like to travel a lot and until we can be together again (if we do), I am not saying no to travel all the time...
Travelling is something we both share the love for, but I understand that with her nature of work she cannot do it until end of September..Then again she did go on a day trip to another city where she is working! For me I cannot do that as I live on a tiny island so I need to fly to take my break!
Hurt her cause she is so sensitive and maybe sometimes when I was emotional I was a bit nervous or dramatic..but I am human too
So now she got super jealous over me going out and now decided to break up with me. She told me she does not know why she is jealous but fought over me leaving her. This girl has problems with herself and I do not think I am the cause of everything however I do not know how to stop this from going down the line of a breakup to never get back from!! I like her too much to let her go, she is special
I think just keep on making her feel that you love her. I am in a long distance thing with the cancer man i meet online. Cant wait to finally experience how jealous and clingy he can be 🙂 because even if i somehow feel it and he always say it i always feel im into him more than he is to me. Although he keeps on telling me thats just how i think. I guess just enjoy her jealousy and think its her own way of telling you how much she loves you and how much she wanted you to be just for her.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by ms_aquarius
I think just keep on making her feel that you love her. I am in a long distance thing with the cancer man i meet online. Cant wait to finally experience how jealous and clingy he can be 🙂 because even if i somehow feel it and he always say it i always feel im into him more than he is to me. Although he keeps on telling me thats just how i think. I guess just enjoy her jealousy and think its her own way of telling you how much she loves you and how much she wanted you to be just for her.
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Lol thank you. Everyone is entitled of their own opinion. Much love!
How can I show her that over chat when she said we broke up now and most probably do not speak at all? she said she wants a break....how do I handle this?
I am asking as I know me that if I decide to move then there is no turning back....I want to see what my options are before I take that direction.
I am asking as I know me that if I decide to move then there is no turning back....I want to see what my options are before I take that direction.
You might be right, or not. Just would like other options before I convince myself that I should let this go....
She sent me yesterday a sarcastic message as I added a photo on my whatsapp and cut her out. I am really lost, I am sure if I tried to make her feel more loved she will push me away more or just ignore me.
I don't know what else to do - in fact then I answered her in the evening only with a "good night". She broke up with me, she removed me from Facebook (she said in a couple of days will add me back just she needs a break - I guess so she does not see anything I post), so why would she bother what photo I add if she said she does not want me anymore?
I don't know what else to do - in fact then I answered her in the evening only with a "good night". She broke up with me, she removed me from Facebook (she said in a couple of days will add me back just she needs a break - I guess so she does not see anything I post), so why would she bother what photo I add if she said she does not want me anymore?
Posted by sharon183
She sent me yesterday a sarcastic message as I added a photo on my whatsapp and cut her out. I am really lost, I am sure if I tried to make her feel more loved she will push me away more or just ignore me.
I don't know what else to do - in fact then I answered her in the evening only with a "good night". She broke up with me, she removed me from Facebook (she said in a couple of days will add me back just she needs a break - I guess so she does not see anything I post), so why would she bother what photo I add if she said she does not want me anymore?
Delete your account or block her so she can't see you. Otherwise it may take forever to move on
Good
Luck ❤️
So 5days later with no contact at all, she adds me back on Facebook. Sends me a whatsapp 2hrs later to let me know she has added me back on Facebook. Next morning she texts me again to ask how I am, how are things and if I am ok.
I did not reply to this. What should I think of all of this? Should I reply or ignore for a couple of days longer? I wanted to try to reach out after a month or so.
I did not reply to this. What should I think of all of this? Should I reply or ignore for a couple of days longer? I wanted to try to reach out after a month or so.
Posted by sharon183
I cannot get that information from a person that I am trying to not communicate with...
You don't know what year she's born or how old she is??
@AgentP911 yes I know: June 24th and age 31
I've read this thread but not any other thread relating to this.
Frankly, you're not going to be able to do or say anything to make her feel better, secure, loved or anything else. This is because, despite anything you say or do, she will continue to move the goal posts along to suit her and whatever she wants.
Have you met in person?
What countries are you from?
Is there a reason you are both pursuing a long distance relationship such as religious, cultural or did you meet while in her/your country or something?
All of these things are important. They are practical and logical steps regarding how, if at all, you can continue this relationship. Right now, you're focusing much of your thoughts on the here and now, the text exchanges and the social media output, and how one particular message or photo or post steers what happens next. This is not helpful to either of you at all, and it's also not based on reality.
I thought the bit about her being emotionally hurt/doesn't open up was amusing especially as the apparent solution between you was to create even more space, even more gap, even more closed doors... Yeah, as if the secret to building an intimate relationship is to blow hot and cold, and then demand space to 'work on your feelings' of intimacy. That's just classic!
Before you continue worrying about what you should and should not say to this girl, whether you should or should not make plans for travelling with your friends, and whether you can or cannot call her or give her space... I would suggest you think about what YOU want out of this.
Right now, you don't have a long distance relationship. Right now you have a controlling, immature, insecure text buddy. Is this how you see things being for the next 40 years of your life? No, I didn't think so.
Wouldn't you prefer to have a real, loving, mutually respectful, and physical relationship with someone who doesn't blow hot and cold whenever they want to exert their control over you, who does want you to travel and enjoy life, and who does want to be right there with you, in person, in real life?
What needs to happen in order for you both to be physically together somewhere?
Frankly, you're not going to be able to do or say anything to make her feel better, secure, loved or anything else. This is because, despite anything you say or do, she will continue to move the goal posts along to suit her and whatever she wants.
Have you met in person?
What countries are you from?
Is there a reason you are both pursuing a long distance relationship such as religious, cultural or did you meet while in her/your country or something?
All of these things are important. They are practical and logical steps regarding how, if at all, you can continue this relationship. Right now, you're focusing much of your thoughts on the here and now, the text exchanges and the social media output, and how one particular message or photo or post steers what happens next. This is not helpful to either of you at all, and it's also not based on reality.
I thought the bit about her being emotionally hurt/doesn't open up was amusing especially as the apparent solution between you was to create even more space, even more gap, even more closed doors... Yeah, as if the secret to building an intimate relationship is to blow hot and cold, and then demand space to 'work on your feelings' of intimacy. That's just classic!
Before you continue worrying about what you should and should not say to this girl, whether you should or should not make plans for travelling with your friends, and whether you can or cannot call her or give her space... I would suggest you think about what YOU want out of this.
Right now, you don't have a long distance relationship. Right now you have a controlling, immature, insecure text buddy. Is this how you see things being for the next 40 years of your life? No, I didn't think so.
Wouldn't you prefer to have a real, loving, mutually respectful, and physical relationship with someone who doesn't blow hot and cold whenever they want to exert their control over you, who does want you to travel and enjoy life, and who does want to be right there with you, in person, in real life?
What needs to happen in order for you both to be physically together somewhere?
Posted by sharon183
she sent me a picture early in the morning saying "relationships are not broken by distance but doubts.
Distance creates doubt tho
Hopefully she’s learned the long distance thing isn’t for her.
@peaceandtranquility_96 how do I re-assure her when we are not being in contact that much?
She has reached out to me after 5 days no contact but don’t understand what she wants from me, if she still does want anything 😢
She has reached out to me after 5 days no contact but don’t understand what she wants from me, if she still does want anything 😢
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