Every Caner guy PLZ HELP ME ASAP :(( !!!!!!!!!!!!

I NEED HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLP !!!!
I'm in love in this cancer guy for more than 3 months but our story began like this:
We met on face book more than a year an half ago, he kept sending me emails asking about me and me replying then after a month i added him on my messenger list, so we kept talking on the messenger every night then he began to love me and calling me his love and he told me that he loved me but i didnt feel the same towards him because we never met face by face.He loves in another country but he believed in long distance relationships and ppl can get married through such relationships. So he even asked were i live and that he was ready to propose as soon as he comes to meet me. This is were I began to feel frightened of the whole situation; I was afraid that i might not like him in reality and that he might conquer my frredom and so one because every time we talk on messenger he asks me where have i been and whom i talk to (this is typical from cancerian). So i began to retrieve my self (tried to escape ) from him and avoid him as much as i can, so i kept telling him that how can two get married in such relationships and we havent met !!! so he didnt ask me why or what and he understood what i was trying to do so he backed off .
Later after couple of months, i missed him so i sent him a message on face book, he replied that he came to visit his parents and he was in bad condition that no one knew he cam back !!!!! i couldn't believe that he was near to me !!! he gave me his phone no. and STILL called me his lover and told me to never hesitate to call him at any time. After couple pf days i called him and we talked then he wanted to see me but every time he gives me a date, he never shows up !!!! at last after 2 weeks he decided to see me for the 1st time we met !! he was amazing, a guy that was perfect to me But he didnt love me, it was obvious from his acts and he told me that he doesnt want to hurt me and that his situation cant make him in a relationship now nor get involved and that his heart is almost dead from any emotions !! we kept talking on phone but i was the one to call and im the only one that texts him and most times he never replied .
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This kept on more than a 2 months , I knew he was changed and he wasnt honest with me but in the same time he told me that he doesn't have any other girl in his life, after 2 months and before he was about to leave the country in 3 hours !!!!!!!!!!!!! he called me and told me he was leaving for good and not coming back because he was still looking for a job. I was furious and hung off the phone and sent him a text message explaining that he hurt me , he kept texting me and at his last message he told me that he loves me and that he told his mum about me and he swear that he loved me and that he didnt mean to hurt me , so the next day in the airport i called him and i was supportive and we kept talking till he got on the plain....

The problem comes after this.......... after a week of his departure he sent me his new phone no. i called him and told him that i miss him sooo much and i love him , this kept for more than 2 weeks; me sending mesgs and he rarely replies saying that hes busy ... but everytime i talk to him he says that he loves me sooooooo much but when i see his actions it says the opposite !!! i asked him again about his mum and told me that he will talk to her but i didnt believe him . A week ago was my birthday and everyone greeted me and wished me a happy birthday BUT he didnt even ask !!!!!!!!!! nor called nor text me !!!!!!! although i saw his activities on facebook and he was the whole week online !!!!!!!!

I just cant believe his actions, I sent him a text msg this week and told hims thanks for everything , is the what i get from loving and being loyal and faithful , but he never replied ..


plz plz plz ....i'm desperate and I dont know what to do ....i really need help so plllllllllllllllllllllllllz help me ASAP

I'm not in any contact with him anymore for more than 2 weeks and i dont know why he acts like this. I even know that he lies to me but he thinks im not clever enough to understand that !!

Thanks Moon-eyes for the reply, He loves in Lebanon and i'm from Iraq, the problem is he is having a bad situation with work (unemployed), I told him several times that this is the only reason that I'm not pushing him. He once told me that he had compared me to his exes and I'm way to much better than them ( yeah sure coz I don't judge him to much at least not in front of him) ..
now Its been more than 2 weeks I haven't been in contact with him, the only time I sent him a text message was couple a days ago I wrote; ( thank you for wishing me a happy bday ! , thank you for you interest ! , thank you for caring !, thank you for everything ! , Is this what a person gets from being faithful and loves from the deep of my heart — ) he NEVER replied nor showed online and neither on face book.
I'm trying to move one but I'm having hard time to forget him since he hasn't deleted me from his friend list on face book .
I admit, Cancer guys are veryyyyyyyyy weird , but when the y love they get clingy, this what happened to me at the beginning , but I let go of him because i wasn't sure of my feelings since we haven't physically met !!!!
As I know about cancers is they step back when they feel they are not wanted or ignored , probably this is the reason why he didn't say that he was in country. and he stood up for 3 times then I called him and told him that I really didn't care anymore if I see him or not , Later he changed his mind probably when I told him that a guy proposed to me !! he even asked where did that guy live ! but that was before, now things changed completely and the proof is on my birthday !!!

Sorry (Lives *) Misspelling