@Kim31
12 Years1,000+ Posts
Fellow Crabs
Aries squares Cancer and both are Cardinal signs so that's probably why you two don't get along. Both want to be in control. Leo is your neighbor and sometimes the sign you're next to can feel more like your opposite. And Virgos can grate on anyones nerves.
I'm not hating. I don't dislike the people. Its just an itch. The same way
you would react to a close friend saying something you strongly disagree with.
Usually when there is something about a person you do not like you are really mirroring and it is a quality/trait that you also have.
I once called someone arrogant and my friend told me that one must be arrogant in order to recognize arrogance. How else would you know what it looks like?
You spot it ...you got it.
Maybe its because of your past makes you hate or dislike them. You should still give the person a chance, because you never know they could actually be a nice person.
I think Ariesintrovert is right. I don't hate or dislike them. Its an irk. It isn't an issue of mirroring. That is only true of the cancers who get under my skin.
They get under my skin BEFORE I KNOW their sign.
The women I'm experiencing this with do stuff that I don't or wouldn't do. Its not mirroring. Not this time!
Posted by 2BlackIndian3
Maybe its because of your past makes you hate or dislike them. You should still give the person a chance, because you never know they could actually be a nice person.
I don't have a habit of abandoning people. These women I keep around even though they irk me. I haven't given them the cold shoulder because they really haven't done anything wrong for me to.
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Please explain something. Let me say I don't dislike anyone just because of their sign. But after I find out their sign, I'm usually not surprised based on my feelings about them. That being said: Why do Virgo and Leo females irk the hell out of me? What is it that makes me cringe? They don't do or say anything in particular. They're not bad people. I don't dislike them but they just get on my nerves and I can't figure out why. Same with Aries men. I cant help but roll my eyes when they flirt. What's that about?