Help! Dont know what to do with Cancer??

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cafrella
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Just this Monday that just passed, my little Cancer comes in to work and he's all happy starts asking about my weekend and I tell him what I did, and he tells me he made Pesto and I sort of cut him off and started telling him about my recipe for Pesto and without asking him about how his weekend was... and without noticing it... he didn't say much and left my office... but i realized after that i had MAYBE not given him the chance to talk and didn't show interest in his weekend... but it was too late... he turned aroudn and spent time throughout the day talking to another coworker, a friend of mine which he doesn't like so much and rarely speaks to her... but he ignored me all day, which was probably a message for me? and we're Wednesday and he's still avoiding me...
I didn't do any of it on purpose... but
I guess he's hurt?
Feels rejected?
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Just take the initiative and tell him that you like him but in subtle ways, like flirting... Although, you must wait for him to finish his sentences 🙂.

I find myself attracted to leo women. I really liek the cheerful attitude and generousity exhibited by sexy kittens.

You can't play coy with a cancer. Or it'll just never amount to anything. It'll be a situation where he's unsure how you feel and you're unsure what to do, and round and round it'll go. With Cancers, we need a clear signal b4 we move in b/c we are terrified of being hurt. Just make sure that you tell him that you like him in subtle but clear ways. If you go straight up to him and say "I want you and me on a bed together 🙂" it won't work. He'll become apprehensive, or at least I know I will.

Cancers and Leos do work. I've seen it happen. One of my best friends is engaged to a cancer. But, you need clear communication between you two and the Leo needs to become more considerate and more sensitive to what the cancer wants.
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cafrella
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Tiamat,
He hasn't told me anything yet... But I think they broke up, she hasn't called here at work (I answer the phone) for the past almost 3 weeks now (she used to call everyday almost) ... except for one time and she didn't sound very happy or nice... He made a comment on Monday when he was telling me about his pesto... I said "you're into cooking I see!" and he said well if i want to eat... i've got to cook! so i said "girlfriend not into cooking I guess?" and he just answered..."Like i said, if i want to eat, I have to cook!" and i just left it at that. But I know he doesn't sound very happy with her, everything he's told me about her was more or less negative, it seems as if he was embarassed about her... I don't know, but anyhow..
Today I'll try to speak to him and apologize about the mess i've created on Monday...

You've got to be super sensitive around these little crabs!