@roxyfalcon2006
15 YearsVirgo
He's already joking about marriage?
It ws a joke, if he really wants to marry you. He will ask, and when he does DO NOT make a citizenship comment. It may make him think twice about asking you. Some call us shy, in reality we are a little egotistical... yup..
Hahah no I don't think he meant it that's crazy!!! And I am notttttt looking for a husband right now. I was just asking if you think he I romantically interested in me because he wouldn't have made that joke if he wasn't?
The joke has nada to do with it. We dont speak in code and test you like pisces,or scorpio. When we want you, you will definately know, we will MAKE sure you feel it in our core. Obviosuly he is still talking to you... so he is interested. Just go with the flow
Canceriangoddess but if he's shy, and fears rejection like the typical crab characteristic, don't you think he WOULDN'T make it obvious? His friends have told me he never makes moves and has said that he likes when the girl does because he is too nrrvous
We are supposed to fear rejection. Not ALL of us do. How old is he?
Wineaux you're right about the staying at his moms house thing.. But no man on this planet who is "interested" in a woman can be ok with communicating twice a month?? Have you seen that movie "he's just not that into you?" it is fiction I know but partially true. If he wants you, he'll call. He doesn't call.
He's almost 25 and I'm 22. He has an identically twin that is totally opposite.. Very outgoing, loves being the center of attention, kind of a man whore..he has violent mood swings which is basically his only cancer trait. The guy I'm interested fits into th cancer mold perfectly though.
Hmmmmm, well. Hes old enough to lose that shy shell. That can only mean one thing. I will break this down...
When a cancer wants you for one thing only, they are not SHY! because if they are rejected they only wanted you for sex anyways and just move to the next victim.
When a cancer is so attreacted and intuned to you, he is shy,because he wants more and doesnt want to be rejected!
Posted by CancerianGoddess
Hmmmmm, well. Hes old enough to lose that shy shell. That can only mean one thing. I will break this down...When a cancer wants you for one thing only, they are not SHY! because if they are rejected they only wanted you for sex anyways and just move to the next victim.
When a cancer is so attreacted and intuned to you, he is shy,because he wants more and doesnt want to be rejected!
There is a lot of truth here
Well we havent had sex or even anything past kissing. I'm a virgin and his friends told me his last gf was a virgin and he took her virginity and didn't know it and felt really bad.. He thought she was boring and they broke up but he didn't want her to think it was because of that or something.. I dunno. So you are saying you think he might be shy because he might want something serious? His firn did call me his "future gf" lol
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So I've been very patient with this guy. He is very often in his shell and hates technology, we live 3 hours away in USA and Canada and so obviously it's very hard to communicate/ see eachother (he doesn't have a car). Anyways, recently I've been talking about moving to his town in Canada for the summer since there's NO jobs here in the USA in my state. Last night his friend wanted to skype with me since he was at their house so we were all talking (they were all kinds drunk) and I was saying how I don't know how much longer my Canadian citizenship was gonna take to process. So out of nowhere my cancer guy (who is totally shy) was like "well it looks like were just gonna have to get married eh?" and we all laughed and his friends were like "haha but no, he means that" or something to give him a hard time. I just laughed it off and was like haha you just want your green card to become an American and his friends laughed an said "well played". Were not dating or anything, we hardly talk since he works so much, hates technology , and his friends had said before he thought distance was an issue... So I still don't know if he's interested in me. But that marriage comment was very out of character for him since he's so shy and made me wonder if he's thought of me in that way... What do you guys think?