At first I was reading about his Leo sun to try to make some sense of his hot/cold/hot/cold ways of doing things! We have been seeing eachother for four months and I know he likes me....but he will go from being so overly sweet to very cold. For example the last month we have been dating we have talked pretty much everyday; however, that sort of changed when I went on vacation for a few days. He did not initiate contact with me the entire time, but I stayed in contact with him initiating convo while I was away. Finally once he knew I was back he picked up the pace again— Then we spend a great weekend together (I think the closest we have been thus far), and know he is back to being cold again. He says he has been having a hard time at work. So I was very kind about it and said and know how that is and I will let you be until you want to talk but I am here when your ready. He responded very sweetly but proceeded with ending the conversation. I can tell he gets very standoffish when in a bad mood; however, how can you tell when they are loosing interest versus just in a terribile mood. Everytime we are together I do not question a thing....but we can not spend to much time together because of his occupation and it gets rough distinguishing between his moodswings/non-interest. if you need more info let me know!!
His cancer moon is driving me nuts!!

Well you were on vacation......meaning you were trying to get away for a bit.....so thinking like a guy he was just giving you space. Plus its only been 4 months. It might have been different if it was a long term relationship. I know if I went on vacay I wouldn't expect some1 I was only dating for 4 months to call me everyday.
As for the rest, I need more info because it could even be someone else but how crazy is his job?
As for the rest, I need more info because it could even be someone else but how crazy is his job?
I worry about the someone else factor but he works about 75 hours a week and his with me on his days off...he does make that effort!

Posted by lovesaleo
I worry about the someone else factor but he works about 75 hours a week and his with me on his days off...he does make that effort!
75 hours a week wow! And he is with you on his days off. Yeah give him a break. If he was being cold and wasnt seeing you that would be different.

maybe he's been at work every waking moment and that's why he hasn't had time for chit-chat. He's focused on the task at hand. let alone what's there to talk about when work IS your life.
While on the topic, I have a virgo sun with cancer rising, nearly opposite, but not exactly. The cancer rising really balances out my intellectual, critical virgo nature with the soft, warm embrace of the mystical cancer. And my leo moon allows me to strive for excellence and have some sense of identity to contrast my humility 😉
While on the topic, I have a virgo sun with cancer rising, nearly opposite, but not exactly. The cancer rising really balances out my intellectual, critical virgo nature with the soft, warm embrace of the mystical cancer. And my leo moon allows me to strive for excellence and have some sense of identity to contrast my humility 😉
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