How can you tell if a cancer misses you?

what signs do they give off, do they just ignore you and act like nothing is wrong?

They tell you! Teehee. But I'd like to throw this is as well: it's a lot easier when they look at you face to face for those feelings to become words. Those words are highly unlikely to come out of that shell by themselves.

Hmm some just say but shy cancers seem to hide away, I think my ex is a shy one, we haven't contacted eachother in a week or so saw her at college today and she couldn't keep away from me, she tried to very close a touchy feely with cuddles etc quite confusing since she did the dumping :')

Posted by BlackIndian22
Well as Cancer, when i miss a woman i care about; i usually be very sad. I would give them a day to call or see me. Like if we go from talking on the phone everyday to you missing 2days of nothing. That gets to me soo badly. But i will say, this has thought me to not depend on others for my happiness. I feel that is a Cancer biggest challenge in life. Hope i helped you "). So what else you wanna know?

So true. One of our biggest challenges can be not depending on another person for happiness. But not talking to our beloved for a few days after constant communication can be quite challenging.

Posted by BlackIndian22
Well as Cancer, when i miss a woman i care about; i usually be very sad. I would give them a day to call or see me. Like if we go from talking on the phone everyday to you missing 2days of nothing. That gets to me soo badly. But i will say, this has thought me to not depend on others for my happiness. I feel that is a Cancer biggest challenge in life. Hope i helped you "). So what else you wanna know?

Hi (me again)

This is exactly what I mean 'if this guy (cancer) is not into me' why would he keep in contact with me— Is this because it fulfills a need within him, and opp to him needing me ??

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Posted by BlackIndian22
Well as Cancer, when i miss a woman i care about; i usually be very sad. I would give them a day to call or see me. Like if we go from talking on the phone everyday to you missing 2days of nothing. That gets to me soo badly. But i will say, this has thought me to not depend on others for my happiness. I feel that is a Cancer biggest challenge in life. Hope i helped you "). So what else you wanna know?

Hi (me again)

This is exactly what I mean 'if this guy (cancer) is not into me' why would he keep in contact with me— Is this because it fulfills a need within him, and opp to him needing me ??

Because he likes you. We don't have to be "into" someone to keep in touch. We are emotional and sentimental and cutting ties for good does not come easy.

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So how do you know if he is into you as oppossed to just liking you ?? How would this manifest— It's very confusing for non Cancerians to understand this - how can someone (Cancer) be demonstrably affectionate, kiss you hug you spontaneously but only like you ?? If a Cancerian is into you would this be any different ??

well my cancer ex clings to me like mad, she always goes out her way at college to see me on her breaks when Im away doing work tries to hang out constantly when she was the one who broke up with me - today she has the nerve to say 'I treated her badly' just because in our relationship I got a little jealous and possessive never stopped her from doing anything. I would love to see her date someone who is actually horrible to her, I put 110% always in any way made her happy did everything for her I just don't get it.
Being friends now is just to intense she shows she misses me by clinging to me although she shouldn't, are cancers at a young age confused alot in relationships? (it's her first one) it's just mind blowing it really damaged me when she said I miss treated her not once I raise or hurt her intentionally.

Moonbunny: The thing is I have already apologised countless times, I understand what you are saying they are very sensitive certain things in our relationship she took to heart. I can she hurts even if she doesn't express it through herself, she is good at hiding things in the interior and looking completely fine on the exterior.

But if I don't create distance now, what will happen is her being sensitive and getting my attention and cuddling without calling it a relationship will basically be her having best of both worlds because she hasn't lost me, whilst I suffer with getting the attention but wanting more.
I do adore her I really do but she is the one who broke up with me because her confusing of feelings, 'miss treating her' apparently etc so in my view if she wants me in her life she needs to make the effort throughout the relationship I put in 110% but I didn't get it all in return.

she does care, and she is confused in her own head all she knows is she doesn't want to be with me but treats me like a partner. That's why I think creating distance will damage her a hell of alot but without it I can't heal properly and maybe she will finally see what is missing not necessarily getting back together but see I wasn't all bad from what she thinks. if you asked anyone I knew I didn't hurt her she was just very sensitive.

They are:

Sun Cancer 19.30
Moon Capricorn 17.29
Mercury Cancer 2.44
Venus Cancer 8.37
Mars Virgo 24.44
Jupiter Sagittarius 6.13 R
Saturn Pisces 24.43 R
Uranus Capricorn 28.52 R
Neptune Capricorn 24.18 R
Pluto Scorpio 28.02 R
Lilith Gemini 21.18
Asc node Scorpio 2.11

I think her ascendant is libra but im not sure what time she was born :/

Mine is:

Sun Taurus 14.35 Ascendant Cancer 7.27
Moon Pisces 15.38
Mercury Taurus 20.23
Venus Gemini 10.59
Mars Aries 15.52
Jupiter Scorpio 9.09
Saturn Pisces 10.30
Uranus Capricorn 26.20 R
Neptune Capricorn 23.20 R
Pluto Scorpio 27.03 R
Lilith Taurus 3.04
Asc node Scorpio 23.55

They mope if they miss you and usually you can see it on their face when you see them the next time.

Ooh right yes this is exactly how she is treating the situation haha, definately she likes to touch and feel rather than talk she would love to avoid talking all together if she could :L
but spending time with her (being my ex) will only hurt me really, and I will only get sick of the sight of her if I keep wanting more :/
yep she is a poker face person she tells nothing to anyone, she hides it all away from everyone she says she barely ever sleeps now compared to before - I mean for me I have some cancer in me so I am going to be clinging also which I can be but I know when I want my space, thats why I thought NC was the way forwards even for a week or so to get clarity atm when I am around her I just get upset and she just keeps cuddling me and says everything will be okay and keeps being all couple like.

the frown upon same sex relationships? umm haha we are both girls :L

Oh right, sorry alot of people don't work it out till I say. yeah I understand, well she is only into girls on any relationship level and she doesn't really have any guy friends who she communicates with since she went to an all girls school if anything im the one who 'if I fall in love with a guy or girl' it doesn't really matter.
yeah I have read a few, they make sense and link to her very well expeically todo with the locked away feelings and avoiding conversing about them.

Posted by incandescentcancer
They mope if they miss you and usually you can see it on their face when you see them the next time.

yep. n they tell you so n get all needy like a mutha........

lol. i wish i could say i was joking...