So back to my fiasco with Cancer boy...it transpires he has truly never had a girlfriend at age 20. What's going on?! He's so sweet and attractive and lovely. Do Cancers sometimes feel that they are too young for a relationship and thus put it off until they are older? Is this unusual for a Cancer?
I was a virgin until I was 20 ...never really had a girlfriend before that. I was apparently all of the things you say about him at the time. Unfortunately, I was ready for a family, but the person I decided to have kids with, wasn't. I don't think that age has anything to do with a cancer being ready... only the depth of the relationship, and how ready the partner is. Maybe he's not trying to make the same mistake that I did.
Thanks, broken_shell, that's really helpful. I'm sorry you had a bad experience, I hope you find your queen someday. (I love your hair, btw)
Moon, once again you've summed up what I was thinking. "Other cancers see relationships fail so they dont get into it. Cause for us its not only a relationship but a bit more cause were all emotional and stuff." - that was what I was thinking about my guy. He's at Uni, surrounded by people getting in and out of relationships all the time, including all the break-ups and stuff and it probably makes him extra-sensitive and cautious about getting into a relationship. Poor thing. I must rescue him soon lol!
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So back to my fiasco with Cancer boy...it transpires he has truly never had a girlfriend at age 20. What's going on?! He's so sweet and attractive and lovely.
Do Cancers sometimes feel that they are too young for a relationship and thus put it off until they are older? Is this unusual for a Cancer?
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