I ❤️ Cancer women

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Kesha
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There are literally 3 stages to Cancer and mood swings

1: I will randomly start to sulk and pout around

2: if you ignore this (not recommended in response to your question) I will become really passive aggressive

3: Finally I will become aggressive and let you have it!

I would say most Cancers want someone to be by their side even when they are this way but a healthy space like let me be angry but be there for me in case I want to talk!

The new age Virguy can definitely make it work just be yourself, and let her know your here for her!
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Qutie
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Definitely don't ignore them! I will say there is a bigger bulk to astrological personalities so find out yours and hers different planet signs to get a better viewing of her indepth personality, but going just by canceranians do not ignore them! Don't push anything though, try to coo what is wrong from them in a gentle manner, because when in a bad mood we'll retract into our shells.

we don't express it, but we truly want our partners or those who've caused us pain to take the initiative to find out what's wrong and help even if we don't say so, or show it at all, it shows us you do care even if we push away which will probably help get her out of her shell, it's a big show of trust. This is for sadness by the way.

If she's angry and it's something you did, she'll probably be passive aggressive and not show what's exactly wrong, so definitely be intuitive on the beginnings of an anger spout. If this anger goes unresolved it can become an ugly mess of tears and rage. If it isn't something you did, she may want to vent to you. DEFINITELY LISTEN. Once she's done and she's still not too cool, look for signs of retreating into her shell. If so, leave her be for a bit but don't go too far away. If she isn't retreating, she probably wants some comfort. I hope this helps you!
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Crabra
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Posted by LazyK
So basically ur saying there's no way to fix the problem & this is something I'll have to deal with for the rest of my life if I choose to

Sounds so depressing

yet exciting at the same time

I don't think so. What they're saying is you can't just turn off the mood swings. It's what comes with this placement in nearly every crab-case. However, the love they give tends to make up for the bad times. It can be frustrating, but you should know that if a crab is moody with you, they care about you enough to let you see this side to them. They have a tough shell and powerful pincers that make them quite formidable defensively, but underneath all of that are those soft and extremely vulnerable insides. If you think it's tough to get these women to open up initially, you're really not going to like how much more difficult it is to get them to do it again if you fvck up.