Sag man analysis: How to find out if he is cheating?

i am a cancer girl.. we dated for 1 year and this guy seems to be always to insecure and possesive.

initially it all seemed o.. n lovey dovey.. but later it became suffocating.. he use to doubt almost everything.

subconsciously i started to develop trust issues regarding him.

for eg : if i dont repl him immediately he would turn mad..but he replies to me as late as possible specially when he is angry.

i lost my patience and we started having fights everyday. He seemed so reckless and insesitive all the time. blunt as fuck and hurt me all the time with his nonsense allegations that i am cheating.

Angry is not love relationships.

When you love a person - you don't get angry. That place is filled! With warm fuzzy feelings. ?

Ask him...it's always the best way to find out. We're honest in one way or another.

Posted by Gemitati
Angry is not love relationships.

When you love a person - you don't get angry. That place is filled! With warm fuzzy feelings. ?

What fairy tale you drop out of? You can be angry at the person you love. That doesn't make you love them any less.

However comma... dude in the op sounds like a selfish little boy. I have Cancer friends and one thing I love about those ladies is they don't play around when it comes to matters of the heart. If you allow him to act and treat you in this manner, he will continue. Either put him in his place and stand by what you mean or leave him be. Some Sag men can be real tools. You're gonna have to show him you mean business.

If he doesn't love you or found another love, then he won't be there around you, he will simply cut all ties with you and leave you dry. At least that what I will do as a sag.

However, he does love you. If look at the whole picture, why would he doubt you, think you are cheating? It gotta be something, either you don't show enough love/attention/care, he sounds like he is not feeling your sincerity or attention to his needs. The fact that he doesn't reply your text immediately, because you didn't (reply immediately). You didn't give him the attention; he got mad. But didn't cut you loose. He is still around so there's hope!

Just reach him with your feelings, show sincerity, he is your no.1, reassure him. Try talking about the trust issue you guys have, encourage him to open up his heart to you, to trust you and let you know why/what makes him mad, and not shut you off.

If all this doesn't work, then you need to spare your heart from getting more hurt. Leave him.

Posted by saguya
Basically, if he cheats you'll know.. that sun is no longer shining on you, it can cast quiet a shadow and you'll feel cold..

If he turned cold, no longer warm and only care 50% .. yes there's someone else ?

I loved the way you explain it. ?

Posted by Distilled
Where is his Venus?

his venus is in sag

If you love him- then you need to talk to him and tell him to slow down. Talk to him and explain that his accusations are frustrating you and logically he has nothing to worry about because your heart is his. Period. You never cheated, gave him reason to suspect etc etc. Explain that when you cant get to your phone its because you are in the middle of something- and you get back to him as soon as you can. AGAIN remind him that your heart is his- AND remind him that you sat down to talk to him about it calmly because it and he is important to you. If it happens again- remind him again and again and again until he finally realizes that what youre saying is true. He just values you and doesnt want to lose you. Maybe try sending him messages telling him ur really busy but that youre thinking about him- so this way he knows you'll be out of commission for a while. Good luck!