Interested In Cancer Girl...Limited Response

I've seen this Cancer girl at my local Hispanic Chamber of Commerce, I came by and helped her with computer problems.
I talked with her and it was always real cool...I started visting at her other job and talkes to her 2 times, the third time she was busy (waiting tables) so we didn't talk.

Anyways, I stared at her across the street with some of my boys and she noticed.
I sent her a message on facebook saying this, [translated from spanish]

"I come by to say hello, because you always act like humble, congenial and well mannered girl.
Well, I don't want to suprise, but it is for that reason, I've been interested in you from the moment I met you.

I don't know, if you're involved with some guy, or if I please you ... but if you're available, I would like to know you better.

If you can't or don't want to, that's fine too, I never want to put your professional position uncomfortable, for the reason of a crush.

If you, maybe we could make a date of coffee or lunch.
Let me know when you want to."

She doesn't respond for two days, and so then I see her online, and message her.
"Did you get my message" - Virgo
"Ya" - Cancer
"I suppose the lack of response is the response in itself." - Virgo
"Not necessarily. I'm real busy right now, and it all took me by suprise. I don't know what to say. I have to think." - Cancer
"If you're unavailable it's fine." - Virgo
"It's not that. I just have to get through work thing, but aside from that I have something I need to figure out." - Cancer
"Okay, let me know." - Virgo
"You have my number and I have FB on my phone now, so contact me whenver." - Cancer
"Okay I'll call you Friday." - Virgo

That's about it.
Where do I go from here? Call her and just lighten her up and take her out. Call her, and demonstrate an irrational all-encompassing love for her. Call her, and ask her what she has to figure out. I don't get her lol.

Is she rejecting me? Or is she literally just rolling over some issues? Or she just doesnt know because, I have to do something, so that she knows?
What the heck do I do?

HI, I'm a Cancer girl, and to me she sounds like she needs to "convince" herself that she likes you. If she really was crushing on you, she would have responded asap. I would leave her alone for now and see if she responds.

Also, considering that she has 2 jobs, she probably is busy; you never want to harass a Cancer girl, despite what I read about us, I know I don't like too much persistence from anyone when I am busy with life...

Give it a week, text her a friendly hello, if she doesn't respond then move on. Good luck to you!

Since you said you'd call Friday, I'd call Friday (today?). But keep it light. Show interest without pressure. If she really is just hella busy, she might want to get to know you better, but not at the expense of her obligations. So if you offer something "modular" like a quick coffee date, she can either keep it at that, or expand from there if she feels like it. But if you come at her with everything, she might feel pressured.

I called her. It was short, sweet and stunted. She was reciprocal but also seemed kind of nervous.
This is my gameplan, if she likes me, she'll call me. I know Cancers are cautious so I'm going to try to be as thickly mellow and cool as I can be. I am going to call her once every 2 or 3 days as friends. However, after a certain point. I'm going to stop, at that point, she's going to keep it up or not.
I can't force it on her, and if she has to 'convince' herself, then all I can do is put myself out there.

Posted by sikkario
I called her. It was short, sweet and stunted. She was reciprocal but also seemed kind of nervous.
This is my gameplan, if she likes me, she'll call me. I know Cancers are cautious so I'm going to try to be as thickly mellow and cool as I can be. I am going to call her once every 2 or 3 days as friends. However, after a certain point. I'm going to stop, at that point, she's going to keep it up or not.
I can't force it on her, and if she has to 'convince' herself, then all I can do is put myself out there.

How Virgo of you to have a gameplan. You are overthinking this way too much. Just ask her out and quit acting like a wierdo. I have female Cancer friends and they are horrible with returning calls, so if you are going to use how much she calls you to gauge how much she likes you then you will feel sad. She has two jobs so this girl is busy. Another thing, you initiated this, so why do you have so many expectations of her? If you want to get to know her then you do the work. I would bet my paycheck that you dont have any fire in your chart.

I've got three Sagittarian elements, and one Leo in my chart. Gotta look up where there at.
My house for love is Libra, I've got a Libra rising, and then my action house or whatever is Capricorn.
Wish I understood this stuff better.

Ok, so you do lol, but your venus in Libra. Which means you want the relationship to basically be balanced. It doesnt always work that way. If you are interested in this girl then just ask her out a couple times, if she doesnt seem interested then be pleasant and go on. But I say take it one day at a time and dont jump too far ahead of yourself.

http://www.cafeastrology.com/zodiaclibra.html- read venus in libra.