Mr. Cancer is moving too fast now....

I feel the need to pull back. He hasn't asked for me to be his exclusively but he's now calling me his girlfriend. I don't know how I feel about that. The last time we instituted titles he freaked out and pulled away. According to him, he was falling too fast and needed to pull away. That of course sent me into a tailspin. I pushed and he pulled to the point where it almost ended in disaster. So I just backed way up....as time went along he began to reach out and we slowly started to rebuild the relationship. We've only been intimate twice, the second time was 3 weeks ago. This time, I remained calm. I didn't allow my emotions dictate my behavior even though I knew I was falling again. I didn't call/text like it did last time. I acted like most guys do and kind of disappeared. This time he started calling/texting just to say hello. I responded, but I didn't talk about our encounter. Fast forward to this past Friday. It likes the flood gates of emotions opened in him. He's telling me we are now exclusive. He wants to see me daily. How awesome it felt to be with me that night and other grown up stuff. LOL It's as if the roles have changed.

We had a date scheduled on yesterday, but I had to cancel. Today I get a message saying how was so excited and ready to see me and that I let him down. That really bothers me because I had a very good reason for cancelling. There have been times when he had to cancel for whatever reason and I was understanding. After he tells me I've let him down, he then pressures me to give him a date/time of when he'll be able to see me again. I don't know, maybe it's nothing, but he's being so intense now. Is it because of the intimate encounter that he's behaving this way? I don't know if I should just relax and be happy that I'm getting what I've wanted or should I be cautious....I don't deal well with pressure.

I am in no way expert when it comes to the cancer man....you know my story. I can only share my down-fall with the crab when he turned the tables on me and how exactly I ruined it when he finally was ready to give me what I wanted. I would say be honest with him about how your feeling, make sure you include your dealings under pressure in a read between the lines manner as to avoid hurting his feelings and sending him into the notorious shell, reiterate your busy schedule so he doesnt expect too much too soon or feel offended should your schedule not allow as much interaction as he is hoping for but on the same token let him know you would like the same & will be sure to make time for him when your schedule permits. Sometimes we want the very things that challenge us, the things we either dont/cant have at a particular moment, until it presents itself full force in front of us that can send you running for the hiils. Honestly, I think communication is key so both of you know what you want/expect from eachother and take the proper steps to get there in a timely/loving manner that works well for both parties. Dont devulge too much too soon nut follow his lead, let him initiate and you follow with response. Let him continue the hunt...hes enjoying that part....like your dangling a piece of meat in front of him drawing him to the prize....you! Dont initiate just reciprocate...communicate and let the rest flow. Sounds like your headedin just the direction you had hoped for.....dont confuse him now....hes finally on the same page! Lottsa luck & love leo 🙂

Im hoping the guy with the "paragraph fetish" doesnt see my post! Lol

Maddy, that's so true. I think maybe I wasn't expecting him to respond this way. I had already prepared myself for his shelling routine. Definitely didn't expect him to want more. I had prepared my heart to release him in case it went badly. Misscorp, that's what i've been doing, following his lead. Hell after that night I wanted to call him the next day and thank him for laying it on me like he did, but I didn't. LOL Oh my gosh, he was so damn yummy. His touch,his kisses, the way he looks at him. I can still hear him softly calling my name as I devoured his body. Wow...I'm getting excited just thinking about it. It has taken every ounce of restraint in me to not lose my mind. He was that good. The first time around, I was begging him for time and now it's him asking. The line that really clenched my heart was when he told me "he needed to see me again soon." I'm gonna relax and enjoy the ride. thanks ladies....

Let It Be: You're so right. thank you for the reality smack. We're definitely on the same page here. I think i'm just a little scared to jump in fearing that it'll go badly like before. Just a defense mechanism. I'm going to enjoy the time I have with him and just relax. thank you all for your insight.

Darn! Caught red-handed moon-man! The luck! Thank you......Thank you very much....(blushing)....🙂

Is moon man flirting with Ms.Scorpio? That's a hot combo right there.