My cancer man nearly destroyed my heart!

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ariesheart
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10 Years

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This man,cancer, has nearly been possessive,jealous,almost obsessive during the 6 months I've, Aries,been with him! When we're together,I can't get away from him. Always wanting to cuddle,talking my head off,kissing me all over my face,playing in my hair! And I love it all. The issue is when we're not together. It's like he finds ways to argue or get mad so that he can ignore me or me to ignore him. The last straw was this weekend. Spent Friday,and Saturday with him but when it was time for me to leave Sunday, he said some knife stabbing words that made me break into tears! It's too harsh to say but basically told me I wasn't good enough for him! Huh?! Where did this come from—!!!! So yes, me being an Aries,I came back harsher. Left him with his mouth open. So hurt, just had to vent up here.
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Sounds like you two aren't really compatible, tbh. Why stick around for such emotional abuse? My biggest gripe with water signs is how emotionally abusive/manipulative they are when they don't get their way/feel that they've been slighted- which usually has little basis. They just skewed some shit in their head and now you're the bad guy.

What you just described is not a healthy or normal relationship. You need to consider if you really need such a toxic person in your life.
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one thing i like about scorpios is that they will just ice ya out. Cancers on the other hand will say some really destructive untrue things and EXPECT forgiveness.

both are terrible, but at least scorpios will shut the fuck up. Cancers, the childlike way of dealing with hurt is just not for me.

but aries and cancers can both act like kids, so maybe you guys like it?!
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ariesheart
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Posted by DMV
one thing i like about scorpios is that they will just ice ya out. Cancers on the other hand will say some really destructive untrue things and EXPECT forgiveness.

both are terrible, but at least scorpios will shut the fuck up. Cancers, the childlike way of dealing with hurt is just not for me.

but aries and cancers can both act like kids, so maybe you guys like it?!

Hmmmm, so true. We both do temper tantrums and fuss like kids
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ariesheart
@ariesheart
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Posted by CluelessCancer
lol .create boundaries. strong one's.

but lol



Lolol, quit laughing!



the best thing you can do for yourself is never take our insults seriously...especially if stated in anger...it's when we're cold you got to worry.
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The thing is, he didn't say it angry. I was like I gotta go, and he just responded like well blah blah blah (mean words)