My favorite Crabs: It (half) finally happened!

*Whilst talking about our relationship last night*

Him: All my friends keep asking if it's official. You're my girl, and we do everything couples do. It's basically a relationship. I have no issues with you, and I've never not had issues with anyone I was dating. We get along great, I love spending tons of time with you. I'd never jeopardize us because I know that I have someone at home that cares about me very much, that's loyal and treats me right.

Me: Soooo.. why aren't we official? I just want you to call me your girlfriend!

Him: You're my girlfriend. ...... Wait! I want to do this at a better time, in a better place.

Also, you guys were spot on. He was still hurt about what happened about 5 months ago (me trying to break us off).

Him: I tried before, but you didn't see it. So I took a step back to make sure us being together was the right thing. And it is. I used to be romantic with my exes, I would write poems and spill my guts, and they wouldn't appreciate that. You're going to get all that.

You Crabs really know what you're talking about!

Posted by Bells93
*Whilst talking about our relationship last night*

Him: All my friends keep asking if it's official. You're my girl, and we do everything couples do. It's basically a relationship. I have no issues with you, and I've never not had issues with anyone I was dating. We get along great, I love spending tons of time with you. I'd never jeopardize us because I know that I have someone at home that cares about me very much, that's loyal and treats me right.

Me: Soooo.. why aren't we official? I just want you to call me your girlfriend!

Him: You're my girlfriend. ...... Wait! I want to do this at a better time, in a better place.

Also, you guys were spot on. He was still hurt about what happened about 5 months ago (me trying to break us off).

Him: I tried before, but you didn't see it. So I took a step back to make sure us being together was the right thing. And it is. I used to be romantic with my exes, I would write poems and spill my guts, and they wouldn't appreciate that. You're going to get all that.

You Crabs really know what you're talking about!

😄
Now this warms my heart. Thanks fir sharing that!

Posted by silentkiller
Congraaaaaaats!!! I'm not a cabbe, but I am def. gonna read up on your old posts😉

How old are you Guys? Young love? 🙂

Thanks guys 🙂 Yeah, we're young lol 🙂 He's turning 22 in July, I'm 20!

Posted by CluelessCancer
Nice. Glad for you.

Keep your negativity on the low though, that can be irritating and when he's moody, give him space. Anyways ya'll will do fine. Cardinals don't fuk around when it comes to love.

Thanks CC, you've always been helpful 🙂 I'm definitely trying hard to keep the negativity on the low, and give him space as well whenever he needs it!

EEEE!!! Happy joy!! I'm glad things are getting smoothed out and moving forward. I hope you like an outpouring of emotion, because when it comes to those we love we pull all the stops and lay it on.

"Cardinals don't treetruk around when it comes to love."

So true, CC

Posted by MoonArtist

EEEE!!! Happy joy!! I'm glad things are getting smoothed out and moving forward. I hope you like an outpouring of emotion, because when it comes to those we love we pull all the stops and lay it on.

Thank you 🙂 I do lol, from him! If I know it's sincere, I'll take those sweet words any day! He hadn't opened up to me like that in a while.

Congrats on you & your Crab Bells! Remember when he gets in his moods or gets down; just let him know you care & let him be. He'll come out of the Shell more often if you do that. I wish you the best ok 🙂