My cancer men recently ended our relationship. It was over a misunderstanding, false assumptions on both parts. In the beginning we were both very open about our feelings and fell for each other fast. Over time his openness faded and I became confused of his feelings for me and sort of closed mine a bit as well. We spent all weekend, every weekend together and I would go to his basketball games that were close enough to me (we live an hour apart). We would text all day every day, and I thought things were moving along great. I didnt want to push for more or try to see him too much as with other guys I've dated, that only pushed them away. I didnt know that by NOT wanting more time, my cancer man was thinking I wasnt interested and didnt want to be with him... I quickly reassured him that was not the case and I absolutely wanted him and only him. He wasnt going for it and said actions spoke louder than words, and he had seen me online with my status still stating I was single (like his) so I drove all the way down to his place and was waiting when he got home from work. Crazy I know! It worked tho, and by morning things were better. I went home changed my status and texted him asking to see him the following day. He said no (first time ever) that he was spending time with family and friends for a few days. I said ok and to enjoy his day. The following morning I checked to see his response to my status change but there was none. I sent my usual good morning text and his response was short. I asked if he was bothered due to the status thing, and why he didnt respond. He said by checking his page I was being too stalkerish and he was done for good. I reminded him that he did the same thing to me, and he knew i was no stalker, as he courted me for months before I gave him the time of day. He said respect his decision. I told him I would leave him be. Im devastated so I started reading about cancers to get a better understanding. Ive never wanted an ex back but I want him back so bad! I sent him a long message apologizing for causing his confusion and for my actions.I let him know in depth just how much I did like him and want to be with him, I acknowledged that even tho he stopped telling me his feelings, his actions told me plenty. Finally I said that I hoped his feeling for me were strong enough that he wont let me go so easily. He quickly responded further pointing the finger lol which I now take as a good sign. Whats he thinking? What do I do?
