Need to make love with Cancer Man

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I am head over heels love with my Cancer friend. He is 28, I am 26. He loves me as a friend only. But I am out of control attracted towards him.

I am a virgin. Most of the time I don't feel urge to have sex until I have feelings for the guy but this time, this urge is becoming a need and its all because of how much I crave for his mind, body and soul. I love him and I know he will deny it as I am his friend only. 😢 But I really want to lose my virginity to him.

Being a virgin, I am not talking about just another hook up or rough painful sex, All the time I think about him making love to me and I am loving him all night long (sounds erotic but funny though) If I talked about it to him, he would break this friendship 😢

Once I thought to tell him that I masturbate thinking about him but did not as I felt it's offensive. We once cuddled all night long and I was turned on all the time to do the next step but I just could not!! But he did hug me tight and kissed me, he even bit me on my shoulder and was caressing my skin. He said I love you to me but as a friend only. I will really go mad craving for him.

Please give me some advise. Thanks!
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😢 I just want to cry right now!

I really love him as my sweetheart. He tells me about his career plans and I help him. We go out for dinners (just me and him) . I love to see him growing as a person. He is super adorable! But my actions towards him made him realize about my feelings and he already asked me to be his friend only. He fears that if we went into relationship, he could lose me.

I just want to love him and cook good food for him everyday but its now complicated to tell him about my wish to give him my virginity.
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Hmmmmm Thank you for being with me here. You are also Cancer sun, I am pretty sure you must be understanding from his point of view and my urge to have it with him.

I will always be with him 🙂 and I will tell him. But not sure what to do with my sexual appetite craving his skin. Reassuring him my love for him cannot be measured by words, its all about consistent actions and its been 8 months already.

I was never like this before, its like he is doing magic on me and my sexual need is coming out looking only for him. You have no idea how much I fantasize about us. I even started watching porn 😢 😢

I am not doing good at it , I just want to cry right now.
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Yes I am! He said to me that he is insanely attracted to my body, its super soft to his hands.

And he thinks sex is over rated. Maybe its because of his past bad romantic experiences, but he told me how much he had trust with girls but all he got was sex and betrayal.



This boy REALLY likes to tease you don't he? But anyway..you said you felt like your body has an urge to have sex with him.

And then he said that every girl he went out with had sex then betrayed him.

This sounds like:

A) He fears that you only want him physically and that you'll leave since he may have feelings for you too.

or

B) He doesn't want to compromise and wants his freedom that comes with being single. But he doesn't want to hurt your feelings or take away something as precious as your virginity especially when he DOESN'T have feelings for you.

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🙂 the loss is mine here in every aspect. I am one of those girls who are afraid of sex. Else I had chances before for hook ups, I can go to a bar tonight and get a guy craving for my body and can have it.

But I value love more and I believe sex is a part of it. How does it feel when I look into his eyes and see that I cannot get him. He can let his dig snuggle him but not me haha, I am the worst!

I am badly stuck.
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🙂 the loss is mine here in every aspect. I am one of those girls who are afraid of sex. Else I had chances before for hook ups, I can go to a bar tonight and get a guy craving for my body and can have it.

But I value love more and I believe sex is a part of it. How does it feel when I look into his eyes and see that I cannot get him. He can let his dig snuggle him but not me haha, I am the worst!

I am badly stuck.
As a Taurus moon / Mars i understand you too, unwavering loyalty and steady with it, you want him if it kills you.

Go after what you want, i suggest you attempt what i mentioned before.

"It may help if you reassure him you will always be there for him in the good and bad times."





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But I cannot go and look into his eyes and ask him to take my virginity. And its because Love stops me. I feel bad for myself. I can either continue being his friend or stop it. This sexual desire is growing on me fast. 😢

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He once mentioned that he wants 4 kids (3 boys and 1 girl) and soon after asked me to imagine if we have 4 kids? He was joking but I was not. I am slim so he asked me if I would ever be able to manage four pregnancies . We finally ended this chat by having a bet of 500 $ .... whom he would love the most? According to me, his daughter and according to him, one of his boys

Whatte life!
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🙂 the loss is mine here in every aspect. I am one of those girls who are afraid of sex. Else I had chances before for hook ups, I can go to a bar tonight and get a guy craving for my body and can have it.

But I value love more and I believe sex is a part of it. How does it feel when I look into his eyes and see that I cannot get him. He can let his dig snuggle him but not me haha, I am the worst!

I am badly stuck.
As a Taurus moon / Mars i understand you too, unwavering loyalty and steady with it, you want him if it kills you.

Go after what you want, i suggest you attempt what i mentioned before.

"It may help if you reassure him you will always be there for him in the good and bad times."






But I cannot go and look into his eyes and ask him to take my virginity. And its because Love stops me. I feel bad for myself. I can either continue being his friend or stop it. This sexual desire is growing on me fast. 😢


Don't say anything, give him your full emotion and sensuality, sensually this will be extremely natural to you.

Do it all through touching and kissing, he will succumb, any Cancer will.

Don't just touch, feel him.

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I'll try. I am sensual but shy also. Thank you for being with me 🙂 He is an American and I am just another Indian woman who recently moved to US. No idea how things work in the US and I had no idea also that one day I will want to have sex with an American man too. But I genuinely love him 🙂

Someday when I won't be able to tolerate it anymore, I will either go and say it on his face or will quietly leave.