Playing hot/cold games...

That's what's happening to me these days, since last week I've really opened up to him and truly told him about how i felt about him, how much i truly liked him and now... it's exactly it THE HOT/COLD game... One day he's around me like a bee over honey and the next he's distant, nice, but distant, and i didn't say anything but reacted to it, his distance and he noticed so he got a little scared i guess and came closer to "let me know" that everything's ok... i asked him is everything alright? and he gave me a sweet smile and a wink "oh yeeees!" so i took it as is and i believe everything is fine...

BUT SHOULD I? is it really just the hot/cold game?

So anyone out there would like to say something? anyone's opinion?

Stop worrying 😉

Stop worrying!? you people drive me crazy with your games! I have to break my head!

If he is a cancer he is not playing games. His mind is prone to more frequent mood changes than anyone of us experience. My husband of 5 years is a cancer man. My ex-lover was too a cancer. Stop thinking and start loving. That's what he does.

Absolutley. It doesn't mean a sudden lack of intrest, its just what we experience from time to time.

Cafrella...

When I do the hot/cold thing, it is usually in response to the person that I am interested in. For instance, if we have been talking everyday then all of a sudden you are to busy to talk to me, I will withdraw thinking that you are no longer interested or whatever.

Also going on what 19eleven says, we ARE prone to mood changes and one minute we might think you are our TOTAL soulmate...the next we hate your guts. Sorry, it's just the way it is!

CL/Cm2

It's a cancer thing. Must be a leo thing to analyze EVERYTHING?! you're gonna go nuts woman! People have phases, relationships have phases, that's all...

Cancerlady...
I do the hot/cold thing, it is usually in response to the person that I am interested in. For instance, if we have been talking everyday then all of a sudden you are to busy to talk to me, I will withdraw thinking that you are no longer interested or whatever.

Yes he does that ALL the time... last week he comes to see me and my girlfriend shows up at me desk too, i had called her to come and see me to tell HER something so she shows up at my desk and says "yes?" i said to her "I'll tell you in a minute" HE says to me "ok and I 'll leave so you can tell her!" But AFTER that... he was all distant, he was about to leave for the day and he stopped and chatted with a friend for a good 10 minutes... then he walks over to me and says... I'll see you tomorrow, bye... and walks off... I KNOW it bothered him, that I made him feel like an outcast or something... but the next day I spoke to him and apologized... and he did admit it bothered him... you seee!!!?

DOES HE HAVE TO TAKE EVERYTHING LIKE THAT? Like a small child sometimes! when i don't see or hear from him... i know it's because of something i did, something i said...

LOL Cafrella...That is SOOOO me, it is ridiculous!

Look on the bright side though...at least you know the BASIS of his mood swings!

LOL I guess i'm not doing so bad after all at figuring out you Cancer people! Now i just have to be very sensitive which i think i can do! I will make mistakes sometimes... but I'm learning at same time...!!
Thanks Cancerlady for your help!