Sagittarius woman stay attracting cancer men..WHY?

I'm a sag that stays attracting cancer men...LOL...I have a cancer that I been with 4 12 years now and I also have a cancer I been cheating with 4 THE LAST 3 YEARS...AND LET ME TELL U MY HANDS IS FULL...THE MOOD SWINGS DRIVES ME CRAZY...AND THEY BOTH SO DAMN SENSITIVE I LITERALLY GOT WATCH WHAT I SAY 2 THEM BOTH CAUSE IM SO DAMN BLUNT AND I STAY HURTING THEY FEELINGS...my cancer that I lives with he's a fucking emotional wreck clingy jealous and possessive one min he happy the next he sad and he also have his silent moments he always bringing up old shit he dwells on the past we barely agree on anything I do admit I'm very stubborn and spoil and set n my ways and he so stubborn..i really do love him...now my other cancer he's 10yrs younger then me I'm 35 and he 25...now with him its a sex thing ...now I don't call him or text him at all whenever we do something he initiate it so the other day we have sex and now he wants more then sex ...smh I'm so confused ...2 crabby crabs...don't know what 2 do

lol

Yuck!!

Please tell me you have a very good OB/GYN.

please tell me your tits is not yo best asset.....REALLY!!!!LOL NEGATIVE BITCH!!!!!

That's me, negativity all the way. Have a good day woman.

I SEE U BITCHES WANTA PLAY WIT FIRE....GONE GET THAT ASS BURNED FUCKING WIT ME!!!

LOL You came on a public forum and admitted you were shagging two men. What did you expect exactly, a rousing chorus of hand clapping and a cookie? Well done you, you can spread your legs.

NAW...BUT THANKS 4 THE COMMENT 🙂

Oh I love this thread. I do. I do. I really do. 😉

I is NO sure wjhat is i read, u no him in universiti??

Posted by Claro de Luna
Seriously, you have to pass a basic moral decency in character and literacy/ intelligence test before recieving any help around here. Try coming back when you're pretty much a different person altogether. Same goes for Coumari.

I got a intelligence test 4 your ass....and here it goes KISS MY BLACK ASS!!!! HA

Smh. You are a lowly woman. Period! I agree with the OB/GYN comment. I really do hope you have a good one. I know your vagina has a lot of miles but your self woth and dignity has to be totally worn out. Then you come on here thumb thuggin'! Ha! I will be nice and give you a clue...Stop being a loose whore.

Posted by cancerlovestaurus
Smh. You are a lowly woman. Period! I agree with the OB/GYN comment. I really do hope you have a good one. I know your vagina has a lot of miles but your self woth and dignity has to be totally worn out. Then you come on here thumb thuggin'! Ha! I will be nice and give you a clue...Stop being a loose whore.

*shrugged shoulders* 🙂

Love yourself. Learn how. You deserve it.

Perhaps you just love that sweet Cancer lovin'. Sag can you post your chart? The answer is likely to be in your chart. If you don't know just list your exact birthdate and time of birth. I'm guessing you have Cancer in Mars or a watersign in Mars. I attract a lot of Aries and my Mars is in Aries. Have you tried another fire sign, like Leo or Aries?

Posted by LunarMaiden
Perhaps you just love that sweet Cancer lovin'. Sag can you post your chart? The answer is likely to be in your chart. If you don't know just list your exact birthdate and time of birth. I'm guessing you have Cancer in Mars or a watersign in Mars. I attract a lot of Aries and my Mars is in Aries. Have you tried another fire sign, like Leo or Aries?

my mars in sag..and no i have never dated a aries..i have dated a leo and my first love was a libra and oh did he break my heart...and i said to myself i will never let another person break my heart...thats the worst feeling ever it took me years to get over him thats probaly why i am the way i am...

OMG I had a huge heartbreak last year over a Libra. I have Sag strong in my chart which may be why it was such a tough break. We discussed marriage and he was the first guy I ever saw myself having children with. But I finally understood we were not right for each other. After some thought I also recognized I was not truly happy with him. And we lacked the sensual chemistry that I desire. When a guy does not show initiative I let them go.

Do you know what your house of partnership is? My sister keeps telling me Gemini is in my house of partnership, there is a Gemini guy who always wants to meetup with me but I avoid him. I like him alot though. I understand you wanting to avoid heartache but we are meant to go through these things. It helps us grow as human beings and it should give us more insight into finding the right partner. Perhaps you should ask yourself if you are truely happy in these relationships. You are meant to be loved, you just need to be open for the right guy and avoid the wrong ones. You deserve to be happy. A Cancer/Sag relationship is tough. Fire-Water, unless the guy has a lot of Sag in his chart. I read some time ago, that a Sag girl will date a Cancer man when she is kind of in a depressed down state so this could be why you are attracting/CHOOSING Cancer men. Cancer men can be very flattering to a woman's ego but in the long run you may not be emotionally suited for each other. Unless your moon is in water. Do you think you choose Cancer men because you know they won't break your heart?

If you are not in love with either I say, perhaps spend some time on your own for a bit. Date a little (platonic) and see if you can find a guy you don't have to play mental gemnastics with. Good luck hon.

True because when i met my cancer of 12yrs yes I was depressed doing that time... remind you i just got over a heartbreak that took 4yrs to get over and my other problem i was the only one in my circle living the single life...and god they boyfriends hated me..lol..dont no why but they did...so i said to myself why not give my cancer a try he's very good looking wears the nicest expensive clothes and god his cologne...but he was so sweet and nice to me gave me whatever i ask for and he still do..and i do love him..now the other cancer i was also depressed when i met him...this when my cancer of 12yrs just all of a sudden start doing his disapearing acts he go out of town and be gone for weeks...i didnt say nothing at first cause hell i liked the space he was giving me atleast i thought... then it just start happenig more in more his going out of town where his family lives..so me and the other cancer got closer i basicly used him for comfort and company in the begining and i guess him seeing that i needed him made him want me more and it happened its been 3yrs...and i do love him...i dont know i have tried to end it with him to he wont let go neither one will...i must say it is true what they say about cancer men once they have there claws on you they feel you belong to them for life...and to answer your question about the breaking my heart part no but i think the cancer of 3yrs will cause he is 10yrs younger then me..so thats why i still have my guards up with him

Here's basically the lesson you have to learn -
Don't ever screw around with someone's heart because you're depressed and need them for comfort.

You're in this situation now because you've used these men for superficial means. I personally think its karma.

i am also a sagittarius who seems to be drawn to cancer men recently, though as much as i wanted to, the connections didn't result in relationships.

i feel deeply for a cancer man about a year ago and it seemed to be moving in the direction of us getting together but, he said that i scared him away.

i don't know my exact chart but that's three cancer men in a short period of time that i had been drawn to.

my birthday is november 28, 1979 and i was born in winnipeg, manitoba, canada at 04:50 am.

does anyone have any insight into why i am drawn to the cancer men (but they don't seem to really be drawn to me)?

it's been a very painful pattern..

this can't be real life...

Posted by littlearcher
i am also a sagittarius who seems to be drawn to cancer men recently, though as much as i wanted to, the connections didn't result in relationships.

i feel deeply for a cancer man about a year ago and it seemed to be moving in the direction of us getting together but, he said that i scared him away.

i don't know my exact chart but that's three cancer men in a short period of time that i had been drawn to.

my birthday is november 28, 1979 and i was born in winnipeg, manitoba, canada at 04:50 am.

does anyone have any insight into why i am drawn to the cancer men (but they don't seem to really be drawn to me)?

it's been a very painful pattern..

its all about the charm 🙂 they cant resist it