Scorpio Gal needs serious help to get cancer man

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by scorpiogal78 on Tuesday, April 30, 2013 and has 10 replies.

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@scorpiogal78
13 Years

Have some serious chemistry (not just chemistry, atually, but *soul* chemistry) with this Cancer man. Have known him for ten months. He gives me these looks and smiles and is honest and friendly. But cannot seem to break into his shell. Although my friends say he really likes me (and to be honest I can read it in his body language, which comes naturally to me, being a scorpio) but unless i text or facebook him, I get little contact. I really have a strong sixth sense kind of feeling about him, but I just cannot seem to get with him. Can someone pls help with advice? Anything really! I feel like he's someone special in my life... if only we could get together!!

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@scorpiogal78
13 Years

Hi guys... thanks for the help.... have tried hinting that we should meet up, but he is not taking the bait. not sure if something else is going on with him at the moment though... but I did get a very sure feeling that there was some interest on his part. don't think that cancerians are for subtlelty though....

Any smart ideas to get his attention?

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@incandescentcancer
14 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by scorpiogal78
Hi guys... thanks for the help.... have tried hinting that we should meet up, but he is not taking the bait. not sure if something else is going on with him at the moment though... but I did get a very sure feeling that there was some interest on his part. don't think that cancerians are for subtlelty though....

Any smart ideas to get his attention?

Oh FFS!! you're a scorp sun with sag rising, asking him out for a coffee extra dark.....lol.

Cancers are very much for subtlety scorpy....he knows you want him to ask you out so you have control ๐Ÿ˜‰. we know the games scorpy..bahahaha

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@incandescentcancer
14 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by LunarMaiden
Posted by incandescentcancer
Posted by LunarMaiden
If a man wants to take you out, he will ask you out.
If he isn't taking the bait, he may be involved with someone or not interested.

Ahhh...Ms. Conservative ๐Ÿ˜›

Is it conservative to think that after 10 months of eyeballing that a guy hasn't asked you out for a reason?

How have you been IC? ๐Ÿ™‚

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The question is why were you waiting 10 months if you like him too? Hey, you're just asking him out for coffee right, no cause for him to think you're too forward m'lady? ๐Ÿ˜›

I am doing fine, spending some time with family etc. Better weather and all that.

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@scorpiogal78
13 Years

Hello everyone and THANKS soooo much for your input!

Actually what i read about Scorps and Cancers turns out to be right. He is really just veeeerryyyy shy! He is warming up to me big time and has also mentioned meeting, tentatively.

I can read body language (as a scorpio, among other things) and he was totally focusing on my and showing positive body language. Now he has 'created' a reason to meet up!

sugaries, thanks for the encouragement

incandescentcancer, thanks for reminding me that I should not be shy and should just be MYSELF ๐Ÿ™‚

Rapunzel - there were sexy stares both ways, to be honest ๐Ÿ˜‰

LunarMaiden - I get where you're coming from, but until very recently, I wasn't sending him the right signals as i nad to clear my head.

Will keep you posted!

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@Rapunzel
13 Years

As attractive & fun as crab men are, they get so shy around the girl they like. Some of them are bold, but there are some that are just downright nervous! Lol. Personally the shy ones are the sexiest.

Thats great he wants to meet up with you. Just yourself & show him you're interested, but not too aggressively. Good luck ๐Ÿ™‚