So you wanna date a...Cancer

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by LunarMaiden on Thursday, July 18, 2013 and has 11 replies.

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me IC!

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by pisceanpisces

She said: 'oh, he is not my future-husband'.

Hahahhaha....I have caught myself looking at a girl with the "mother of my children" glasses at times 😛

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Yes but sometimes you can think this initially, then that person ends up growing on you. Likewise, you can completely think someone is for you, and in your head you're making babies. Then they turn out to be what you didn't really want at all.

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Posted by FieryBullette
You're welcome IC!

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by pisceanpisces

She said: 'oh, he is not my future-husband'.

Hahahhaha....I have caught myself looking at a girl with the "mother of my children" glasses at times 😛

Yes but sometimes you can think this initially, then that person ends up growing on you. Likewise, you can completely think someone is for you, and in your head you're making babies. Then they turn out to be what you didn't really want at all.

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Amen to that....it really does work both ways. It has a lot to do with our (cancer) tendency to dream/romanticize rather than seeing things as they are practically. Moon in Cancer are likelier tio do this.

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Posted by pisceanpisces

Yes but sometimes you can think this initially, then that person ends up growing on you. Likewise, you can completely think someone is for you, and in your head you're making babies. Then they turn out to be what you didn't really want at all.

This is why I handled it as a compliment when once a cancer told me that I could be the mother of his children... I liked that a lot...

That was definitely a compliment.

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Posted by CluelessCancer
but i think it's unfair that i have to see my coworkers everyday 5 days a week yet the person i'm in love with less than that.

seems weird...

Huge difference, you SEE/TALK to your coworkers, you get to KNOW your lover. The emotional investment is vastly different, that's why it doesn't pay to go all in.