The dance to gaining a cancers trust... (Page 2)

I wanna keep him the question is....does he wanna be kept! =)I'm not giving up on him...I haven't yet which means I'm in for the long haul....I just need to vent sometimes, bitch & whine cause he has the ability to turn me into this loney tune girl I don't know & I don't wanna know! Of course I keep it under wraps! Only dxp gets to experience the wacky side of me!....=)

he can sense that there is a dxp somewhere in your life.

and yes whatever he does you should accept, that is, if you two are not in a defined relationship. He just want's to see what you can handle. And if you pass the test he'll make up for the love he's not showing now and will devote his life to you. The amount of confusion now will be inverted into the amount of love, clarity, and dedication he will show if you two get together. So either way its a winning scenario, you just have to keep playing it and its true value will indeed materialize, whether that be through the relationship or and improved life through other means.

Keep dancing, because no matter what you're on the stage. And don't ever think he's not dancing with you. Believe me, he's working up a sweat

@SunScorp...OMG!if he even knew anything about postings on this site or that I seek the crabs advice on any level I'd be so embarrassed...I'd find a shell to hide in!!! And I'm a scorp! Hehehe =) I found out about dxp on accident while trying to get inside of my crabs shell! We are not in a defined relationship but its not a casual one either...while getting to know eachother in the beginning we talked about alot of important little details that I don't feel any one of us had to lie about...so he really doesn't strike me as the type of man who is out having casual flings,sex etc. But when it gets quiet my imagination gets the better half of me & can roam wild sometimes..I'm guessing I affiliate these thoughts due to knowing when I feel the way I do about him I would much rather spend more time with him instead of disappearing and giving the silent treatment for no reason at all..things like this can make any girls imagination wonder! I know I'm no exception! He told me once one of the qualities he was looking for was someone who would stick by his side in good times & in bad...I've done that for a lonnng time now when someone else would have ran away along time ago...he knows, I know he does. Even when I've asked him to leave me alone I was still by his side..mind,body, heart & soul. Since I've met him I can't seem to see past him..I've tried cause I don't want to end of hurt..to no avail=) "Keep dancing, because no matter what you're on the stage. And don't ever think he's not dancing with you. Believe me, he's working up a sweat" I love that you said this! In my heart I know its him..and once this girl has her mind made up there's no swaying...I'm hoping I'm her =) luv the input sunscorp..it helps me understand the things I just can't seem to grasp...still dancing with my crab...the stage is the only spot I want with him...its where I belong!..=)

Posted by shellshocker
^^ i'm not judging you, it's not the action and ya... I know what hooking up means.

there is nothing wrong with getting drunk and hooking up.

what you are doing is...you are painting the scorpio out as being the stalker when you decided to have some fun with him. chicks use alcohol as an excuse all the time, it's just a justification when they go a bit further than what is considered, 'good girl.'

and spare me the whole 'you were so disgusted by your actions bit'... you did it twice. and then you go around and say that the guy took ADVANTAGE of you. *red flag* sweetie.

a cancer will also remember everything in detail, so if you are with one and like to forget details to get yourself out of a sticky situation, they will remember.

i don't care if you are a good girl, a party girl or a scank... i like all kinds of people.

except bullshitters...

took the words right out of my mouth....and yes cancers WILL remember any and EVERYTHINGGGGG

I get this from the cancer....they have an excellent memory...which has proved to be a good thing on my behalf! Since when I'm interested or in love I pay attention to alll the details and have been able to repeat or bring up such lil details he's shared soo long ago...he won't say it but the look is like...wow...she pays attention...the only time he said it was when I wished him a happy bday for the first time...it was almost a year after we met and he had told me and never mentioned it again...he told me I got lotts of brownie points in otherwords for remembering...it was an important date for me...so I would not have forgot!