The Unfortunate Unhappy Ending

Kate - DAM! I know that was SUPER HARD!!!! Kuddos to you! There does come a time when we need to throw in the towel. We love these men but we need to love ourselves more!

If we do not love ourselves how on God's green earth can we expect a man to love us. Way to go, Kate!!!! What strength!

I hate to say it..but maybe this is what your Cancer needs to get him out of his "custy butt" shell. Maybe, maybe not. But you did it for the right reason. Not to get a reaction out of him, or to make him chase you, but to gain control, peace of mind and take you life back and live it how YOU want to! That's awesome!

Well you got us! I know we are the sloppiest of seconds compared to your Cancer. But just stay strong...and remember everything happens for a reason. My grandmother would say, "when god shuts a door in your life, he opens a window". You never know what life has out there for you! Maybe your Cancer man needs this to get some sense in the rock hard shell of his, or this happened to move him out of the way to bring someone better into your life! 🙂 You never know. But be proud of yourself, you made the first really big and difficult step!!

kate good for you. i know it is tough but you did do the right thing for yourself. don't ever compromise your happiness and don't ever let anyone steal your joy..

Amen precher Cansir!!! Amen!! LOL. 😉

alleluia alleluia :-)

I feel the spirit!!!!

see it as a wonderful opportunity to transition and NEVER go backwards....that only defeats the purpose of the struggle of growth.

Gosh people in general (not just Cancers) need to learn how to LET GO of the past!!! Holding onto the past and holding onto feelings of hurt that someone imposed upon you once upon a time, just helps to continue to give them the victory. Thats what I told my Cancer. When you allow someone's actions from the past to negatively affect your present and future you are allowing them to control your life...its almost as if they never left!

Its so sad!

He will probably come running back...thats my guess. But not 100% sure.

i think he is going to take his time and ponder what you wrote. believe me he will continually go back to that email and read each word over and over. not only as a cancer but as a man he is going to analyze the situation. i am sure he will be back but it migh take him a little time to really get the jest of what you are telling him. but he does seem like a stubborn old crab so you just need to live your life and not worry about his next move. you made yours so continue down that path and don't look back..